Simply Overwhelmed

[Jeanniebabi82]

I have no idea where to start with my pink sway. I am very overwhelmed with all of the information here and on ingender.com. We have two little boys Jj 7 years old and Reilly 20 months. In between Jj and Reilly we lost a set of twins. Actually we lost them and 4 months later we were pregnant with my little Rye. The pregnancy didn't come easy. I was high risk due to my type II diabetes and the doctors found a cystic hygroma around week 10. I had a CVS and a ton of other procedures, scans, you name it. Reilly was born a very healthy baby boy.

Now we would love a baby girl. My husband is 1 of 3 boys. Most of the children born into his family are boys. He has a female cousin in her 40's, one in her 20's and one under 10 years old. Those are the only girls.

Please help me navigate my journey.

[Mrsandmama]

Get a personalized sway plan from Atomic- Trust me. I was the type that had no time for ANYTHING. I bought the plan, let Atomic do her magic and within a week you receive it. It's so easy to follow! Word of advice though, give yourself at least 12 weeks on the plan, longer is better.

[Jeanniebabi82]

What is the cost of the plan?

[Mrsandmama]

6 months is $79

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php

[Adia]

Atomic's personalized plan are worth every penny!
Cuts out the chaos for you and that is a GOOD thing for a pink sway.

[Jeanniebabi82]

Adia did you buy it?

[carmella_marie]

Just got mine, it's awesome!

[nuthinbutpink]

That's why we created the Personalized Plan and Coaching service! Takes all the stress out. Gives you a plan AND private coaching with atomic where you get your own private forum and you can chat with her there. It's very cheap for the length of the plan and all the help you get.

[ratcliffe1811]

And if you can't afford a plan like poor me :sad: (darn saving for a mortgage!) a good bit of advice is get off in gender you'll confuse yourself more because they do the ye olde sway that isn't as successful or safe as the one here, yes I'm biased but I've done my homework :happy:

[TishTashTosh]

I would also recommend the plan - makes it so much easier to see what is important for you personally


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[Jeanniebabi82]

ratcliffe1811 we are saving for a new place as well.... I should also add that this will be our last child.

[Mrs_Incredible]

I swayed on ig 4 years ago and spent way more than $79 on rock salt lamps, magnets for my ovaries (!!!) and the other nonsense!! Supplements alone can get expensive and might not be relevant. A plan from atomic cuts out the trial and error and is tailored to you. And it stops the stress of "so and so did this, I'll add that in" magic bullet mentality, when it might not be relevant to your sway for whatever reason. Good luck xx
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[Jeanniebabi82]

I swayed on ig 4 years ago and spent way more than $79 on rock salt lamps, magnets for my ovaries (!!!) and the other nonsense!! Supplements alone can get expensive and might not be relevant. A plan from atomic cuts out the trial and error and is tailored to you. And it stops the stress of "so and so did this, I'll add that in" magic bullet mentality, when it might not be relevant to your sway for whatever reason. Good luck xx
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Thank you for the input. It's really overwhelming. I think I will buy a plan.

[atomic sagebrush]

Yay I found it, I was answering this when my internet shut off yesterday and then couldn't find it again.

So sorry to hear of your loss.

In my signature below there is a link to our Complete Index which has tons of info by topic. And I"m always happy to answer any specific questions, I just need a little more to go on than a general request for info. :)

The good news is, gender does not run in families (at least, not for genetic reasons) so no matter what your husband's family makeup, you can still get a girl.

[atomic sagebrush]

I help everyone regardless of their ability to pay, but you are going to have to do the legwork yourself and then ask me your specific questions. :)

[Jeanniebabi82]

Thanks Atomic... I can't wait to start a plan.

That loss... oh boy. More often than not when you see those pink lines you think okay I'm ready baby will be here in 9 months. When that doesn't happen you are just so devastated. I struggled but I was able to make it through and then Reilly had so many issues. Can you imagine after losing twins a doctor tells you hey there might be something really wrong with this current pregnancy? At 10 weeks my choices were very grim. It was either abort or wait until my baby dies on his own and have a D&C. Those were my choices. Thank god he made it... which is why I choose the name Reilly. Reilly means courageous. I felt with every heart beat he gave me the courage to keep hope alive.

[atomic sagebrush]

we are finding that doctors seem to be playing it a little too fast and loose with terminations and a recent study verified this. We've had several cases where people were told there was no hope only to end up with a perfectly normal healthy baby at the end of it and the recent study found that the number of medical terminations where the baby turned out to have nothing wrong with it was unacceptably high. I'm very happy that it worked out for you.

[Jeanniebabi82]

Atomic it caused so much friction within my family. Then right before I gave birth I explained to the doctor (not my regular OBGYN) my situation... he said and I quote "your baby had a possible cystic hygroma". I said possibly? I wanted to jump off the table and smack him. I felt as if I couldn't enjoy my pregnancy. We told everyone after the CVS results came back that he was fine but in the back of our minds we were terrified. He is amazing though...

http://oi59.tinypic.com/2nalfm1.jpg

[atomic sagebrush]

what a cutie! He looks tuff. ;)

[Adia]

Adia did you buy it?

I did....and I keep renewing because it is taking me so long, I have hormone issues & have to take breaks for months at a time for school.
It is nice to have someone who cares and will listen to my whining!

[Jeanniebabi82]

I did....and I keep renewing because it is taking me so long, I have hormone issues & have to take breaks for months at a time for school.
It is nice to have someone who cares and will listen to my whining!

Good luck!