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BabyCakes
October 11th, 2014, 03:39 PM
Hi All,

I am so fricken excited! I just got a +OPK after 2 miscarriages back to back!

Can you please help with your advice.

I DTD this AM (4 days from the last), and then got the +OPK at 8pm tonight! I am ttc PINK...

Should I do another attempt tomorrow morning? or just leave it as so?

I am so scared that the sperm will all die and I wont have a chance to conceive.

Your thoughts or reassurance?

atomic sagebrush
October 11th, 2014, 03:44 PM
No just stick with the attempt you had. The sperm can live for many days.

BabyCakes
October 11th, 2014, 03:53 PM
Atomic!! I am so scared!! Should I take the Zrytec now to dry up? increase sweeteners? Anything between now and the next day? any of your great insight?

thank you thank you thank you

BIG BIG hug,

ps. My sway was not meant to go like this.. I feel very unprepared..

Just painted my removed nail polish and re-painted my nails :)

sweetdream
October 11th, 2014, 05:30 PM
Just relax! Stick with diet for a few days! And dtd again in 4 days just in case. Keep doing what your doing and chill!
Sending sticky pink dust!

True Blue
October 11th, 2014, 05:34 PM
Best of luck and lots of pink dust ~*~*~*

BabyCakes
October 11th, 2014, 05:36 PM
I wish could dtd in 4 days time but I fly to canada tomorrow morning.... without DH.... I will be there for a while so I have a couple hrs to make a decision.:think:

This is the reason I feel nervous (dont way blue- dont sway blue) because I want to ensure enough sperm to conceive happy thoughts happy thoughts :)

Atomic says spem will live....so I will pass on another attempt.

Thanks all! Appreciate your input SO much!

True Blue
October 11th, 2014, 05:39 PM
I wouldn't do anything more now :)

BabyCakes
October 11th, 2014, 05:44 PM
Okay! Its a deal <3

Thanks so much for your help!

BabyCakes
October 11th, 2014, 06:26 PM
Hi Ladies,

I just want to confirm I totally get this... sorry for being so ridiculous! I just NEVER ovulate and so...I am so worried about missing out on a chance.

Just to clarify from my last thread on "lowering sperm count" Atomic said that I cound BD every 4 days and BD after a release 1hr prior.

If I BD after a release 1hr prior tomorrow morning, would that increase my chances of conceiving but still sway pink?

THANKS SO MUCH!!! ON MY WAY TO CATCH MY FLIGHT IN 5 HRS from Europe to Canada! Its all crazy timing!

True Blue
October 11th, 2014, 06:47 PM
More than one attempt as far as I'm aware will increase the chance of blue - I hope someone else can chime in here. If I was swaying pink I personally would be happy with the one attempt at +opk.

Little Lunasa
October 11th, 2014, 06:58 PM
One attempt worked for me! My advice is to do nothing more except think positive thoughts :)


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BabyCakes
October 11th, 2014, 11:33 PM
Thanks so much for everybodies input! On my way to catch my flight---

atomic sagebrush
October 12th, 2014, 09:04 AM
No, you should not do Zyrtec after having an attempt.

No use in increasing artificial sweeteners.

atomic sagebrush
October 12th, 2014, 09:06 AM
seriously, do not have another attempt. every batch of sperm has 10's to 100's of millions of sperm in it.

FEeling nervous does not sway blue. Obsessing about whether or not to have another attempt, may. So just stick with what you did and put it out of your head and enjoy your trip!

atomic sagebrush
October 12th, 2014, 09:11 AM
Hi Ladies,

I just want to confirm I totally get this... sorry for being so ridiculous! I just NEVER ovulate and so...I am so worried about missing out on a chance.

Just to clarify from my last thread on "lowering sperm count" Atomic said that I cound BD every 4 days and BD after a release 1hr prior.

If I BD after a release 1hr prior tomorrow morning, would that increase my chances of conceiving but still sway pink?

THANKS SO MUCH!!! ON MY WAY TO CATCH MY FLIGHT IN 5 HRS from Europe to Canada! Its all crazy timing!

That is not what I said in that thread and I clarified it, so go back and reread.

STICK WITH ONE ATTEMPT. Stick with one attempt. Stick with one attempt. Stick with one attempt.

BabyCakes
October 12th, 2014, 09:27 PM
Thanks so much Atomic!!! I did stick with one! It was so hard :)

I GREATLY appreciate your advice.

No Zyrtec and no sweeteners either...

Thank you so VERY much. :bighug:

I guess I actually have a shot this month. Thats at least exciting. Moving to the 2ww.

Praying for pink dust xoxoxox

Sp4rkl3s
October 13th, 2014, 08:07 AM
I had this exact same worry last month.. We DTD the night before positive OPK so great timing, then I panicked that once wouldn't be enough and added an extra attempt, then regretted it.
We got a BFN anyway, so will be trying again next week.
Have a great trip. Fingers crossed for you!

BabyCakes
October 15th, 2014, 12:21 AM
Thanks so much sparkles!! I hope hope hope....

GL with your attempt! I have no advice because I didnt do a very good sway :)

xoxoxoxo