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Dana-Alicia
August 14th, 2015, 07:12 AM
Those lines are brill! :D Why is DH yelling? About the pregnancy? Men shouldn't complain like this, as it's usually us that do most of the work anyway! Tell him no shouting to a pregnant woman or he'll get it from us ;)
XXforhubby
August 14th, 2015, 08:57 AM
Huge congrats Butterfly! Why oh why must men show their asses at times like this? You know just as well as I do he will be beaming from ear to ear when he sees this baby! Just take it one day at a time and he will come around! He may just not want to get his hopes up and not realize yet that he will have more than enough love in his heart for another sweet little baby!
Hugs sweetie!
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Dana-Alicia
August 14th, 2015, 06:26 PM
Huge congrats Butterfly! Why oh why must men show their asses at times like this? You know just as well as I do he will be beaming from ear to ear when he sees this baby! Just take it one day at a time and he will come around! He may just not want to get his hopes up and not realize yet that he will have more than enough love in his heart for another sweet little baby!
Hugs sweetie!
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Ugh I love this so much, now you made me very broody lol! It's so true! My mom always says men never want kids, untill they hold one in their arms. They just can't wrap their heads around all the responsibilities and such. But once they hold their baby for the first time, oh it's magic!
Butterfly Spirit
August 15th, 2015, 03:35 AM
Ugh I love this so much, now you made me very broody lol! It's so true! My mom always says men never want kids, untill they hold one in their arms. They just can't wrap their heads around all the responsibilities and such. But once they hold their baby for the first time, oh it's magic!
Truth, I basically ignored all of it because I heard it all before when I was pregnant with my DD. I threw that in his face too... Later on when I couldn't take it anymore, I said that and that he sounded SO stupid right now because it was on the way whether he liked it or not, and like 2 weeks ago.. or week and a half ago during play he said "you want a baby, I'm going to give you one" I swear that was the night it happened! LOL I threw that in his face too.. so yeah. And then he's like " you have a history of MC.." and I said.. "you know what.. what the hell are you trying to really say here, are you trying to promote something? Have you ever stopped to think that it COULD be normal? How do you know!! I was Sooo pissed off! And then he's like "Well, let's pretend for a minute you weren't pregnant, can we really handle a fourth?" And I said.. "SEE HOW STUPID you sound right now seriously.. pretend what? It's coming! Geez. LOL anyways, yeah then it all came flooding back to him and he sat it in it.. then it was his birthday yesterday so he was all happy and stuff and said sorry for yesterday.
Yeah it's gonna be a looooong pregnancy! But I know he will be smitten and happy and not be able to imagine his life without this baby like he has done with our daughter since she arrived. I just have to let it go in one ear and out the other. lol
Hitmebabyonemoretime
August 16th, 2015, 12:42 AM
Sucks that you had to have that convo. I wish you a speedy 9 months!!!
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Butterfly Spirit
August 16th, 2015, 12:55 AM
Sucks that you had to have that convo. I wish you a speedy 9 months!!!
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At least today was a GOOD day! :HH: LOL Went swimming with all the kids tonight, it was so fun!
Dana-Alicia
August 16th, 2015, 12:53 PM
Oh I'm so sorry he said those things. I lol'ed though when he ask that during play, so it's all his fault muawhaha! I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months, I hope you enjoy every moment of it xx
Butterfly Spirit
August 20th, 2015, 06:29 AM
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:HH: I've made it to 5 weeks ladies! Everything is still great! :HH:
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twointow83
August 20th, 2015, 06:35 AM
Congrats!!
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XXforhubby
August 20th, 2015, 07:30 AM
Yay!!!
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mommymachine
August 20th, 2015, 12:37 PM
Awe that is so awesome. I am so happy for you!!! I hope I am right behind you.
Hitmebabyonemoretime
August 20th, 2015, 06:43 PM
What's your edd?
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Butterfly Spirit
August 20th, 2015, 09:48 PM
What's your edd?
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Mid April 2016. :)
Butterfly Spirit
August 20th, 2015, 09:49 PM
Awe that is so awesome. I am so happy for you!!! I hope I am right behind you.
Thank you! Me too! Don't give up! Just keep on trucking! :HH:
Hitmebabyonemoretime
August 20th, 2015, 09:51 PM
Mine is 4/21 based on lmp
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Hitmebabyonemoretime
August 20th, 2015, 09:52 PM
Hang with us here! Due in March/April/May 2016 (http://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/showthread.php?t=50053)
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Butterfly Spirit
August 21st, 2015, 06:59 AM
Mine is 4/21 based on lmp
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Ahh you confused me with no ticker! :p Congrats!!!! :HH:
Hitmebabyonemoretime
August 25th, 2015, 07:49 PM
Idk how to make those lol I pretty much use this exclusively on mobile
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Butterfly Spirit
August 26th, 2015, 03:05 AM
Idk how to make those lol I pretty much use this exclusively on mobile
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I'm happy to help you! pm me the date of your last period before you got pregnant! :)
Butterfly Spirit
August 26th, 2015, 03:16 AM
Hi girls! Absolutely all is well!! Hubby said today, "This one is seeming to stick!" I said "yes it is!" :HH:
Then last night we had a talk about how I'm not sick yet, and how I was sick with both my boys pretty much from the get go, and I wasn't with DD until 8 weeks. So I know we can't go off of that but it's fun to compare in that way anyway. He's hoping for another princess! Last night out of nowhere he said.. "So, another reason I think it's a girl is because I gained weight" "like I did with our daughter" and I laughed and said, well actually babe you gained with our loss, but hey you still have it! LOL!!
