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lelephant1
July 3rd, 2014, 03:17 PM
...as 1st attempt gets closer? I am getting really worried my sway isn't good enough as AF is coming to an end and my 1st attempt gets closer. What if I didn't do enough? I really wish I had a crystal ball.

txmomof3beautifulboys
July 3rd, 2014, 03:26 PM
I know how you feel. This will be baby #4...three previous boys...first ever sway. I know Atomic says stop obsessing...but it's hard, isn't it?! I guess I've decided that I'm doing everything I can and it will either work or not, but I"ll be blessed either way! (Still hard not to wonder "what if I did this, or what if I did that though LoL ) Good Luck to you!

Hopingforaprincess
July 3rd, 2014, 04:56 PM
I think that's why I pushed my attempt out so that way by the time it comes I'm not as nervous and obsessing over whether it will work or not. I'm also not necessarily in a big rush to get pregnant.

keepthefaith
July 3rd, 2014, 07:10 PM
Yup terrifies me as I'm such a bloomin overanalyser so wonder if will spoil all my hard sway work!

lelephant1
July 3rd, 2014, 09:52 PM
Sometimes I feel great about it. Most of the time I feel like I'm not working hard enough or eating too much.

2blue1pink
July 3rd, 2014, 11:54 PM
Yes! I had initially wanted to try in July but now that af is here I am second guessing it!

SamS_TTCPink
July 4th, 2014, 11:07 AM
Atomic said to me once "there will never be a perfect month" and it stuck in my head. She is so right, we could put off attempting every month because we had too many cheats or missed exercise or ran out of a supplement or the moon wasn't right....and that month we choose not to attempt, is the month we might miss getting pg with our DG.

I know it's hard, I got my BFP today and I'm freaking that my sway wasn't enough, but have faith that you did all you could with life happening as well, and a perfect sway doesn't even come with guarantees and there's always that chance of a GD and whatever swaying you've done, whether 110% or not quite, has still increased your chances! 😊👍