BD every 4 days

[linnya]

If we bd on day 9, then on day 13 (morning and evening) and I ovulated on day 15, does this sway girl or boy? What do you think?

[maidentomother]

2 attempts 2 days before O is kinda in between. If you only had ome attempt, it would sway pink, and 3+ attempts would sway blue. 2 could go either way. If you weren't doing diet or exercise, I'd say 2 attempts in one day, and on the day with the highest odds of conception, leans blue.

[linnya]

I did the LE diet and took Folic Acid,Vitex,Cranberrys,Saw Palmetto and drank a lot of Crystal Light.Before bd I took sylk and after acijel.Dh took a very hot bath before the second attempt on day 13.

But I think that was not enough for my girl sway :sad:

[maidentomother]

Ahh then 2 attempt is looking more pink friendly for you! How long did you do the diet? I think if you do the diet strictly enough for long enough, you have a high chance of getting a girl regardless of how many attempts you have.

[linnya]

I started the diet 9 weeks before I got pregnant.But my ultrasounds look like I'm getting a boy.Probably I'll find it out in 3 weeks :think:

[maidentomother]

9w is pretty good! How far along are you? I really hope it's a girl!

[linnya]

now I'm 13 weeks 4 days.The last ultrasound was on 12 weeks 6 days and I think I saw the nub with an angle nearly 30 degrees.If it's really a boy I don't know what to do to get a girl if we decide to get a third child because I've done so much for swaying :worry:

[maidentomother]

If it's a boy this time, I'd do the diet for a full 12w as well as daily cardio for 60+min, and have just ONE attempt. That would be a stronger sway.

[linnya]

Thanks for your help :)

[atomic sagebrush]

Odds of pink with one attempt = 70%
Odds of pink with two attempts = 60%

So you are still in with a pink sway, albeit not as strongly as if you had had only one attempt.

[atomic sagebrush]

I started the diet 9 weeks before I got pregnant.But my ultrasounds look like I'm getting a boy.Probably I'll find it out in 3 weeks :think:

What diet did you do?

[atomic sagebrush]

If it's a boy this time, I'd do the diet for a full 12w as well as daily cardio for 60+min, and have just ONE attempt. That would be a stronger sway.

:agree: WE are finding that it's best to stick with the things that really work and let go of the stuff that doesn't (and typically inhibits odds of conception a lot).

Diet 12+ weeks, exercise, fiber, one attempt, and Clomid or Femara if you can get them are getting great odds of success. LR, soymilk, and OLE for DH if he'll take them. Alllll the other stuff is simply standing in the way of these effective tactics.