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Abifasc
August 12th, 2014, 11:50 PM
I'm starting to get so nervous and I know you ladies will understand. I'm SO sure this baby is a girl and now I'm just scared that I'll be proven wrong and it will be a lot to swallow. I will definitely love a boy, but I imagine it'll feel like a kind of death to the daughter I think I have inside me. I'm praying for peace.

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oncue
August 13th, 2014, 12:39 AM
OMG Abi! How exciting and nerve wracking at the same time! It's so close now, I have a feeling she's a girl too but understand ur anxiety! Fingers crossed it's the new u want, and that bub is nice and healthy. We all know how it feels waiting to know. Hugs xox

kitkat18
August 13th, 2014, 03:00 AM
Likewise im feeling confident you got your girl!! But good luck honey I feel in exact same position desperate to find out, know I will love and cherish another boy but sad my girl dream is officially over!! Gosh!! We put ourselves through alot xxx
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foxymrsg
August 13th, 2014, 03:15 AM
I feel this is your girl too! Good luck for Monday will be thinking of you and yes all of us on this website feels the exact same as you! That's what I love about it there's no judgement from anyone as we are all in the same boat but think we are all genuinely happy when someone gets their DG! I'm frequently in tears of joy for someone on here as they've got their DG, or sorrow if it's not the news they expected, but I feel I'll be shedding happy tears for you Monday too Hun! If not know we are behind you 100% and feel your emotions at not hearing the news you wanted.
Anyway I've droned on! Yay Monday good luck again!!

Bigwish
August 13th, 2014, 04:59 AM
I so hope you hear girl!
And the waiting is just nervewrecking!

Abifasc
August 13th, 2014, 07:44 AM
Thank you so much. This is why I love this site...everyone is so encouraging! I'm cheering on all of you too :)

Little Lunasa
August 13th, 2014, 07:52 AM
Good luck! Hope it's your little girl cooking in there :)

Kittybear
August 13th, 2014, 09:03 AM
Wishing you the best of luck for your scan!! :) x

missxo143
August 13th, 2014, 09:10 AM
Wishing you the best of luck and hoping you have a babygirl in there!

atomic sagebrush
August 13th, 2014, 09:16 AM
No matter what happens, you can't lose. You either get a girl or another fantastic boy to love.

I totally understand where you're coming from though and wish you peace of mind.

Abifasc
August 13th, 2014, 09:26 AM
That's very true, Atomic! That's a great reminder.

Linzshine32
August 13th, 2014, 11:22 AM
Best of luck! I hope you get your girl!!

angielorna
August 13th, 2014, 11:51 AM
gender scan already? has the time flown by that quickly...wow.
positive thoughts and peaceful vibes being sent your way.
I'll tell you what I keep telling myself, baby is who baby is. Can't change it. In love already.

Good luck and I hope you hear pink :)
Angie

jmomof3girls
August 13th, 2014, 11:55 AM
OMG I bet you are sooo nervous. I'm nervous for you LOL!!! Did you have a strong feeling that your other 2 were boys?

Abifasc
August 13th, 2014, 12:23 PM
OMG I bet you are sooo nervous. I'm nervous for you LOL!!! Did you have a strong feeling that your other 2 were boys?

I felt from day 1 that my oldest was a boy, which I wanted. I thought my 2nd was a girl because the pregnancy was so opposite. But when I found out he was a boy I wasn't surprised. I've been pretty positive about this one being girl once I started throwing up at 5 weeks...I never have thrown up in pregnancy and rarely ever in normal life either.

Petal
August 13th, 2014, 12:35 PM
Good luck for your scan on Monday, really hope its what you wish for, however if it is a boy I can assure you he will be the apple of your eye, my ds3 is my little gd baby and it made our bond that much stronger :-)

jmomof3girls
August 13th, 2014, 12:40 PM
I got hardcore morning sickness with all 3 of my girls. I hope this is your girl.

