Help with bding😕

[Boyzmommy]

Hi
I m new here and trying to sink in all information. I m going to try next month and not sure when to bd. so on first positive O even if its dull lines?
Should i abstain b4 dtd for 10 days or doing daily in condom and on +O i should dtd once?
Please help me out. I m all confused.
How dtd every 4 days going to sway pink?
So i guess the most impor thing is diet?not timing
What else should i do?
Can i take metmorphine to lower my sugars?its a diabetic medi to lower sugars

[Boyzmommy]

I have been taking b12 as well. Should i just drop it now. Will it effect my sway?
Its only three weeks until my attempt

[has2gentlemen]

Almost all the girls here are doing either every 4th day or a single attempt at positive opk. Both of those will get you a single attempt in your fertile window, which seems to be the strongest pink tactic. The frequency of release for your hubby doesn't seem to matter, so it is up to you if you would rather use condoms on the other times or abstain. The important thing is that single unprotected attempt either at pos opk or on the 4 day rhythm.
If you're using opk's, you want to wait for a true positive. I know I get two lines every day of the month, but it's not a positive unless the test line is as dark as, or darker than, the control line.

Diet for 12 weeks (6 minimum if you have no weight to lose -- bmi 18.5 or lower-) and exercise for an hour a day 6 days a week for 6 weeks before your attempt is getting the best results.

Don't take anything to lower your blood sugar. That's dangerous.


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[Boyzmommy]

Thanks hun. So if i bd today 3rd again at 7th and so on with this rythm?
Should i do with condom on and in fertile window without condom?
Sorry for so many questions

[Boyzmommy]

Positive opk isnt gonna b on O day and sway blue as i dtd when i got positive lines and DS was conceived

[has2gentlemen]

You can dtd every day if you want or in any other pattern, the important part is just the unprotected attempt every 4th day. So you could dtd on the 3rd, 5th, 6th, 7th , 10th, and twice on the 11th as long as it's unprotected on the 3rd, 7th and for one attempt on the 11th. You don't even have to do opk's with the e4d method, you just dtd in that pattern and test when you think you're late. It keeps a lot of the obsessing and stressing at bay.

Timing doesn't sway. The positive opk actually occurs about 2 days before o anyway. I got both my boys dtd a day or two after pos opk.


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[Boyzmommy]

I really sppreciate your help ����i hope you get ur girl too. U made it pretty simple for me. Is it gonna increase his sperm count ?
Positive opk is when u get two line even if they are light?which happens two days before O right?

[has2gentlemen]

Haha, I've become so obsessive about learning all this stuff that I'll probably get 4 more boys.

I can't answer as to sperm count, I haven't really read too much into it.

Not necessarily. I get two lines all month and they just get dark when I O. It depends on your hormone levels. Technically a positive is when the test line is as dark as (or darker than) the control line. And that just means you are having your LH surge. Most women have their surge 12-24 hours before ovulating. Some women it's longer. Others it's shorter.


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[Boyzmommy]

27075
If you could see the pic. I got this and dtd once and got preg with a son

[Boyzmommy]

Does it seems like +opk

[has2gentlemen]

That's probably a positive for you then, yeah. As for getting a boy with one attempt, nothing is a guarantee, that's why it's considered a sway. Because it sways your odds. Basically you naturally have a 50/50 chance. Swaying might get you a 70/30 chance instead, but even if 100 women follow the diet, exercise, and one attempt, some of them are still going to get opposites. If you want 100%, you have to go high tech.


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[Boyzmommy]

You are right. So in picture it is a +opk as i never understand it. So i O after getting +opk witin 12-36 hours right?

[Boyzmommy]

And if lines are faint its not a positive?

[Boyzmommy]

Help atomic with opk

[atomic sagebrush]

OPK tests are not positive until the lines are equally dark. Light lines = negative.

I literally cannot tell you guys what to do without a custom plan, I simply don't have enough information about you and your husband. I just read another thread where you say your hubby is 41 and I'd never have a 41 year old do abstain. Do daily release, or regular release every 2-4 days instead. Stick with one attempt.

Timing does not work and most of us on here have 2-3-4 or more timing opposites (myself included)

Best results come from diet longer than 12 weeks, exercise 60 min a day 6-7 days a week, one attempt (regardless of day) and Clomid if you can get it.

[atomic sagebrush]

I have been taking b12 as well. Should i just drop it now. Will it effect my sway?
Its only three weeks until my attempt

wean off

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks hun. So if i bd today 3rd again at 7th and so on with this rythm?
Should i do with condom on and in fertile window without condom?
Sorry for so many questions

If you're doing every 4 days, you would NOT have the condom for that.

If you're doing one attempt, you would use a condom for every attempt except the one in fertile window.

[atomic sagebrush]

You are right. So in picture it is a +opk as i never understand it. So i O after getting +opk witin 12-36 hours right?

Yes that is correct and a faint line is negative. Test line has to be as dark or darker than the control line

[Boyzmommy]

Thanks Atomic. I would love to get a custom plan but i have no time left now af is due day after tom.

[atomic sagebrush]

I help everyone whether they have a custom plan or not, just may take me an extra day or two so don't leave q's til the last minute! :)

[Boyzmommy]

Does it seems like +opk


I help everyone whether they have a custom plan or not, just may take me an extra day or two so don't leave q's til the last minute! :)

Thanks Atomic. I was supposed to get Af today but no signs i guess vitex made my cycle longer.
I m having weird feeling from eating less. I dont know if thts coz of supplements or diet. My head spins all the tome n i hve unwell feeling.
I m going to start clomid from cd3 to cd7. Hope it ll help me with swaying.
Right now i m just dieting vitex saw palmetto

[has2gentlemen]

I'd wager you aren't eating enough. If your head is spinning and you feel unwell- add more calories. Most of us use the "myfitnesspal" tracker on a computer or phone to make sure we're meeting the minimums every day.
1500 calories, 40 grams protein (without including fruits or vegetables) and 30 grams fat are the absolute minimum for the LE diet for nearly everyone. If you aren't reaching those numbers, TTC isn't safe and you may not even ovulate.


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[Boyzmommy]

Thanks hun. I guess i m over obsessing. I ll track that. I m starting clomid on cd3 so should i take vitex today af day 1

[has2gentlemen]

No! No other supplements or herbs with clomid.


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[Boyzmommy]

Ok cool. I m relaxing now. Just taking my folic acid. Got af one day late. Usually i m pretty much on same day. So vitex didnt mess up. I hope clomid helps me get my girl. I m planning bding every 4 th day. Hope it helps.
So i was on le diet was taking supp but now just swaying on clomid. Whats the chances of girl with clomid?

[atomic sagebrush]

Very good on Clomid and LE Diet. As good as it gets. :) It will never be 100% but you are on target for a good sway.

[Boyzmommy]

Thanks atomic. I hope i m doing my best whats in my hand