Symptoms are: tiredness, boobs hurting, constipation, thirst, hunger more than usual, and nausea on and off.. but it's not.. you know bad yet! *knocks on wood* I told hubby that the chinese gender calender says girl, so I'm excited about that too! Plus everyone who's finding out soon or has found out in the last month is having a girl! The gender reveals on youtube show it too. They are nice thoughts to me. I really think it's a girl, so I'm hoping!!
My plan is to stay away from the doc for a bit.. like around 12-14ish weeks so I can get a gender scan with a pic. Also because I'd rather do that than jump the gun. The weeks go by so slowly after you've had a loss :HH: Not sure we can pull a scan like we did last time. We'll just have to see. :HH: I decided to not tell a soul I'm pregnant, it's more fun to reveal a surprise when it's time! :)
I have a sweet pea this week!
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Dana-Alicia
August 26th, 2015, 03:25 AM
Aaaw so happy all is well! I think it's a girl as well! Two boys and two girls, what a dream come true!
Butterfly Spirit
August 26th, 2015, 04:02 AM
Aaaw so happy all is well! I think it's a girl as well! Two boys and two girls, what a dream come true!
Thank you sweet lady! I really hope so, that would be amazing! For my DD to have a sister..wOw!!! I already feel like I'm so lucky as it is! :HH:
So when does your swaying adventure begin? :D
Butterfly Spirit
August 29th, 2015, 03:19 PM
So ladies I am officially morning sick. It's been going on for the past couple days but It's not too bad, but still sucks ugh. :p :p Eating seems to help a lot though.
twointow83
August 29th, 2015, 07:48 PM
So ladies I am officially morning sick. It's been going on for the past couple days but It's not too bad, but still sucks ugh. [emoji14] [emoji14] Eating seems to help a lot though.
Um... congrats? Lol. I never know if morning sickness would be considered a "congrats" or an "I'm sorry" lol. Hopefully bean isn't being too tough on you.
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mommymachine
August 29th, 2015, 08:05 PM
I'm with Two^^^ Yay?!?!?! for morning sickness!!! I am super duper glad your pregnancy is progressing well!!!
XXforhubby
August 29th, 2015, 10:48 PM
I'm so happy for you! This is awesome and hopefully you can feel better soon! It's funny- only when pregnant are we so happy to be so sick [emoji38]!!!
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Butterfly Spirit
August 30th, 2015, 05:24 AM
You're all right! As tough as it is, I remember my doctor's sheer delight when I told him I was morning sick when I was pregnant with my DD he said it means "happy healthy thriving baby!" So I'll just remember this when the really really bad time comes.. it is just around the corner. :sigh:
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atomic sagebrush
August 30th, 2015, 10:52 AM
FX and TX too!! :)
Butterfly Spirit
August 30th, 2015, 11:30 AM
So this is something I had to come tell you ladies! So earlier I was getting ready to bathe my DD, and my tummy was showing and so standing there I pointed where my baby is and asked her- totally NOT expecting her to say anything really or understand.. I said:
"What's in there?" and she said "Sisters" I was like.... "what? REALLY???" and laughed. I'm not kidding. I never told her anything. I asked her before my loss last time and she didn't say much of anything.. must have sensed it but anyway. So I called DH in and had her do it again and she said "sisters" and DH said "Awwww you're so cute, is there a sister in there? and she said "yeah! sisters" I kept asking her all throughout our bath because I couldn't resist. She didn't change her answer. Just craziness! I have to catch that on camcorder.. so later on I was teasing DH.. "So.. what are you going to do if there are two in there?" and he said "I wouldn't do anything, because there's nothing I can do about it!" LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL :rofl: And I told him how the boys knew they had a sister in the early weeks when I found out I was prego with her.
I did have the thought a couple weeks ago, and I didn't know why so when she indicated there was more than one with an S I just couldn't believe it!
So now, my curiosity is pushing me to get an U/S. Trying to decide on that. at 7 weeks it would be detectable with HB or should I wait beyond that?
twointow83
August 30th, 2015, 12:29 PM
So this is something I had to come tell you ladies! So earlier I was getting ready to bathe my DD, and my tummy was showing and so standing there I pointed where my baby is and asked her- totally NOT expecting her to say anything really or understand.. I said:
"What's in there?" and she said "Sisters" I was like.... "what? REALLY???" and laughed. I'm not kidding. I never told her anything. I asked her before my loss last time and she didn't say much of anything.. must have sensed it but anyway. So I called DH in and had her do it again and she said "sisters" and DH said "Awwww you're so cute, is there a sister in there? and she said "yeah! sisters" I kept asking her all throughout our bath because I couldn't resist. She didn't change her answer. Just craziness! I have to catch that on camcorder.. so later on I was teasing DH.. "So.. what are you going to do if there are two in there?" and he said "I wouldn't do anything, because there's nothing I can do about it!" LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL :rofl: And I told him how the boys knew they had a sister in the early weeks when I found out I was prego with her.
