Beau82
November 18th, 2014, 01:34 PM
Hi all!
I just found this site this morning and am excited to join. My name is Kimberly and I have four little boys (oldest is 6.5, youngest is 2.5 months). We've never tried swaying before, just always thought I would eventually have a little girl. I'll admit I was a little upset when I found out that DS4 was a boy. I was so sure he was a girl, the pregnancy was just completely different from my other three and I always pictured myself having 3 boys and a girl. Of course I'm completely in love with him now that he's here :) DH says he is done and is just waiting for my blessing to get a vasectomy. But I don't know how serious he is really b/c he'll make comments that sound like he wants to actually do things to try for a girl. I truly don't feel done and I can't imagine making a permanent decision right now (I know v's can be reversed but we likely wouldn't do that). I think he's just feeling overwhelmed at the moment with 2 under 2. Our 20 month old is quite a handful by himself and number 4 was a bit of an oops. We planned on having a fourth, just not so soon after having our third. Anyway, I certainly don't want to start trying tomorrow but I know I want another eventually. So I'm thinking of starting to change my diet slowly and doing lots of reading on here in the hopes that I will convince DH sometime next year and we can be good to go!
I just found this site this morning and am excited to join. My name is Kimberly and I have four little boys (oldest is 6.5, youngest is 2.5 months). We've never tried swaying before, just always thought I would eventually have a little girl. I'll admit I was a little upset when I found out that DS4 was a boy. I was so sure he was a girl, the pregnancy was just completely different from my other three and I always pictured myself having 3 boys and a girl. Of course I'm completely in love with him now that he's here :) DH says he is done and is just waiting for my blessing to get a vasectomy. But I don't know how serious he is really b/c he'll make comments that sound like he wants to actually do things to try for a girl. I truly don't feel done and I can't imagine making a permanent decision right now (I know v's can be reversed but we likely wouldn't do that). I think he's just feeling overwhelmed at the moment with 2 under 2. Our 20 month old is quite a handful by himself and number 4 was a bit of an oops. We planned on having a fourth, just not so soon after having our third. Anyway, I certainly don't want to start trying tomorrow but I know I want another eventually. So I'm thinking of starting to change my diet slowly and doing lots of reading on here in the hopes that I will convince DH sometime next year and we can be good to go!