Abifasc
August 13th, 2014, 12:53 PM
Good luck for your scan on Monday, really hope its what you wish for, however if it is a boy I can assure you he will be the apple of your eye, my ds3 is my little gd baby and it made our bond that much stronger :-)

I have absolutely no doubt he will be. My boys are my whole world!

Abifasc
August 13th, 2014, 12:53 PM
I got hardcore morning sickness with all 3 of my girls. I hope this is your girl.

That's encouraging, thank you!

Boysway
August 17th, 2014, 07:12 AM
Fingers crossed for a pink bundle :) As long as bub is healthy. How far away is Monday for you?

Abifasc
August 17th, 2014, 07:25 AM
Fingers crossed for a pink bundle :) As long as bub is healthy. How far away is Monday for you?

Tomorrow. I forgot everyone is in different time zones :) it's 7:30 am on Sunday right now and my appointment is 5:30 tomorrow!

MyByC
August 17th, 2014, 07:44 AM
Abifasc, GOOOOOD LUCK!!! Fingers crossed!

Abifasc
August 17th, 2014, 02:18 PM
Eeeeeek Thank you!!!!!

luckyfourleafclover
August 17th, 2014, 03:13 PM
praying you hear pink, but I know you will be ok either way

Marika
August 17th, 2014, 03:17 PM
Good luck tomorrow! Fx you hear pink (and I believe you will)!

Mrs_Incredible
August 17th, 2014, 03:23 PM
Good luck xx

granddaughter
August 17th, 2014, 03:59 PM
I have a feeling this is your girl, wishing you all the best

Abifasc
August 17th, 2014, 04:07 PM
Thank you everyone :) :)

foxymrsg
August 17th, 2014, 04:17 PM
Good luck tomorrow :)

MyByC
August 17th, 2014, 06:18 PM
Any news???

Abifasc
August 17th, 2014, 07:38 PM
Any news???

Not yet, still tomorrow.

monkeysnuffer
August 17th, 2014, 07:45 PM
Good luck! Isn't it so exciting

Abifasc
August 17th, 2014, 07:59 PM
Yes! One of the best days ever.

Two of a Kind
August 17th, 2014, 08:37 PM
All the very best, it's so exciting! I truly hope you hear Girl! :)

Boysway
August 17th, 2014, 10:40 PM
Everything crossed it's your little pink bundle :D

Mumof3girls
August 17th, 2014, 11:28 PM
Good Luck.

essnce629
August 18th, 2014, 02:08 AM
I'm pretty sure this is your girl! Good luck!

TishTashTosh
August 18th, 2014, 02:49 AM
Good luck x


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Flowergirl
August 18th, 2014, 03:10 AM
I felt from day 1 that my oldest was a boy, which I wanted. I thought my 2nd was a girl because the pregnancy was so opposite. But when I found out he was a boy I wasn't surprised. I've been pretty positive about this one being girl once I started throwing up at 5 weeks...I never have thrown up in pregnancy and rarely ever in normal life either.

Good luck Abi! I can't wait to hear your news. I had my obstetrician appointment today and my little one didn't want to reveal anything! I can't believe I still don't know!! The heart rate was 160 bpm so that's a teeny clue maybe? ;)

It's so funny how similar our three experiences have been. I knew from the moment I did the preg test my first was a boy. My second threw me off a bit though, was feeling more of a girl vibe with him and this time round I've been vomiting which I never normally do in pregnancy (or ever really!!) - I hope we both get our girls!! x

1+2+3boys
August 18th, 2014, 03:28 AM
I so hope to read many congrats on your girl comments very soon! Goodluck

jmomof3girls
August 18th, 2014, 01:30 PM
Thinking of you today!

mommymachine
August 18th, 2014, 01:31 PM
Today is the day! Thinking of you!