I did have the thought a couple weeks ago, and I didn't know why so when she indicated there was more than one with an S I just couldn't believe it!
So now, my curiosity is pushing me to get an U/S. Trying to decide on that. at 7 weeks it would be detectable with HB or should I wait beyond that?
Not sure only ever had singletons, but good luck!
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Butterfly Spirit
September 2nd, 2015, 06:56 AM
Good morning ladies! Well it's another week for me! Morning sickness is in full swing and it's constant. :( I was too sick to see my mom and I see her so often, so I decided to tell her through text. She said she already knew. I saw her a few days ago and was sick then too lol but tonight it was baaad I had to lay down and couldn't go anywhere. Like earlier my head was spinning and my body made me throw up even though there was only stomach bile. I don't understand why it has to occur. I told my mom what my daughter said and she said "Well it could happen, twins run on your dad's side" Since I didn't get a lecture, I think she's delighted as I know my mom-in-law will be when we finally tell her. I don't know if my hubby can keep it from her because I told mine, but we'll see because his mom will tell everyone I think.. haha
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twointow83
September 2nd, 2015, 07:05 AM
Congrats on making it 7 weeks! I had pretty bad Ms with my first. It sucks but it's worth it in the end!
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Butterfly Spirit
September 4th, 2015, 02:04 PM
So the MS has gotten worse, it seems that my nights are much better than my days which is completely opposite from what I've experienced in the past. But I am sick to some degree constantly! :( I spent my morning going through my old thread of my DD and looking for hope of when it ended and It went on and on and I guess it tapered off to where I wasn't throwing up as much I guess, because I said that, but I'm not taking any form of anti nausea med this time around if I can help it. I'm nervous though, I'm not taking B6 or any B vitamin. This thing could build to be REALLY bad MS. Reeeally hoping not though! :sigh:
twointow83
September 4th, 2015, 03:28 PM
So the MS has gotten worse, it seems that my nights are much better than my days which is completely opposite from what I've experienced in the past. But I am sick to some degree constantly! :( I spent my morning going through my old thread of my DD and looking for hope of when it ended and It went on and on and I guess it tapered off to where I wasn't throwing up as much I guess, because I said that, but I'm not taking any form of anti nausea med this time around if I can help it. I'm nervous though, I'm not taking B6 or any B vitamin. This thing could build to be REALLY bad MS. Reeeally hoping not though! :sigh:
Some say protein helped them. For me the only things that helped where starchy, light but absorbent foods to help with the acid build up. Bread, crackers, pastas (without sauce), etc. Oddly, though with my first all I could eat that didn't come right back up was salad and fruit. Hope you feel better soon.
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Butterfly Spirit
September 4th, 2015, 03:35 PM
Some say protein helped them. For me the only things that helped where starchy, light but absorbent foods to help with the acid build up. Bread, crackers, pastas (without sauce), etc. Oddly, though with my first all I could eat that didn't come right back up was salad and fruit. Hope you feel better soon.
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I'm about to try things. I suck on old fashioned green apple drops and those help. Then my mom made me a REALLY yummy veggie beef stew and it has helped a lot. Luckily I've only thrown up food one time so far. *knocks on wood* the other times it was bile and another was dry heaves.
I seriously LOVED salads when I was pregnant with my boys! They were the best thing! I'd have them with lunch meat, strawberries and kiwis. I didn't desire them with DD and I don't think I could do them now at all.
Water is a very hard thing for me to swallow...YUCK! Hubby got me some gatorade and I guess It's time to try lemonade again. :)
Thank you for those hopes, I'll hang on to them and hope that it doesn't get much worse, and that the weeks FLY by. I'm so scared this will be the first pregnancy that I won't be able to trick or treat with my kids! :O
atomic sagebrush
September 6th, 2015, 05:02 PM
Oh hun I'm sorry you're feeling sick but huge congrats!
Jolly Ranchers saved my sanity with a couple of mine!!!
I agree with you on the water, it tasted terrible to me.
Jello???
Ashforblue
September 6th, 2015, 05:05 PM
I've used jolly ranchers this time as well.... Also, water tastes good to me as long as I have ice & lemon in it.... Very strange!
Hitmebabyonemoretime
September 8th, 2015, 08:55 AM
Jolly ranchers are helping me slightly too.
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Butterfly Spirit
September 8th, 2015, 10:37 AM
Thanks girls!!! I know it's a good thing, I just keep clinging to that. Some days are much easier than others! I have to figure out the water situation though. YUCK!!!! Gatorade helps. Going to get some gingerale and try that.
