Question about DH for abstaining or FR

[Princess Mom]

Hi ladies, I'm thinking what to do with my DTD plan. My DH will be 39 in a few weeks, I am 27.
Would FR be better? Or not? I did want to just do one attempt, as that is how my DD was concieved 5 years ago. He is healthy but had some Cholesterol issue and he is a smoker. We have boy girl boy

[maidentomother]

He should definitely not abstain at 39. Id just have him release on his own or with your help or using a condom, however much he likes but every 2-4 days minimum, then have your one unprotected attempt. Frequency really doesn't sway much if at all, so I'd worry more about DH's prostate health since he's over 35.

[atomic sagebrush]

FR if he can do it, if he can't, then do reg. release every 2-4 days. No abstain for a 39 year old man.