Abifasc
August 18th, 2014, 02:33 PM
Love you ladies!!! 3 HOURS!!!

kitkat18
August 18th, 2014, 03:25 PM
Good luck abi xx
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carmella_marie
August 18th, 2014, 04:43 PM
Anxiously waiting! Fingers crossed for you!

luckyfourleafclover
August 18th, 2014, 04:49 PM
me too….

babyb5
August 18th, 2014, 04:59 PM
My gender scan is on Thursday. I'm waiting.......

Boysway
August 18th, 2014, 05:03 PM
Not long now. I hope bub co-operates

keepthefaith
August 18th, 2014, 05:04 PM
Good luck x

Arimethia
August 18th, 2014, 05:09 PM
Crossing my fingers for you! :fx:

Dollydot
August 18th, 2014, 05:26 PM
Good luck!!

angielorna
August 18th, 2014, 05:31 PM
longest. three. hours. ever.
Cannot wait to hear!!!!
Angie

TishTashTosh
August 18th, 2014, 05:50 PM
3 hours is up!!


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jmomof3girls
August 18th, 2014, 06:03 PM
We're waiting!!

luckyfourleafclover
August 18th, 2014, 06:36 PM
off to bed now, will have to find out in the morning

coocoobananas
August 18th, 2014, 07:07 PM
Neve saw this thread! Good luck!!!
I knew what I saw at mine and was right and you were pretty confident too right?
Hope you get to finalize today what you already think you know;)

granddaughter
August 18th, 2014, 07:18 PM
waiting

Nahri
August 18th, 2014, 07:58 PM
wow I dont know whos more anxious us or you at this point spill the beans woman! lol

carmella_marie
August 18th, 2014, 08:33 PM
It's either a boy and she's mustering up the guts to tell us or a girl and she's buying everything pink in the store!

txmomof3beautifulboys
August 18th, 2014, 08:48 PM
Congrats Abi on the lil guy!

oncue
August 18th, 2014, 08:54 PM
Did that pic just appear under the first post or was it always there and I missed it??
If it did just appear, congrats Abi on ur gorgeous little boy! I'm sorry if u didn't hear girl, but I bet this little man has some exciting plans for you and ur family xx lots of love 😘

jmomof3girls
August 18th, 2014, 08:58 PM
It's either a boy and she's mustering up the guts to tell us or a girl and she's buying everything pink in the store!

True!! LOL!!

essnce629
August 18th, 2014, 09:04 PM
Ahhh Abi, sorry you didn't hear girl, but you gave it your all with your sway and your 3 little boys will be great together!!! That's a determined little guy you have in there! (((HUGS))) and congrats!!!

txmomof3beautifulboys
August 18th, 2014, 09:09 PM
p.s. Love your boys name, Abi! Blessings to you!

granddaughter
August 18th, 2014, 09:11 PM
Love the name, sorry you didn't hear girl, I am sure this is a special little guy

Marika
August 18th, 2014, 09:24 PM
Sorry you didn't hear girl Abi, but congrats on your little son! I understand it might be a little tough right now but I hope you are ok! As essnce said; he was determined and I think it will be great with a little brother for your sons!

Abifasc
August 18th, 2014, 09:29 PM
Did that pic just appear under the first post or was it always there and I missed it??
If it did just appear, congrats Abi on ur gorgeous little boy! I'm sorry if u didn't hear girl, but I bet this little man has some exciting plans for you and ur family xx lots of love 

I added it when I updated it :) he's all boy! I'm shocked and sad, but very happy at the same time.

Two of a Kind
August 18th, 2014, 09:42 PM
Congratulations on your newest little guy!! Adore his name x
Sending you blessings & peace, he was just " ment to be" x

LilithWiser1979
August 18th, 2014, 09:59 PM
Congrats on your sweet little boy, Abi! I agree, the name is awesome :)

I'm sorry you didn't hear girl, but after looking through your sway, I'm not sure there was anything more you could have done. Indeed, he was meant to be a part of your family. Hugs!

jmomof3girls
August 18th, 2014, 10:09 PM
Congrats abi! You have been blessed with 3 boys like I have with 3 girls. My 3rd daughter turned out to be the one that loves me the most. I couldn't picture life without her. You'll feel the same. Just curious, how many children do you want? Will this be your last?

hotdogz&boyz
August 18th, 2014, 10:35 PM
I bet you were so surprised! He really wanted to be a part of your family. And I also love his name. Micah is on our list too :) Congrats on your beautiful son. He looks handsome already!