For my fruit needs I've been chomping on frozen berries. Yum yum!
Microwavable pancakes and syrup have saved me the last couple days. Just whatever it takes I guess lol The smell of cooking them is too hard!
But it's so icky sometimes that even Coke and saltines don't really help! :sigh:
Hubby told me a few days ago that he's really anxious to find out what baby is. hahahaha so that's fun! I'll be 8 weeks tmw!!! :)
Butterfly Spirit
September 9th, 2015, 01:05 PM
Good day ladies! Nothing has changed. Nausea is still the same. Blah! :sigh: But I have a little Raspberry now! :HH:
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Kittybear
September 9th, 2015, 01:15 PM
Oh wow! Congrats On Your pregnancy Hun!! :) I hope the ms doesn't last too much longer! I hope you get another little pink 'raspberry' ;)
Your daughter in your profile pic is turning into a gorgeous little girlie :) whatever you get your family is truly blessed :) congrats again xx
Butterfly Spirit
September 9th, 2015, 02:09 PM
Oh wow! Congrats On Your pregnancy Hun!! :) I hope the ms doesn't last too much longer! I hope you get another little pink 'raspberry' ;)
Your daughter in your profile pic is turning into a gorgeous little girlie :) whatever you get your family is truly blessed :) congrats again xx
Thank you so much sweet lady!! I do feel truly blessed beyond measure with what I have, and I wouldn't be sorry if I had another bundle in blue. Little boys are such a joy as well as you well know! :HH: It's wonderful that they have each other like my DS have each other to play with! I hope you have a little pink raspberry of your own too! My DD is such a jewel. Thank you again! :HH:
atomic sagebrush
September 11th, 2015, 11:26 AM
Saltines never worked for me! Everyone was like "saltines, dry toast" with my first and they made me SOOOO sick. I still don't eat saltines hardly ever and that was 24 years ago.
:agree: berries and anything tart tasting. Cold stuff really helped me too. Hang in there!!!
Butterfly Spirit
September 11th, 2015, 11:54 AM
Saltines never worked for me! Everyone was like "saltines, dry toast" with my first and they made me SOOOO sick. I still don't eat saltines hardly ever and that was 24 years ago.
:agree: berries and anything tart tasting. Cold stuff really helped me too. Hang in there!!!
Yesterday was SUPER rough but I made it through. The car travel made things 10 times worse! haha But luckily when it hit at 1am I was able to go to sleep! :HH: I'm back to feeling as usual. Constant, but able to deal with it.
Butterfly Spirit
September 11th, 2015, 12:00 PM
Last night I dreamed that I had twin boys! This shocked me, as I've never ever dreamed of a physical baby when I'm pregnant. There's talk of gender from the doc but that's it, I never have a baby. In my dream I was talking to myself saying: "there's two babies, so that means twins." Since you're supposed to dream of the opposite gender that would be .. CRAZY if I really had twins this time. They run in the family my mom tells me apparently so, gosh.. I think I need an ultrasound about now to put my sanity to rest! :rofl:
atomic sagebrush
September 16th, 2015, 01:05 PM
In the car was always the worst for me. With my first, I was in the car with my mom and stepdad and we hadn't told anyone yet, and I actually had to throw up right out the window! Soooo embarrassing. Luckily I am notorious for getting carsick so I was able to pass it off to that. :)
Butterfly Spirit
September 16th, 2015, 03:53 PM
Good day ladies! All is well. :HH: Sickness is still present :sigh: but I have a little olive!
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Butterfly Spirit
September 19th, 2015, 02:08 AM
So ladies! I used my doppler and found a heartbeat! First in the middle just off to the right but it wasn't very loud but very fast getting up to 159 and then on the faar left it was in the 130s that was loud.. so I seriously am puzzled. I couldn't get a video, but I'll keep trying. :D It was VERY hard to find #1 and then I kept coughing like crazy because I've been really sick this week since Monday with a really bad cold that my husband brought home on Friday. :( I noticed that I got extra sick since my immune system is suppressed. Apple cider vinegar and raw honey have really helped combat the infection though. :HH: will try the heartbeat again later.
twointow83
September 19th, 2015, 04:05 AM
Congratulations!
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Butterfly Spirit
September 20th, 2015, 06:32 PM
Congratulations!
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Thank you!
YAAAAAAY are you pregnant now then!? :D I see your ticker!!!
twointow83
September 20th, 2015, 06:34 PM
Thank you!
YAAAAAAY are you pregnant now then!? :D I see your ticker!!!
Just barely, lol, only 10 DPO but yes :bigsmile: Scared to death but *trying* to be optimistic.
When do you get your first u/s?
Butterfly Spirit
September 20th, 2015, 06:57 PM
Just barely, lol, only 10 DPO but yes :bigsmile: Scared to death but *trying* to be optimistic.
When do you get your first u/s?
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That's so exciting!! :D Stick baby stick! :HH: Did you take a pic of your test?
