For those of you who have done IVF/PGD

[PinkandPolkaDots]

Hello everyone,

We are considering IVF/PGD but held up on what to do with unused embryos. I would love to hear your experiences - what did you decide to do, did your thoughts change along the way (for example, I think my decision would be different if I had 2 extra embryos versus 8).

Very much looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

[nuthinbutpink]

You may donate them or discard them. Those the the only two real options.

Donation is wonderful. You may do so anonymously. Most probably end up discarding the unused embryos.

[atomic sagebrush]

Some people also choose to have them transferred at a point in their cycle that pregnancy could not occur. They feel this is more natural than discarding them. Best of luck for making this difficult decision.

[The Anchor]

It is a tough decision, and I didn't have any left over, but I know several lovely ladies who went the DE route who simply GUSHED at the generosity of their donors. It is a wonderful gift!

I think I would have donated if I had any left over (easy for me to say, right?) LOL.

[alreadyneedivf]

hi! i'm still not sure what to do with my embryos! I saw you are in NY--I did it in NY too. I'll maybe donate my embryos although only 1 out of 3 was actually tested! LMK if you have any questions about doing ivf/pgd in NY--feel free to PM me.

[maidentomother]

Does anyone know if it's possible to donate openly I, e. NOT anonymously? If I ever go IVF I would only feel comfortable donating extras if I could meet & choose the potential recipients and keep in touch on a yearly basis at the least.