ImmiNAddi TTC a GIRL Sway Attempt

[ImmiNAddi]

TTC a Girl Sway Attempt
Gender Result:
BOY - miscarriage
DW Age:
37
DH Age:
38
Current Children's Gender(s)
Boy
Boy
Boy
Boy
Number of Months TTC
1
Did you purchase and follow a GD Personalized Plan?
Yes
DIET
Did you follow a diet plan?
Yes
If yes to diet, which one did you most follow? LE(Low Everything)


Comments regarding DW's diet changes-
Big change for me - pretty much the opposite to what I was eating/doing
If diet was used, length of time before attempt?
11 weeks
Did you skip breakfast regularly?
Yes
Did DH change his diet with you?
Yes
Comments regarding DH's diet-
He limited red meat, fish, eggs and also started drinking soy milk
DId you consume alcohol? Often- daily


DId you try to limit caffeine?
No, I drink caffeine regularly
Any Diet Details?
I actually started drinking coffee for the sway!
Any Diet Comments/Additional Info?
Drank coke zero and coffee which I have never touched before!
WEIGHT AND EXERCISE
What did you weigh/BMI do leading up to O?
I was down to 56kg leading up to O
Any Weight/Exercise related additional info/comments?
I started the diet at 61.5kg, in Oct last year (2014) I was 71kg and had lost the 10kgs before starting the LE diet and cardio. I did the 60mins cardio about 5-6 times a week
THINGS in VG and CONCEPTION DATE(CD) INFO
pH Before Starting a Sway Program, if known
n/a
Any VG potions used? NO


CM pH at attempt
n/a
DH pH
n/a
How many BD attempts did you make for the BFP cycle?
1
BD Dates according to Ovulation 1 Day Before O


Any additional comments?
1 BD at positive opk, which turned out to be the day before ovulation
THE DEED INFO
DH Info about Swimmers Frequent Release


BD Position
Missionary
Did you Jump and Dump? Yes


Any relevant attempt details?
J & D about 5mins afterwards
SUPPLEMENTS USED
DW Supplements folic acid
Fiber
Antihistamine


DH Supplements
-
Any additional supplement info?
DH took OLE tablets for months before ttc. I took 1 antihistamine the day of attempt
Did you do anything with Ions?
Yes, had 2 rock salt lamps, wore rose quartz jewellery, bought a pretty house plant, used lavender body wash, hand wash, body lotion etc
Moon Phase during conception? ?? Not sure?
[B]Did you use any Old Wives Tales?
n/a
Things that make me feel great about my sway:
I feel like I did everything that I could do. I was pretty strict on my diet and exercise. My timing was spot on.. not sure what else I could of done to entice a pink swimmer!!
Things that make me nervous about my sway:
The fact that I already have 4 boys and just feel that I am prone to boys. Also that it happened so quickly, 1 attempt in the 1st month trying....
Things worth mentioning:
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[ImmiNAddi]

Thought I would add my chart too :)

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[covered in blue]

Congrats :). Hope it's finally a pink one for you! How exciting xx

[mandyp85]

Congratulations and good luck. Fx for a healthy, hopefully pink, bean :)

[2xblue]

Congrats! Great sway, hope you hear pink! :)

[TiffSal]

Congrats immi! Hope you get your girl.
Can i ask if this is your first girls sway or you tried for your boys? X

[Pbn3]

Immi I'm so excited for you!!!!! Love your sway and I'll be stalking your due date thread to see the result! Sending you front end loaders of pink dust lol

[ImmiNAddi]

Congrats immi! Hope you get your girl.
Can i ask if this is your first girls sway or you tried for your boys? X

Thanks Tiff ;) This is my first girls sway - never tried it before. We were happy with 3 boys, then #4 came along as a surprise baby and I hoped for a pink one.. but he was a little blue spunk :) So that got my pink wishing happening and now here I am hoping for her xx

[TiffSal]

How nice. I alwasy wanted 3 boys and 1 girls but after having 2 i changed my mind 😀

[Pbn3]

I thought the same tiffsal till I was told next would be my last so added to my hope my last would be a girl but at me and dh age will just be happy with a healthly bub regardless :) wont stop me from swaying my ass of to try get a girl tho lol!

