Hello :) I'm here To get my girl <3

[HelloDD1]

Hello girls :)

I spent a lots of time reading things here, thanks Atomic for all the work you've done !!! And other girls To share their experience and advices !!

I've always wanted a daughter, like lots of girls here. Baby1 was... a boy. For baby2 I wanted To sway pink but I felt pregnant before swaying, while I was breastfeeding ds1. And guess what, it is another Boy...
During my pregnancy, people around me were all saying baby2 was a girl, moon said girl, chineese calendar said girl, we dtd only once that cycle, doing nothing 7 days before (didn't know it was swaying at this moment), pregnancy was different, baby wasn't big according to ultrasounds, so I was hoping they were right... but with what I saw during the last ultrasound, I guessed it was a boy, I was so upset... I was already thinking of baby3....
While I was breastfeeding baby1 I ate a lot, I was hungry all the time, and I took pregnancy/breastfeeding vitamins, so maybe it swayed blue ..
Now I have 2 options... Swaying pink or pgd. A little bit hard To choose... It sounds like I had PCOS before baby1 and after I stopped the pill. my cycles were a little messy...and had signs of high T-levels, and another. androgen hormon level high(confirmed with blood tests)but felt pregnant without anything at cycle1 for ds1.I guess i'm kinda made To produce boys....so pgd May be the Best way? I leave in France, and felt glad when I found clinic R (the cheapest, good results, not too far), but sounds like it's over now :( at the same time, swaying May be risky with my pcos.... So here I am ^^
Thanks for reading :)

[Mulberry Smurf]

Your second DS sounds similar to my DS2 - one attempt, nothing before it, close in age to first DS! I think you'd probably respond well to a sway from the sounds of it, with the LE diet and exercise etc, but the only guarantee is PGD so if you can afford it you could try that and then if it doesn't go to plan you could sway maybe? No one can make that decision for you but this forum is an amazing resource for information to help you make an informed opinion! And atomic is super at answering questions etc xx

[Comptokl]

Welcome!! You are in great company with these wise women! I am attempting my first sway as well after having 3 boys all 18 months apart!! Like you, I conceived my second son very quickly while nursing my first and the same with my third son. Looking back, I was eating a lot of protein, taking prenatals for all 3 religiously, and doing other things that may have helped sway blue. I was not aware of any of that at the time. Oh, and I also looked into PGD but for financial and other reasons, I just don't think it's the right route for us.

Glad you're here and can't wait to witness your journey!

[nuthinbutpink]

Clinic R is still an option! Just read up and know how to proceed there to get what you need! Welcome!

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi and welcome, please let me know how I can help.

[HelloDD1]

Hello girls, I 'm so happy I found you !!! Thanks for the support, it helped to see i'm not alone.

Yep Mulberry, like you said, I think that i'll try pgd first, and if it doesn't work, i'll sway. To be honest i'm affraid that my PCOS screw up all my efforts :(

Mulberry and Compcokl, wish you your pink BFP !!!
How long have you been sawying ?

Regarding clinic R, I though that foreign laidies where kinda automatically sent to the wrong doctor.
My ds2 is Just one month, and it was my second c-section, so I have To wait at least a year before ttc. hope clinic R Will still be a good option !

Thanks Atomic for asking. For the moment I 'm intigrating all these informations, and won't hesitate To contact you if needed :)

Cheers girls :)