The good old timing.. attemp coming up..

[mydaughter]

One more question :nails:
The timing :-) I just read atomics awesome essay about it, with all the different option us girl swayers have!
Now our last sex was Tuesday Dec. 8th, I expect to O on Thursday Dec 17th, my husband is not home today and tomorrow.
Should we rather dtd Sunday till Tuesday and then stop ( for a 2 day cut-off)
or should be just dtd on Tuesday next?
Or just Monday and Tuesday?
My husband does not like to help himself when I tell him to.. so I guess having him release before we dtd won't work for him..
I know timing doesn't sway all that much, but I guess if you conceived both sons one day before Ovulation ( and 4 days abstinence before) you just have to change something for a better feeling.

I am thankful for you HELP:kissy::kissy::nails:

[sweetdream]

What i would do and did is dtd sunday and then thursday. You will have 1 attempt in fertile window. Or just do tuesday and saturday.

[mydaughter]

Okay thank you! so you would dtd on O day? I thought the odds of conceiving where better the two days before, that's why I wonder if I just just dtd 2 days before O- a little worried that after a whole week abstaining and DH wearing two pair of brief undies there won't be many healthy spermies left?

[sweetdream]

I would just go with 4 dat cut off. Doesn't matter when o would be.

[mydaughter]

Any other suggestions? I am not comfortable with bding in O day, so would you rather just dtd tuesday or once again before?

[atomic sagebrush]

This is one of those crystal ball questions I cannot really answer. whatever the reason you got boys before, I can guarantee that based on our results it WASN'T the pattern you were having sex in, because that has gotten many of us girls (myself included). So while I do understand you want to change it up and that's totally at your discretion to do, jsut be sure you're not changing it to be more boy friendly!

I think you should just DTD on Tuesday. THat's still a cutoff. DO NOT have a bunch of attempts though. Stick with one. Even though you got boys with one attempt before, it was in spite of that, not because of it. You had boys for some other reason.

If you really want to add something to that, you can have your husband release once (you can help with this if you know what I mean ;)) and then you dump that batch. Then DTD as soon as he's able to and use only the second batch for insemination. If you can have this within an hour, fantastic. if you can have it within 3 hours, great. Within 6 hours is still ok. If it gets longer than 6 hours and he can't do it again, it is still ok to have attempt (would still only be one attempt) but it's not going to sway for you really.