12 week ultrasound - Please guess and help with gender disappointment

[Ufmommy]

Hello there! Here is a picture of my NT Scan at 12 weeks, 1 day. The tech made a guess but wasn't 100% sure since she couldn't get baby to lay perfectly on his/her back. I would really appreciate any guesses :)

I am also experiencing quite a bit of gender disappointment, even though nothing is for sure yet. I just feel like my dream and vision for my family has died. And I have extreme guilt for feeling this way... It's been a rough day... When I should be nothing but happy.

[nuthinbutpink]

HI there. 12 weeks is still early. By the looks of it, I'm guessing the tech said boy. We saw a nub like this recently and I thought for sure it was a boy but I was wrong. So, nub guessing is just that- guessing. Good luck with your pregnancy.

[Francine]

I'd guess a boy, but you are only 12 weeks so take my guess with a grain of salt :)

[kaseybaby]

That looks like a boy nub, but nub guessing is only a guess. So try not to be too disappointed.

[kitkat18]

Don't be too hard on yourself! We have all been thereX
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[maidentomother]

It does look very boyish but if the positioning wasn't right then you can't be sure. Plus, it's still so early.

[Petal]

Im guessing boy too, its not concrete of course!! id wait until at least 16 weeks for a gender scan to be sure x x

[True Blue]

Guess boy

[Abifasc]

Looks boy, but it also seems pretty big to me for 12 weeks. Don't get too sad until you get another scan.

[Ufmommy]

Thank you everyone! I really appreciate all of your guesses - even though it's not what I want to hear.
I'm trying to accept a boy. I just ache so so badly for a little girl. We know for sure baby is 12 weeks because I had induced ovulation - so we know the exact date. :)
Thanks again! I'll be sure to update once we know for sure!

[kitkat18]

Come and join our due date group ufmommy we are a super supportive group! March/april/may xxxx
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[lfc_sarah]

It does look boyish, sorry that it's not what you wanted x


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[Ufmommy]

Thank you ladies! I think it's just going to take some time. I only cried twice in Costco yesterday... Maybe I should stay out of public for a while, haha. :)