So upset at my husband

[HealthyGirl]

We DTD ( one attempt last night) and my husband just told me he abstained for one month!!!
I'm so upset at myself and him since our timing of our bd was right on.

I've been driving myself crazy by looking online at scientific articles and seeing what long abstinence does to the quality and motility of sperm.

I feel like I just wasted a cycle on nothing. I spent so much money on 3 different ovulation kits trying to pinpoint ovulation for me.

Should I be hopeful for a BFP this cycle? Or am I out?

I feel so embarrassed to even bring this up 😩

[nuthinbutpink]

You can still get pregnant! It can happen.

[The Anchor]

Why don't you do every 4 days. That way you know what he's up to!

You can still get pregnant!

[True Blue]

I agree with every 4 days if it's an option. Don't stress, you can still get pregnant :fx:

[HealthyGirl]

Well now that I know this I will do every 4 days next cycle if I don't get a BFP.
Too late for this cycle.



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[Pink rose 76]

I actually swayed a few years back and we DTD after a month of abstinence only once and I got a BFP! So you never know! Gud luck x

[HealthyGirl]

Thanks for the reassurance and sharing that info pink rose.

Did your sway work?


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[Rosie85]

Sperm is sperm! If it was there you always have a chance!

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks for the reassurance and sharing that info pink rose.

Did your sway work?


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I think she has 2 boys and is going HT for a girl, so it looks like, not. :)

That would have been an IG-type sway tho because we do not and have not ever advised abstain for a month (please correct me if I am wrong Pink Rose)

[Kitty0911]

Two of my boys were conceived after a long abstain. So it is very possible you conceived!