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jane
August 11th, 2011, 12:51 AM
Well,I took a clearblue digital pregnancy test on the eve of my af day and got a pregnant 1-2(meaning 1-2weeks).then this morning 2 days later I had a bowel movement(tmi but it's been really firm n constipAted)when I wiped,there has been clear mucus with very pale blood,not much,a bit like when you've finished your af.so I got worried and took 2 cheaper tests,both negative??????!!!!!! Why? I'm not full on bleeding,been for wee's n same mucus.am I pregnant or what?no af,had a headache for 2days.not got any symptoms.could I have got a false positive?is it breakthrough bleeding?is it miscarriage and that's why I got the negatives?I've never miscarried before so I don't know what to expect:-(I've booked in to see my doctor but can't get in till Monday sO I'm trying not to stress.any help would really be appreciated right now:-(

jane
August 11th, 2011, 01:17 AM
I think this is a chemical pregnancy as I've read some of the old posts,someone else had the same as this.it's not happened to me before so I wasn't aware of the signs.:-( does this mean I will get my af soon then?

zanacal
August 11th, 2011, 03:24 AM
Oh Jane, I'm sorry you're going through this. Did you get a positive on one of your cheap tests before? I've used them before and it took me much, much longer to get a positive on one of those compared to a more expensive shop bought one. Perhaps invest in another digital to get a more conclusive answer? {hugs}

threeatlast
August 11th, 2011, 03:26 AM
Have you tested again on digital , I am currently pregnant and had positives on digitals but the cheap ones kept giving negative and eventually positives, depends on the HCG levels for that test Can you get to a Medical centre somewhere close by?

ELP
August 11th, 2011, 03:31 AM
Jane, atm I would put this down to cheap tests not showing your positive, with a bit of left over implantation blood:agree: Is the blood pink, brown or red?? As it appeared after a BM this showed that you literally pushed it out, it wasn't flowing:agree: If you can afford it take another digi to reassure yourself ok:)

jane
August 11th, 2011, 03:36 AM
Jane, atm I would put this down to cheap tests not showing your positive, with a bit of left over implantation blood:agree: Is the blood pink, brown or red?? As it appeared after a BM this showed that you literally pushed it out, it wasn't flowing:agree: If you can afford it take another digi to reassure yourself ok:)Yes,I took2crystal clear tests,I did do them about1 1/2hours apart and in the middle of the day but you would think they would show something!the mucus was like ewcm tinged with very pale pink and not much.I'm not hopeful though cos I've been on the net all day researching and it sounds like a chemical:-( I just don't know when to expect the'full flow'

zanacal
August 11th, 2011, 03:42 AM
Try not to come to that conclusion yet Jane - the internet is not a good place sometimes, it convinces us of all sorts of things! Put the computer down and go for another digital if you can and take some more {hugs}

ELP
August 11th, 2011, 03:43 AM
Pink blood is nothing!! When have you ever had pink blood before???? I bet you haven't have you??? Pink and brown, no worries, red is fresher blood so that can be a sign for more concern. IMO the ewcm is from the cervix closing and pushing any extra's up there out the way. It is also very common to have an increase in cm, at this stage, mine always seems like thrush sorry for tmi, have you noticed a strange biscuity smell to it (again sorry for tmi)?? Sit tight, see what the next few days holds ok:)

jane
August 11th, 2011, 03:55 AM
Thanx all for the kind words but just been to loo and it is a chemical:-( now I'm gonna be paranoid in future months.

zanacal
August 11th, 2011, 03:58 AM
Oh hun, so so sorry x

ELP
August 11th, 2011, 04:03 AM
Thanx all for the kind words but just been to loo and it is a chemical:-( now I'm gonna be paranoid in future months.
Oh Jane, thats rotten if it is:( I still have a tiny set of x fingers just in case ok xxx

jane
August 11th, 2011, 04:55 AM
thanx,i feel like i was given something so precious and it was taken back:tissue:i know it was super early but your hopes get raised dont they.ive never had this happen before and its quite upsetting, i can only imagine what its like to go through this often or worse. im gonna wait at least a month now cos i need to get in the right frame of mind. i do find this a little too coincidental that ive had 3 girls no problems then trying to sway for the 1st time and this happens.it makes me dubious to say the least.:sad:

Princess of Pink
August 11th, 2011, 06:15 AM
I can really relate to that way of thinking Jane....I had 2 missed m/c that were perfect sways...everything predicted boy. It felt even worse because my mind just kept telling me that I had my boy...and lost him! Makes me even more apprehensive about swaying this time. Which is why my sway is more just for increasing fertility and making me as healthy as I can be....I just don't want another loss...6 is enough!!

HUGE big hugs to you!!

Plum3
August 11th, 2011, 06:21 AM
I'm so sorry Jane :(

gizmo77
August 11th, 2011, 02:49 PM
sorry! its very unnerving not knowing what the heck is happening. i know how you guys feel about 'not meant to have a boy.'

LolaInLove
August 11th, 2011, 03:08 PM
Jane, I'm so sorry. I've had 2 chemicals, I bet you saw on the other thread. It is hard to think you are pg for a few days and then it gets swiped out from under you. You never know why, either, but best to just attribute it to a chomosomal issue and not swaying. Chemicals happen all the time, and there is nothing you can do to prevent them just as much as there is nothing you can do to cause them. Sometimes those chomosomes don't fuse together to make a normal 46 and your body knows it isn't going to be a healthy baby somehow. Just don't give up, lots of women have them in between perfectly normal pregnancies.....I know OODLES who have. Heck, lots of women have later m/c in between also. Just keep your chin up and try again. And you don't even need to wait with one that early. I hope you are doing ok!!! HUGS xxoo

ladybug
August 11th, 2011, 03:27 PM
So sorry Jane!!! The same thing happened to me last month...It does suck! xo

jane
August 11th, 2011, 07:36 PM
thankyou all

Kris217
August 11th, 2011, 09:55 PM
Aww so sorry Jane ((hugs))

Flava
August 11th, 2011, 10:52 PM
I know how it is , so sad for you.:sad:
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LolaInLove
August 12th, 2011, 10:19 AM
What's going on now? Are you doing ok?

jane
August 12th, 2011, 11:40 PM
What's going on now? Are you doing ok?thankyou, im ok,been a bit weepy, probably just hormones.my dh has been great.we are going away for a week so that will take my mind off it all. im gonna wait another cycle out though before we go again but i know the paranoia will set in now this has happened.

atomic sagebrush
August 13th, 2011, 10:41 AM
I'm so sorry jane! Wishing you peace.