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NCBeachyGrl
January 8th, 2016, 02:19 PM
TTC a Girl Sway Attempt
Gender Result:
Unknown
DW Age:
35
DH Age:
34
Current Children's Gender(s)
4 Boys
Number of Months TTC
1
Did you purchase and follow a GD Personalized Plan?
No
DIET
Did you follow a diet plan?
No
If yes to diet, which one did you most follow?
-
Comments regarding DW's diet changes-
It was around Christmas and I was eating a ton of sweets (handfuls of M&Ms for breakfast and brownies for lunch)
If diet was used, length of time before attempt?
Didn't really have a consistent diet; wasn't planning on getting pg and was all over the place with food. I had relaxed on calories and gained about 5 lbs more than I usually weigh over the last few months with the intention of losing weight after new year's.
Did you skip breakfast regularly?
Yes
Did DH change his diet with you?
No
Comments regarding DH's diet-
DH is a still into working out (sigh) and drinks an enormous amount of caffeine per day and consumes a ton of protein.
DId you consume alcohol? A couple of drinks per week


DId you try to limit caffeine?
No, I drink caffeine regularly
Any Diet Details?
I was drinking a ton of caffeine - 1 coffee + at least 2 diet sodas a day
Any Diet Comments/Additional Info?
I have limited meat over the last few months and started eating more pasta b/c I was growing sick of it.
WEIGHT AND EXERCISE
What did you weigh/BMI do leading up to O?
weight was 150 lbs (sigh again) and BMI 22.8
Any Weight/Exercise related additional info/comments?
I was not working out at all and was feeling pretty low about my extra pounds.
THINGS in VG and CONCEPTION DATE(CD) INFO
pH Before Starting a Sway Program, if known
no idea
Any VG potions used? Other


CM pH at attempt
no idea
DH pH
no idea
How many BD attempts did you make for the BFP cycle?
1
BD Dates according to Ovulation O day only


Any additional comments?
we used lube - "Wet" brand. I was supposed to O on Christmas Eve (based on 28 day cycle), but I O'd one day before (was expecting that could happen - O mostly on CD13). I know we BD'd on O day, but can't remember other days. I'm thinking we didn't DTD any other time in my window, but could be wrong.
THE DEED INFO
DH Info about Swimmers
-
BD Position
Multiple
Did you Jump and Dump? Yes


Any relevant attempt details?
We weren't trying to get PG and were relying on Fertility Awareness Method. Leading up to O day (around 5-7 days ahead), we would either not BD or DH would pull out. I can't really remember all the days we BD'd, but I'm pretty sure we BD'd on O day only, but not confident. DH swears up and down he didn't screw up and I don't think he did either. He thinks I had my cycles screwed up but I am positive I did not.
SUPPLEMENTS USED
DW Supplements
-
DH Supplements
-
Any additional supplement info?
Had been very sick for a month (first strep, then terrible cold, then sinus infection) and was taking Motrin regularly for pain - had to take every 8 hours for like a week leading up to and after O day
Did you do anything with Ions?
no
Moon Phase during conception?
First Quarter
Did you use any Old Wives Tales?
no
Things that make me feel great about my sway:
I was very sick at time of O and had been for about a month. I had strep in November, then the week before Christmas I came down with one of the worst colds I've ever had. I had felt like I had been hit by a bus for a month. On top of it, I had gone to the dr. office on Monday for the kids and 2 of the 4 had ear infections and the night before O, my 1 year old came down with the stomach bug and threw up many times that night. The other 3 kids picked up the stomach bug on Christmas eve too on top of their ear infections and cold. So being sick was my big sway factor. I am also about 90% positive that this is a pull out baby (LOL), but there is a slight chance we DTD about 5 days before O. I was also really sleep deprived being up all night with sick baby, myself being sick, and the other kids sick too.
Things that make me nervous about my sway:
I can't remember the days that we BD'd leading up to O. I know 100% the day of O was pull out, but I'm not confident when the other last time was and am second guessing when we last BD'd. I have been pretty strict that we not BD unprotected well in advance of O (have been following for about 8 months). but I'm just not confident if we might have DTD unprotected too close to O day. At least if we had, the earliest would have been 5 days before O.

Weight gain is a concern and not working out. Diet was really bad
Things worth mentioning:
DH and I had been talking a lot about whether we wanted to stop at 4 or go on for one more. I had been praying about it for months and put it into God's hands. So, I feel very strongly this is meant to be. I am very content with my four boys and feel very blessed. I am very excited that I get another opportunity to have one last baby and want to cherish every moment.

nuthinbutpink
January 8th, 2016, 02:26 PM
Welcome back!! Congrats!

atomic sagebrush
January 8th, 2016, 02:30 PM
Oh my GOSH I was literally just thinking about you!!!! Huge congrats!!!!!