I haven't decided lol. Might just wait till 14.5 weeks and get one and determine gender so insurance will pay.
twointow83
September 20th, 2015, 07:01 PM
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That's so exciting!! :D Stick baby stick! :HH: Did you take a pic of your test?
Thanks! Yeah, still pretty faint though. They are on my thread :) I'll link you so I don't clutter your thread :) twointow83s ttc thread (http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-after-a-loss/49961-twointow83s-ttc-thread-rainbow-baby-pink-plz-;-8.html)
Butterfly Spirit
September 23rd, 2015, 02:42 AM
Hey ladies, I've now hit double digits and have a Little Prune! I'm going to do the baking soda gender test for kicks with FMU (when I wake up haha)! :HH:
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twointow83
September 23rd, 2015, 05:40 AM
Congratulations :)
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Butterfly Spirit
September 23rd, 2015, 01:27 PM
Well I got a clear BOY result for that test! haha :rofl:
I'm skipping the purple cabbage one because it was completely wrong last time. lol
twointow83
September 23rd, 2015, 01:28 PM
Well I got a clear BOY result for that test! haha :rofl:
Is that the amonia and baking soda or whatever test?
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Boyzmommy
September 23rd, 2015, 01:37 PM
Baking soda test for right for me with my boys
Butterfly Spirit
September 23rd, 2015, 02:28 PM
At 10 wks you mix your FMU with a tablespoon of baking soda.
Mine is really strong though because I HATE water right now. I really don't bank too much on these, I think they are just fun to pass the time until you really find out! :)
Right now I'm going off more of the ramzi theory (baby's on the left) and the chinese gender chart that say girl for me. Oh, and that my DD says "sister(s)" I know Atomic is laughing at me right now, but that's okay! :rofl: it's gonna be a looong 4.5 weeks argh!! Right before Halloween!!!!
I'm going to test for the heartbeat again soon. Haven't felt well enough or can find a quiet time yet.
As I was laying in bed this am I swear I felt flutters twice. So I just wanted to record that too, but maybe just wishful thinking.
atomic sagebrush
September 26th, 2015, 12:26 PM
Baking soda test for right for me with my boys
These don't work, m'dears. :) (I know we went over this last time Butterfly!) All these tests measure is the pH of whatever foods you last ate or drank.
Butterfly Spirit
September 27th, 2015, 06:18 PM
These don't work, m'dears. :) (I know we went over this last time Butterfly!) All these tests measure is the pH of whatever foods you last ate or drank.
I know, I know, my dear friend! :wink: :rofl: I won't waste anymore time doing those.
I'll take stock of baby on the left side over anything else right now! ;)
Butterfly Spirit
September 30th, 2015, 03:35 AM
Good day ladies! I have a Little Lime!!
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covered in blue
September 30th, 2015, 04:37 PM
Yay :). Do you have a scan booked soon?
Butterfly Spirit
September 30th, 2015, 04:45 PM
Yay :). Do you have a scan booked soon?
I don't. I haven't even gone to the doc yet for this pregnancy, and I can't decide when to, because I'll get a scan out of it! So, I'm trying to decide if I should do 12 weeks or 14... tee hee then I won't have to go to a place that determines gender. :D
XXforhubby
October 1st, 2015, 01:09 PM
Can't wait to see pics!!
DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!
atomic sagebrush
October 2nd, 2015, 11:47 AM
I don't. I haven't even gone to the doc yet for this pregnancy, and I can't decide when to, because I'll get a scan out of it! So, I'm trying to decide if I should do 12 weeks or 14... tee hee then I won't have to go to a place that determines gender. :D
13/14 weeks is more reliable, if you can stand it then wait that 12th week out!
XXforhubby
October 4th, 2015, 11:42 AM
Out of curiosity, can you post a link to the Chinese gender chart you use? I'm curious to see what is says for my boys [emoji4]!
DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!
Butterfly Spirit
October 4th, 2015, 05:43 PM
Out of curiosity, can you post a link to the Chinese gender chart you use? I'm curious to see what is says for my boys [emoji4]!
DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!
Sure! It's good to go here because it calculates it for you so you can't screw up. :) Effective gender prediction with the ancient Chinese Gender Chart (http://www.chinesegenderchart.info/gender-prediction.php)
Boyzmommy
October 4th, 2015, 06:10 PM
It seemed right for my sons
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Hitmebabyonemoretime
October 4th, 2015, 07:22 PM
It was wrong for ds 2,3,4 for me. It was right for 1 and 5.
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has2gentlemen
October 4th, 2015, 10:01 PM
That one was right for DS1, wrong for DS2, unless I go by his birthday instead of his due date. And right for my niece but wrong for my nephew.
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Butterfly Spirit
October 5th, 2015, 04:15 AM
Don't go by due date, make sure you do your lunar birth year and your lunar month of conception! :)
XXforhubby
October 5th, 2015, 08:00 AM
It was wrong for DS2 but right for DS1 and DS3.
Thanks!
DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!
has2gentlemen
October 5th, 2015, 08:27 AM
Don't go by due date, make sure you do your lunar birth year and your lunar month of conception! :)
By his conception, DS2 is wrong too. Maybe it doesn't work for preemies?
