Boy or girl

[LittleBabyJones]

Please help

[True Blue]

What gestation?

[LittleBabyJones]

Would that be the due date or my last period

[txmomof3beautifulboys]

how far along are you in this pic is what shes asking...how many weeks

[LittleBabyJones]

13 weeks

[MyByC]

I lean girl.

[bunnywabbit]

13 weeks is too soon to tell from a potty shot - they'll look the same at this stage. Do you have any other pictures?

[PrimalMamma]

As bunnywabbit says, a potty shot isn't accurate at 13 weeks. Do you have anything showing baby side on?

[LittleBabyJones]

I have this one, and thank you so much for the awesome feedback!

[Boom]

I would guess boy from the profile shot

[PrimalMamma]

I THINK I see a nub in that photo, if I do it appears to be sticking up so I guess boy.

[LittleBabyJones]

Is it bad to be a little sad to not get what you hoped for? Although im so blessed to be having this child

[Mrs_Incredible]

Not at all. That's whats brought most of us to this site. We know we're lucky to have a healthy baby. We're lucky for the children we have. But we're also allowed to want a particular gender, for whatever reason, it doesn't make us bad people, it doesn't mean we don't love our children ... We just also want what our hearts desire. Hugs xx

[LittleBabyJones]

That makes me feel so much better, I've felt so guilty because when the doctor said it was 70% girl I was crushed. I wasnt as excited as I have been since I found out I was pregnant. And my fiancee's mother was in the room and could tell I was upset. Im scared to have a girl. I was raped at a young age and no matter what I will always worry myself sick. I didn't want to bring up a daughter in this sick world. I would be so happy if I went back on my 15 weeks gender scan they told me a boy. I know I will love my child no matter what. Im so happy that I have the chance to experience motherhood I just need to cope with this gender thing.

[MyByC]

Sweetheart, no matter what the gender is, God gave you "her"-"him" with a purpose. God knows what suits you best and what you are made for at this moment of your life.
If it's a girl then she'll be stronger and special because she has a mother like you. You'll teach and prepare her for life better then anyone.
Do not feel guilty, upset or bad because of your hard experience you lived years ago.
God gave her with a reason. Everything happends for a reason in life.
Be happy you have a healthy baby and ALWAYS stay positive.
Let us know what doctor says next.
Hugs❤️

[Boom]

Is it bad to be a little sad to not get what you hoped for? Although im so blessed to be having this child

It's not even bad to be a LOT sad. Most of us have experienced that.
And given your reasons you've got more right than us anyway!
Congrats on your pregnancy, and you will be a great mum to a girl or boy as you obviously care very much xxxx

[LittleBabyJones]

Thankyou so much to you wonderful mothers with awesome inspiring feedback. I feel more support here than anywhere. The kind words have given me a little more confidence and im coping with the fact that I probably have a girl more and more. It makes my fiancee upset so I try not to talk about it with him or anyone else for that matter because I know not everyone is as understanding as you all.

[LittleBabyJones]

I also have this one

[PrimalMamma]

I think it's totally natural to have ties to a particular gender. Gender desire has nothing to do with love or being a good or bad parent. I love my 2 sons very much & will love my new baby if he is another boy, but I have always wanted a daughter & never particularly wanted a son. It is what it is. Don't ever feel bad for what you want.

[LittleBabyJones]

I will trade you LOL totally kidding. I wish we could pick what we were having

[True Blue]

LittleBabyJones don't feel bad for being sad we all understand. I hope you hear boy at your 15 week ultrasound but know that if they confirm girl she is your little girl, you will love, cherish & protect her. She will light up your world in ways you don't know are possible.

[LittleBabyJones]

I can't wait to meet my little babe its a blessing I hope to hear boy as well but im prepared to hear girl. I love my baby already I know she will make me so happy.

[Mrs_Incredible]

Becoming a mother for the first time is the most wonderful fulfilling feeling, a new kind of love you have never experienced before, it will blow you away. I had always wanted a daughter and had 3 sons before my daughter was in my arms 4 days ago. However falling in love for the first time with my first child could not have been any more wonderful had i had my daughter first. You'll always remember your first taste of maternal love. Hugs xx

[bubble12]

looks like a boy :) let us know how you get on x

[LittleBabyJones]

Thankyou I will just 6 days ♡

[LittleBabyJones]

I find out this morning :) ♡

[MyByC]

Sooo?

[LittleBabyJones]

Its a girl everyone was right!

[MyByC]

Just like I said, it was meant to be. God knows what he planned for you. Don't feel down 😘 Feel lucky you are having a healthy pregnancy.
I'm sure you'll ADORE your little princess once it's in your arms!

I cried today because I didnt got pregnant this month...so feel lucky :-)

[PrimalMamma]

:) I've just had my 13 week ultrasound & have a potty shot looking VERY similar to yours... I am hopeful I will also hear pink. Congratulations LittleBabyJones... I know this wasn't your chosen gender but, given your experiences, I have no doubt you will protect your little girl from harm, & you now have the opportunity to raise a strong, informed woman. Hugs xx

[True Blue]

LittleBabyJones congratulations on a precious little girl :) I bet you will make the best girl mom ever :)

[odd]

This is ur first I believe correct?? You will forget all about gender when you see her beautiful face...and I've been through similar crap in my life. I'm determined to raise my kids differently regardless of gender

[LittleBabyJones]

thanks to all you wonderful women, I cried but after all the support of my family and fiancee Im just as excited, im so happy I feel her moving in there its so amazing its not kicks yet just flutters but they put the biggest smile on my face! She had long legs and all fingers and toes so I couldn't be happier I've had her name picked out for a long time I just need a middle name.. its Adaleigh (adalay) MyByC im sorry you didn't get pregnant this month, it will happen for you! God knows what's best :) but good luck anyways! And PrimalMamma will you post the picture? I hope you get your girl

[MyByC]

What a beautiful name!
I'm happy you feel much better and can't wait for pics as soon as she'll be born!
Good luck!😘😘😘

[LittleBabyJones]

Thankyou I will definitely post pictures if you have any different names I really need suggestions

[MyByC]

Anya, Anais, Maya, Sophie, Anastasia, Natalia, Eva, Aeva, Aerith...hmmm...anything you like?:-)

[jainnipun]

I would guess boy from the profile shot

seems like a boy.

[Boom]

Posted on wrong thread, sorry :-)