Sending you every single scrap of pink dust I have NC!!!!!!

maidentomother
January 8th, 2016, 02:52 PM
Exciting! You must have just gotten your BFP, right? When is your DD? Being sick so much, 1 attempt and pulling out could very well produce a girl, fx for you. :)

The Anchor
January 8th, 2016, 02:55 PM
BEACHY!!! Number 5??? Huge congrats, I hope it's your girl, but clearly you're a pretty good boy mom too :)

NCBeachyGrl
January 8th, 2016, 02:56 PM
Thank you Atomic and NBP!! It feels surreal being back :nails: I hate that I went MIA before. We had SO much going on...moving, baby, etc. And, I just needed some time to focus on positives and not negatives. I feel much more content than I ever have and just love my boys to pieces! I'll take whatever pink I can get!:suprise:

NCBeachyGrl
January 8th, 2016, 02:58 PM
Yes! Just got BFP on Tuesday. DD is 9/14! I had all 4 at 37 weeks so expecting an August baby. Starting to get over the shock and starting to get excited!

NCBeachyGrl
January 8th, 2016, 03:18 PM
BEACHY!!! Number 5??? Huge congrats, I hope it's your girl, but clearly you're a pretty good boy mom too :)

Thank you Anchor!!

ThreeMenAndALAdy
January 8th, 2016, 03:22 PM
Woohoo. Congrats to you!! 5 is my favorite number. So great to read this and get your pm.

True Blue
January 8th, 2016, 03:23 PM
Good Luck momma:) nice to see its not only me who's that persistent :D

I hope you have your baby girl on board :cheer:

ksmom
January 8th, 2016, 04:12 PM
Congratulations and pink dust! Hopefully you've got a pink bean in there! :)

Babygirlquest
January 8th, 2016, 04:44 PM
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Kittybear
January 8th, 2016, 04:52 PM
Massive congrats on your pregnancy Hun! We were in the due dates club together and I worried about you when you disappeared. I'm so glad that you are in a good place now and, pink or blue, it sounds like this little one was meant to be :) good luck and wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

ahorn586
January 8th, 2016, 06:06 PM
Congratulations!!!! I hope that you get your baby girl!!!!

NCBeachyGrl
January 8th, 2016, 06:26 PM
Woohoo. Congrats to you!! 5 is my favorite number. So great to read this and get your pm.

Thank you!! It got so crazy for us and my work got insane! I feel so bad I went MIA on everyone!! DS4 was also very colicky at first and I have struggled a bit with #3 and 4 so close together. Just when I feel like things are getting easier...

2xblue
January 9th, 2016, 01:18 AM
Congrats! Pink dust!

essnce629
January 9th, 2016, 04:19 AM
Congrats on #5! Am I correct in remembering that #4 was a pull out baby too? Please send your pull out failure dust my way LOL!!!! FX that this is your girl!

NCBeachyGrl
January 9th, 2016, 08:30 AM
Congrats on #5! Am I correct in remembering that #4 was a pull out baby too? Please send your pull out failure dust my way LOL!!!! FX that this is your girl!

Ha ha!! #4 was DH failure! He was supposed to pull out but didn't! This time he actually did at least!

Ccbaby
January 9th, 2016, 11:04 AM
Congrats on your number 5 looks like you conceive very easily too! Just like me so glad to see others who don't have perfect sways either. I'm due Sept.6 but always go early as well! so prob. Aug. We tried for girl but seems my husband has a high fertility rate too. oh well




:DS::DS::DS::ttcgirl:

NCBeachyGrl
January 10th, 2016, 12:12 PM
Congrats on your number 5 looks like you conceive very easily too! Just like me so glad to see others who don't have perfect sways either. I'm due Sept.6 but always go early as well! so prob. Aug. We tried for girl but seems my husband has a high fertility rate too. oh well

:DS::DS::DS::ttcgirl:

Congrats and good luck! Yes, we always joke that I get pg whenever DH sneezes. My sister is the same way and has 3 girls so there is still hope for us fertile myrtles! :pray:

atomic sagebrush
January 11th, 2016, 04:07 PM
Thank you Atomic and NBP!! It feels surreal being back :nails: I hate that I went MIA before. We had SO much going on...moving, baby, etc. And, I just needed some time to focus on positives and not negatives. I feel much more content than I ever have and just love my boys to pieces! I'll take whatever pink I can get!:suprise:

Please don't ever apologize for going missing, we are still here when you're ready to come back. :) No matter what you cannot lose, either a baby girl or a snuggly new little guy. :)

Am3a
January 13th, 2016, 07:58 AM
Congratulations!
Fingers crossed for a pink one. [emoji177]

Dreamofpink
February 5th, 2016, 12:28 PM
Wow! Welcome back NC! How exciting! Keeping my fingers crossed that this is indeed your little girl ��

NCBeachyGrl
February 5th, 2016, 07:27 PM
Wow! Welcome back NC! How exciting! Keeping my fingers crossed that this is indeed your little girl ��

Thanks!! So exciting to see you have a DD on the way!!! Huge congrats!