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Boyzmommy
October 5th, 2015, 09:51 AM
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Butterfly Spirit
October 7th, 2015, 04:06 AM
Oh well ladies, it's all in fun! :)
Butterfly Spirit
October 7th, 2015, 04:12 AM
Good day ladies! I have a Little Plum! Baby is all done developing into a mini baby from here it's just the details and chub!! Some consider this week the end of the 1st trimester while others say there's one more week.
My sickness hasn't slowed down, and in fact it's gotten even worse. I'm throwing up more and I'm a lot more nauseous! :( I know it's worth it, but it's tough! :sigh:
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Butterfly Spirit
October 14th, 2015, 03:31 AM
YAY ladies! I have a Sweet Peach now!! :HH: 13 weeks! I can find out my baby's gender next week!! I think I'll call and make a doc appt this week and hope I can get a scan done next week. Not sure what will happen, he might be like, "Well, we might as well wait until the 20 week one.." I hope not though! Hubby's giving me attitude and refusing to shell out the $50 to find out early like we did last time :'(
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Kittybear
October 14th, 2015, 05:54 PM
Good luck butterfly xx
Butterfly Spirit
October 14th, 2015, 09:54 PM
Good luck butterfly xx
Thank you so much sweetie! :HH: xx
Hitmebabyonemoretime
October 15th, 2015, 09:04 AM
Have you seen a doctor yet?
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Butterfly Spirit
October 18th, 2015, 06:21 PM
No, I'm making an appt this week. Last week I was really sick and then I forgot. lol
Butterfly Spirit
October 18th, 2015, 06:31 PM
So, last night I randomly said to him "I'm SO excited to find out what our baby is, I have a name all picked out if it's a girl!! Just LOVE it!" LOL so then we went on to discuss names and he took to the internet. We aren't agreeing on this one, he wants to take the middle name from our DD and name the new one it, and if it's a boy take my second DS middle name! That I'm fine with, but not the other. LOL because I call my baby all of her names because I love them so much... Anyway... so today my DD comes out from waking up and hubby says "She's so fun!" I said "I know! Imagine another, a little sister like she's saying is in there!" So then I said "So are you more excited to find out what baby is?" and he turned a bit red and flashed a HUGE grin, and I'm like smiling "So yes, just a bit then huh?" and he goes "Yeah, so if it's a girl she's being named ____ and if it's a boy he's being named ___ ." and I laughed and said "Nope.. just think about mine, it's very beautiful and unique, it might grow on you..." I then showed him her pics from our DD's 15 week gender scan that we paid for. Anyway... So he then says "So we just pay the guy 50 bucks?" "Yep, that's what we do." I said. :rofl:
I think I'm going to get him so excited that he can't stand it lol *crosses fingers* I do absolutely prefer to wait until at least 15 weeks because that's when we got really good pictures!! It's still just around the corner! :)
I'm going to make an appt at the doc and HOPE he'll give me a scan anyway just incase this does not work! I am concerned about my fluid levels. I despise water so much it makes me SO sick.. so I'm doing Gatorade and other drinks and hoping that will cut it! I'm still checking the heartbeat every few days, and all is well there. It's so reassuring to have a home doppler to use when you want to! :)
Butterfly Spirit
October 21st, 2015, 03:14 AM
YAY I now have a Little Lemon!! Definitely without a doubt in the second trimester now according to whoever now! :D I can't believe this is the week I found out what my DD was!! I'm making a doc appt tmw and hoping for a scan next week! If not at least getting the hubby to agree to getting one privately. :HH:
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Butterfly Spirit
October 21st, 2015, 06:25 PM
Update: I made my first prental appt for next Fri Oct 30th I had NO idea Halloween was next week.. holy shiz so this means that hubby and I HAVE to find out before we see our family on Halloween yikes! Because I wanted to incorporate my pregnancy with my costume. So I might be able to talk him into it on my 15 week mark day! This all came waay too fast! :o lol
Kittybear
October 26th, 2015, 01:29 PM
Good luck Hun! Xx
Butterfly Spirit
October 26th, 2015, 11:45 PM
Well ladies, I am absolutely one HUGE bundle of nerves right now. Hubby and I are getting our gender ultrasound done tomorrow afternoon!!!! :running: My amazing momma helped us out so we could get one.
Why is it that I want to find out so badly, and I want to rush time and everything, but when the time actually comes I do not want to find out! This is how it was last time too. I reminded DH how it happened last time.
Our clueless OB couldn't run the ultrasound machine and frustrated us both, and then the next day hubby woke me up excitedly saying "Let's go hon, let's go get our ultrasound!" I didn't know what had gotten into him! But I was terrified, and I told him too!
This time the boys will not be attending. It will just be him, myself, and my DD so things aren't so crazy! We're still talking about the DVD. It ups the cost by $20 but we wished we had done it with our DD.