[momamia4]

Congrats!! FX for a pink bean! :D

[Ashforblue]

Super congrats Immi!! So, so excited for you! Have all my pink dust!!:cheer::cheer::cheer:

[atomic sagebrush]

Good luck!!!

[maidentomother]

Nice sway fx for pink!

[WannaGirl]

Sounds like a good sway, all the best xx

[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

Congrats!!!! I'm over the moon for you!!! Great sway!


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[Pink Pony]

Great Sway Immi :)

[Pearl327]

That is a great sway Immi. Best of luck

[ImmiNAddi]

Thanks ladies! Nervously waiting, waiting now..... :)

[essnce629]

Great sway! Congrats and I hope you get your pink bundle!

[ImmiNAddi]

Sadly this pregnancy did not last. I miscarried and had a D & C.
I have just found out that it was a BOY and also that it had Trisomy 16 - hence the miscarriage.
There is that old saying 'everything happens for a reason' - even if we don't like the reason, I guess it is right. :sadflwr:

I was trying again, but as I am a bit taken aback about the results, I am not so sure now.... We will see xox

[covered in blue]

So sorry this happened Immi. Your sway was awesome too! I'm not sure you could have done anything different. In the end it just comes down to whichever sperm makes it first and we really can only do our best to change the odds. Big hugs honey xx. You want to do HT?

[ImmiNAddi]

Thanks Covered xox I actually have already done HT back in March :( I got 5 eggs, they all fertilised but none made it to testing. I am worrying that those 5 eggs were no good, and now this one.... Not sure if I should tempt fate again. I don't want to give up, but I don't think I could do another miscarriage either.
I know, my sway was so solid, there really isn't much else I could of done. I have stopped the cardio as I found it very hard and time consuming. I actually got my 1st clomid script filled today and need to start it today if I am going to ttc this month... I feel like my head is spinning with what to do. Maybe I really am best at boys :bluesperm:

I'm thankful for you ladies on here to be around to help out with advice and any knowledge that you can pass on xox

[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

Xo Immi


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[ImmiNAddi]

Thank you Hitme xox

[Comptokl]

So sorry for your loss! Hope you find comfort in the coming days and clarity on what to do next!


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[Ashforblue]

Oh Immi, what shocking news that must have been... Whatever you decide, we are here for you.... ((Hugs)) xoxo

[ImmiNAddi]

Thanks Ash xox
I was very shocked about the Trisomy 16 part - I wasn't really shocked about the boy part though - the 5th time I have heard 'boy', so I am kind of used to that :/

[essnce629]

I'm so so sorry for your loss Immi. What a shock that must have been. I think you should do whatever you feel is right in your heart. Please take some time for yourself and allow yourself to heal before stressing too much about what to do next. You may have a clearer idea about what is right for you after a few weeks have past. (((HUGS)))

[XXforhubby]

I'm so incredibly sorry Immi, that this had happened! Be kind and gentle with yourself. You and your DH will soon know what the next steps should be. Know that we are all here for you!!!

Huge hugs!!


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[Foxcubblue]

Oh Immi, I'm so sorry to read this about the trisomy 16 - as you say, everything happens for a reason and the body knows what it is doing. I know that the majority of early miscarriages happen because of genetic issues, and it worries me thinking about mine and what went on (as I mentioned, being in the UK I will never know as they never test anything!!!) and whether it might happen again. I just have to trust and hope and pray that it won't and that is my prayer for you. Sending big hugs xxx

[goodmom]

Immi ... my heart is breaking for u ... m so sorry for ur loss ...plz dont be hard on urself ... u did ur best .. may be this was not the right time for us ... :( ... hugsss xx

[ImmiNAddi]

Thanks ladies xox

I asked my OB if this would increase my chance of it happening again and he said 'No'. He said that I still have the 1/500 (approx.) chance of it happening again the same as anyone else and that just because it happened once doesn't mean it increases my risk etc. Of course he couldn't say that it wouldn't happen again but he thought it would be unlikely. So - a 'little' bit of relief....

[atomic sagebrush]

I agree - lightning doesn't usually strike twice in the same place. :)

[2xblue]

I'm so sorry for your loss and sorry about the trisomy :( usually trisomies are rare and I highly doubt it will happen to you again. We lost our first baby when I was 13 weeks pregnant, he had a trisomy 21. After that I've been very scared if I ever have healthy children but here I am with two lovely and healthy boys.

All the best to you and your family!