Abifasc
August 18th, 2014, 10:47 PM
Congrats abi! You have been blessed with 3 boys like I have with 3 girls. My 3rd daughter turned out to be the one that loves me the most. I couldn't picture life without her. You'll feel the same. Just curious, how many children do you want? Will this be your last?

Hank you for that encouragement! I'm already excited just struggling with the shock. I thought he was our last but my husband is already talking about trying for another in hopes for a girl. So...we will have to take it a day at a time!

Abifasc
August 18th, 2014, 10:48 PM
I bet you were so surprised! He really wanted to be a part of your family. And I also love his name. Micah is on our list too :) Congrats on your beautiful son. He looks handsome already!

THank you! I've loved this name since boy#1 and I'm glad I get to use it :)

coocoobananas
August 18th, 2014, 11:32 PM
Congrats!!!! I just picked up my 3rd guy from my sisters and the greeting I got was amazing!!! He and I have something amazing and I'm not sure if it was cause he was my 'try for a girl' baby but it sounds like this is quite the norm around 3rd boys! It will all be right and where it should be when he's here:)

Flowergirl
August 19th, 2014, 12:05 AM
Congratulations on your precious Micah! Such a beautiful name for a determined & strong little boy :) I can imagine the roller coaster of emotions you are feeling & wish I could give you a big cuddle! As the other sweet mummy's have said, it sounds likes there is something "extra special" about the bond with #3 which I'm sure you wouldn't trade for the world when you get to experience it. In the meantime, we're all here for you if you need us xxx

trifecta
August 19th, 2014, 01:12 AM
Congratulations on your littlest boy! Micah is a beautiful name. The bond between brothers is so special and it will only get better as they get older. I bet your boys will have a wonderful childhood.

sweetdream
August 19th, 2014, 01:27 AM
Congrats on your beautifull boy! I was convinced you would hear pink!
But such a gorgeous name. I thought about that name last week.
And its true. Don't know what it is about that third boy but mine is an extreme mama's boy! And he's sweet cuddly and bold at the same time. I was in love the very first minute. I had a hard time anyone letting anyone else hold him when he was born!

He's the reason we tried for a fourth.

Kittybear
August 19th, 2014, 02:16 AM
Congratulations Hun on your newest little boy! They will adore growing up together in their little band of brothers! I hope you are dealing with the shock ok... I too swayed pink as best I could and thought so strongly that this buba in my (now very big) tummy was a girl and I was very shocked that 'she' was definitely all boy :) but I am convinced that they were meant to be; opposites have fought so hard to beat the odds that they must be so special, and wanted us to be their mummys so much... One day everything will make perfect sense, even if right now you can't quite see it clearly. Congratulations again on your beautiful boy xx x

kitkat18
August 19th, 2014, 02:52 AM
Congrats abi! He will be a very special brother and son for you. Your sway was amazing!! He was just determined to beat the odds to be your little guy. LOVE his name! Xx
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TishTashTosh
August 19th, 2014, 02:59 AM
Congratulations! What a cute pic and love the name :-)


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luckyfourleafclover
August 19th, 2014, 03:01 AM
you are giving your sons the greatest gift - another brother, play mate and best friend for life.

