DTD/Oral everyday affecting sway?

[GotBlue?]

I'm wondering if I'm interfering with my sway or not by having sex with DH or giving him oral? We are very sexual people (sorry TMI) and while we COULD cut back we realistically probably won't...hubby smokes but has cut back and is taking supps/eatting more meat. I'm not incorporating timing into my sway per se and have NO idea about my cycles as I'm literally having my first bleed off the mini pill which I stopped this week...my concern though is that this is why we got girls....we have sex or he releases way too often...is it a factor or am I overthinking? I do have change of diet on my side this time which I also believe got me girls...( I was not eatting very much or wisely)
Also is prolonging foreplay/building tension creating the same kind of benefits spermly speaking? Or is it the actual days without that make the difference? Thanks everyone!!! 😉

[Foxcubblue]

Hi GotBlue! I think it is thought (the others will correct me if I am wrong here!) that DTD frequently or having DH release frequently (as in, every day) can result in a lower sperm count. And for boys we want sperm count to be as high as possible. For TTC boy, you want to be DTD (or having DH release) every 2-3 days prior to the fertile window and no more frequently than that ideally!

[atomic sagebrush]

Well, the first and WORST thing is the smoking. Of my Custom Swayers, those who smoke are overwhelmingly people who have tons of daughters and want sons. Very few (I'd guess less than 3%) of my pink swayers have husbands who smoke or who smoke themselves.

But that having been said, YES we do believe that very frequent release sways pink. Can you even switch to every other day?? That would be better than every day. No matter what, do not do more than 1x per day except for in that fertile microwindow of O-2 thru O day.

THe smoking has GOT TO GO if at all possible. It is a very strong pink sway.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi GotBlue! I think it is thought (the others will correct me if I am wrong here!) that DTD frequently or having DH release frequently (as in, every day) can result in a lower sperm count. And for boys we want sperm count to be as high as possible. For TTC boy, you want to be DTD (or having DH release) every 2-3 days prior to the fertile window and no more frequently than that ideally!

Every other day is ok, every 2 days may be slightly better. Just not 2x a day!!!

[GotBlue?]

Hi GotBlue! I think it is thought (the others will correct me if I am wrong here!) that DTD frequently or having DH release frequently (as in, every day) can result in a lower sperm count. And for boys we want sperm count to be as high as possible. For TTC boy, you want to be DTD (or having DH release) every 2-3 days prior to the fertile window and no more frequently than that ideally!

Thank you so much Foxcubblue! Even if it is news I kinda didn't want to hear lol I guess what I should really be focusing on is getting to know my cycle...as of now I have no idea when my fertile window is! For now I will cut back just to be safe.

[luckyfourleafclover]

I don't know the answer but am feeling jealous of your sex life haha!

[maidentomother]

Saliva is bad for sperm so avoid oral (giving or receiving) prior to intercourse. After BD or outside of it, or not in your fertile time, it's fine, possibly even good for blue if you swallow the semen.

[GotBlue?]

Well, the first and WORST thing is the smoking. Of my Custom Swayers, those who smoke are overwhelmingly people who have tons of daughters and want sons. Very few (I'd guess less than 3%) of my pink swayers have husbands who smoke or who smoke themselves.

But that having been said, YES we do believe that very frequent release sways pink. Can you even switch to every other day?? That would be better than every day. No matter what, do not do more than 1x per day except for in that fertile microwindow of O-2 thru O day.

THe smoking has GOT TO GO if at all possible. It is a very strong pink sway.

Thanks Atomic! I've just spoken with DH and he says he's willing and could handle fully stopping smoking, cutting down to 2 cups of coffee a day, changing his diet completely and taking all supps I give him but he cannot handle changing our sex life. Lol. He has however agreed that this may not be our last baby so if this sway brings me another princess we'll know the frequency is our main culprit and he HAS to settle down!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

:agree: Then that is what ya gotta do! :) Enjoy LOL!

[True Blue]

I'm in awe :D

[Kittybear]

Me too! My poor DH ;) x