View Full Version : So. ..maybe a girl? review what went on please!
SweetLily
December 7th, 2015, 09:44 PM
So. .not ttc! But got that surprise bfp this morning after 6 years of super early mcs and faint bfps...This one was super strong! Dr's sperm count is low. We did 3 days before o ( I think!). Was not on any diet and hadn't lost weight. Been sick for a few days or a week before actually.
It's pretty much a 50/50 isn't it? 1 do have 3 boys to 1 girl. My health overall hasn't been great for the last few years...but nothing is actually wrong with me either (that Dr's cam identify).
Any thoughts on the outcome? I was going to do clomid in 2 cycles but now idk if that's going to be needed. Hoping this is a sticky healthy bean. ..but a pink one would be even better!
Love your thoughts on chances even tho its just guesses!
missiz
December 7th, 2015, 10:52 PM
wow thats is a surprise :) congratulations!! I thought it was pretty much 50/50 without swaying but I suppose we can accidentally be doing things in our daily lives that inadvertently sway one way or another. I hope you have a beautiful little pink sticky bean in there and that it all goes well for you!
atomic sagebrush
December 10th, 2015, 01:38 PM
You always have a chance of a boy or a girl regardless of what you did to sway. I don't like guessing over people's sways for already existing pregnancies because I simply don't know, and I think it creates false hope or false despair when I do. :)
atomic sagebrush
December 10th, 2015, 01:41 PM
wow thats is a surprise :) congratulations!! I thought it was pretty much 50/50 without swaying but I suppose we can accidentally be doing things in our daily lives that inadvertently sway one way or another. I hope you have a beautiful little pink sticky bean in there and that it all goes well for you!
Since we get 75-80% with blue sways, I suspect some of us are coming into TTC with a much higher than 50-50 chance of continuing to have boys. :) Most of us who have a lot of one gender, tend to do things in our day to day life that actually are swaying for us, without really realizing it. So I think most people who have found this site are probably NOT coming in at 50-50. That's why we sway, so we get a girl on the 2nd, 3rd, or 4th try instead of having to "Duggar it out" and going 6-7-8 kids before we'd come up with an opposite. :)
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