Petal
August 19th, 2014, 04:18 AM
Congrats on your little boy Abi x

Little Lunasa
August 19th, 2014, 05:17 AM
Congrats on your baby boy, he is definitely meant to be to make it through your sway! Beautiful name too :)


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Abifasc
August 19th, 2014, 07:24 AM
Thank you, all of you! It is truly amazing to just know my feelings are understood. I really love having boys and am very excited about Micah already but the loss of the daughter I bought I had is a surprising struggle. If we decide to have #4 I'll definitely be swaying and praying again. The anticipation to see if it worked has made the ttc and early pregnancy process a lot of fun!!

jmomof3girls
August 19th, 2014, 11:08 AM
Hank you for that encouragement! I'm already excited just struggling with the shock. I thought he was our last but my husband is already talking about trying for another in hopes for a girl. So...we will have to take it a day at a time!

That's great! Now you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy knowing that you still have one more chance for a girl.

maidentomother
August 19th, 2014, 11:50 AM
It sounds like DH has been very supportive and I think it's great you're considering a 4th. If this one were a girl, would you for sure be done or do you think you would still be entertaining the idea of another child?

Whatever happens, I hope you find only peace and happiness. Your family is so very lucky to have you.

Abifasc
August 19th, 2014, 12:26 PM
It sounds like DH has been very supportive and I think it's great you're considering a 4th. If this one were a girl, would you for sure be done or do you think you would still be entertaining the idea of another child?

Whatever happens, I hope you find only peace and happiness. Your family is so very lucky to have you.

This is his potty shot... A very proud boy :)

http://i59.tinypic.com/2hcnklg.jpg

I felt like this would be my last biologically, but we have always have had plans to foster to adopt. My husband never wanted sons, only daughters at first so we are both surprised by how extremely happy we are with being parents to our boys. I am one of 8 kids, so 4 is not a stretch. I'll have to revisit it and pray about whether I'll still long for a daughter with four sons if my next sway "fails". I don't feel like my gender disappointment is extreme this time, but I'll have to think about all that :)

Babybeaublue
August 19th, 2014, 02:10 PM
Congratulations! You have such a wonderful attitude you must be a fantastic mummy, and just think, you are getting what so many of us are hoping and praying for xxx

Navywife620
August 19th, 2014, 03:59 PM
I didn't believe everyone that three boys is so amazing but now that I have DS3 I finally understand how amazing it is. God knows what he is doing! :) He is my sweetest of them all! Congratulations

Abifasc
August 19th, 2014, 04:24 PM
I didn't believe everyone that three boys is so amazing but now that I have DS3 I finally understand how amazing it is. God knows what he is doing! :) He is my sweetest of them all! Congratulations

Aw thank you for that! I have been praying that God would give me peace to trust His plan for our family dynamic and I am feeling that. I LOVE having two boys so I'm sure three boys is just so much greater.

Junie
August 19th, 2014, 04:29 PM
I'm sorry you didn't hear girl but your sway was fantastic which makes me think this little guy was meant to be. Big hugs and congrats!!!!

Abifasc
August 19th, 2014, 04:54 PM
I'm sorry you didn't hear girl but your sway was fantastic which makes me think this little guy was meant to be. Big hugs and congrats!!!!

He was! That makes him extra special!

1+2+3boys
August 20th, 2014, 01:10 AM
Congratulations on your son. It is lovely to see you taking it so gracefully that you didn't get your Daughter. I love how you say you love having two boys so three will be even better. My three are so great together and I am so glad to have them all

MyByC
August 20th, 2014, 05:51 AM
Mmmy, congrats and huge hugs for you! If your hubby says, you need to try again and sure with lots of luck !!! This little guy cant wait to meet his mommy<3

3littleladies
August 20th, 2014, 09:13 PM
Congrats 3 of a kind is awsome, it will all make sense one day, I swayed really hard with my 3rd & I still got a girl, I really believe we get given what we're suppose to have, im sure he will be so beautiful.

Abifasc
August 20th, 2014, 09:31 PM
Thank you 3littleladies I believe that too.

iluvmy4sons
August 20th, 2014, 09:40 PM
Congratulations!!