Oh my God, I'm so nervous, and the only ladies I can tell are RIGHT HERE!!! LoL :rofl: I can't wait to reveal that I'm pregnant to everyone, no matter the gender!!! :D
covered in blue
October 27th, 2015, 12:31 AM
Goodluck BFS :). Hope all goes well xx
Butterfly Spirit
October 27th, 2015, 07:41 PM
Well I'm sad, I screwed up. Last time it was walk in and this time it has to be an appointment ... so..
tomorrow tomorrow... :rolleyes: lol
Jany1025
October 27th, 2015, 07:44 PM
I thought it was Thursday! Tomorrow works for me then lol!
Best of Luck! Hope you see GIRL! [emoji177][emoji177][emoji177]
Butterfly Spirit
October 27th, 2015, 07:48 PM
I thought it was Thursday! Tomorrow works for me then lol!
Best of Luck! Hope you see GIRL! [emoji177][emoji177][emoji177]
Thanks hon! My first prenatal doc appt is Friday, and I may or may not get an U/S from it. So we're doing the separate ultrasound just incase, because we can't wait. :)
Butterfly Spirit
October 28th, 2015, 02:31 AM
Alright ladies! Officially 15 weeks now! I have a little orange! What a better way to celebrate than to find out what gender my little love is :HH: I'm so excited! I'll post later on this evening what happens! We are going to a different place, so this time we'll get more than we did last time, including a DVD to look at over and over!! LOL
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essnce629
October 28th, 2015, 12:16 PM
Good luck today! I'll be stalking this post!
Kittybear
October 28th, 2015, 05:17 PM
Good luck! :) xx
Butterfly Spirit
October 28th, 2015, 05:35 PM
Good luck today! I'll be stalking this post!
I'll save you time and tell you to not stalk for the next 2 hours! :HH: I know what that's like! haha
Jany1025
October 28th, 2015, 05:42 PM
I'll save you time and tell you to not stalk for the next 2 hours! :HH: I know what that's like! haha
Oh cmon goodness what time zone are you in! It's almost 6pm here in NY I can't take it anymore [emoji12]
Kittybear
October 28th, 2015, 05:51 PM
It's nearly 10pm here; I'll be tucked up in bed in 2 hrs time! ;) xx
mommymachine
October 28th, 2015, 06:06 PM
I'll be up!!!! Can't wait!!
Butterfly Spirit
October 29th, 2015, 01:22 AM
So sorry ladies! After the U/S we went to a couple stores to get ready for Halloween. Please forgive me!! This is off the DVD. The lady didn't get a nub shot.
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Here's my little love bug! Tell me what you think it is! ;) ;) ;)
essnce629
October 29th, 2015, 02:32 AM
Finally you're back LOL!
I'm going to guess boy!
Cute baby too! Look at those lips!
Jany1025
October 29th, 2015, 03:50 AM
I can't really tell but you two make such cute babies can't wait to see pics when he/she is here!
Did you get to really sway this time?
Babygirlquest
October 29th, 2015, 04:05 AM
I think boy! Congrats on a sweet baby!
XXforhubby
October 29th, 2015, 07:32 AM
So hard to tell with the angle....I'm leaning boy though.
Super cute baby!!
DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!
mommymachine
October 29th, 2015, 11:33 AM
What a beautiful picture!!! I'm giving a boy lean as well.
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Jany1025
October 29th, 2015, 11:35 AM
Guess she's not telling? [emoji24]
Maybe boy if I had to choose! [emoji170]
essnce629
October 29th, 2015, 04:28 PM
Where are you???
covered in blue
October 29th, 2015, 04:43 PM
I'd guess boy too off nub but skull is so sweet and girly! Isn't it a bit late for nubs though? Where is the potty shot lol?
Butterfly Spirit
October 29th, 2015, 05:50 PM
Yep, it's a BOY, :superhero: I just wanted you guys to guess and put your nub theory knowledge to the test. :) I knew way before the U/S tech saw it. I saw this image and how the nub was angled upwards. I even saw his goods before she did. He wasn't shy at all!!!
Someone asked did I sway? Well, I tried to in the beginning. With Vitex and Red Raspberry leave supplements and such with both of my losses, but after the chemical I just threw my hands up in the air and dropped all of it.
Hubby was a bit sad, he wanted another princess. Of course I put my hopes sky high for DD to have a little sis.. so of course the GD came afterwards. I go from happy to sad again. It's just something I have to get over.
Then there's this thing I've told you all about my mom-in-law who sees all the babies before they come, even months before they come.. and well, she saw a boy in 2013 after my DD came. I didn't want to believe it of course, then she had the dream a couple other times with the same boy, and no boy ever came.. so anyway.. today I'm grieving the loss of a dream, my dream. My hubby is making me more sad saying he only produces boys unless I do 'something' but I don't know.. now I'm just stuck in between maybe this little one was meant to be afterall and nothing I would have done could have changed that. So it's just going to take time, but I know I'll be really happy and fall in love with him. There's still hope though, my hubby really truly wants another daughter. When that time comes I'll do all I can again to make it happen.
I'll post a potty shot later on. There's no doubt at all that he's a boy.. It's nice to be able to express my thoughts openly here, as I know you ladies all know what it feels like. :HH:
Dana-Alicia
October 29th, 2015, 05:55 PM
Oh butterfly, am only seeing this now, didn't know you were this far along already! Time does fly... Huge congrats on your little boy, but I so get your sadness. I hope you can find peace with this not being your DD2, but I'm sure she it out there for you. Now this baby will be adorable, you will be smitten! Allow youself to feel everything you are feeling and you'll be fine <3
mommymachine
October 29th, 2015, 05:56 PM
I think your DD is going to love having a little brother! My Ds3 and DD1 play together all the time. Believe me, I completely understand about wanting to give DD a sister. I think welcoming this little man with open arms, and keeping your heart open to a 5th baby down the road is the best scenario! BIG Congrats!!
Babygirlquest
October 29th, 2015, 06:04 PM
Aw sorry you are disappointed but I bet he will be super cute! I think there is something nice about being the only girl in the family, I always think that is a cool family dynamic :-)
Butterfly Spirit
October 29th, 2015, 08:25 PM
Aww thanks ladies you are all such a wonderful support! So kind and uplifting which is exactly what I need right now. I know I'll be okay! I just need to take this one day at a time. I love you all for understanding!
These are fb messages from my sis-in-law to me about my mom-in-law's dreams just so you see I'm not kidding. lol :) At the time she had them I asked her more and my MIL stressed to me that it was a fair skinned blue-eyed baby boy and that all our babies are like that. lol
It makes me feel better all by itself.
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covered in blue
October 29th, 2015, 09:01 PM
Congrats Butterfly xx. There is something very special about that 3rd boy. My DS's kindergarten teacher (who has both DS2 and DS3) said to me just yesterday that she was very fond of both the boys but there was something extra special about DS3. I hope this little guy fits into your family just the same as it sounds like he was just meant to be here xx. That's pretty cool about your MIL too! How crazy is that! Do you have any ideas for names?
Butterfly Spirit
October 29th, 2015, 09:29 PM
Congrats Butterfly xx. There is something very special about that 3rd boy. My DS's kindergarten teacher (who has both DS2 and DS3) said to me just yesterday that she was very fond of both the boys but there was something extra special about DS3. I hope this little guy fits into your family just the same as it sounds like he was just meant to be here xx. That's pretty cool about your MIL too! How crazy is that! Do you have any ideas for names?
Thank you! Yes actually he's named, at least the first name. We are just taking DS#2 middle name. Hubby's choice, and I'm fine with it. :)
Jany1025
October 30th, 2015, 05:45 AM
Congrats on your little boy! I completely understand how you feel. I did HT for a girl and again for another girl BUT DH said if we have only normal males he would want to put them back and I agreed but it always made me a bit nervous as I how I would feel once pregnant... Your feelings are totally valid, and we all get it....
This little boy was meant to be, and I am sure you will do all you can if you decide to try and sway again!
Kittybear
October 30th, 2015, 05:39 PM
Congratulations on your gorgeous little guy hun, I have no doubt that he will melt your heart the moment you meet him. Xx
Butterfly Spirit
November 1st, 2015, 05:04 AM
Hope everyone had a safe and Happy Halloween. Thanks again for all the love and support ladies!! :HH:
I have a concern! My milk seems to have stopped abruptly, and I hope it comes back! My DD Is still nursing. Right now I'm really nervous. Her nursing is her main source of nutrition and she does not want to eat a lot of other things! :( She's so frustrated and sad and I figured it out yesterday. Can anyone offer advice on how I can bring it back? :(
Boyzmommy
November 1st, 2015, 11:00 AM
There r some natural supplements for that in health stores
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mommymachine
November 21st, 2015, 01:34 PM
How are you doing butterfly?
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Butterfly Spirit
November 21st, 2015, 09:28 PM
How are you doing butterfly?
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Well my milk is long gone and not coming back. :( LO keeps nursing anyway. It really shows me how breastfeeding is so much more than milk. :HH:
Had a weird week. A week ago I had really powerful gas and bloating and pains that seemed where my appendix were. They started with the top of my stomach and then moved all the way down my abdomen, I felt like I was being stabbed all over it was the worst pain of my life next to my gallbladder attack two years ago. I had a pain scale of I'd say a 9 but was doing all I could to stay out of the ER. Just didn't want to go. I took Gas X and some apple cider vinegar and started to feel better so I fell asleep. The next day or so my hubby was really worried for me because the gas and bloating were still there and that can happen after an appendix has burst. So Monday he talked me into going in. My blood tests were normal I still have to find out about my urine test they had to redo it, but I've been so sick with a horrid cold that I haven't cleaned out my phone inbox so I can get voicemails.
Other than that, all is well. :) I need to find an OB soon. lol
Congrats sweetie! I see you are pregnant!!! :pregnant: :HH:
Boyzmommy
November 21st, 2015, 09:44 PM
Aww i m so sorry butterfly u r dealing with do much pain sweetie.
I hope u get better
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