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mummyoffour
January 16th, 2016, 10:00 PM
Hi, Im new to this site. well as in I have finally joined, but I had been looking through here to try and sway with my 4th but never actually joined. I had my 4th boy a couple of months ago and I think I do have bit of gender disappointment now. I had said the whole pregnancy that it would be our last for different reasons and I guess I had really in my heart assumed it would be a girl this time. I never imagined I would not have a girl. So now I feel like my family isn't complete, and I really do want to try again for another baby, I know we will love the baby no matter what sex it is. I try to sway with our 4th but after 3 miscarriages in a row I just wanted to get pregnant so gave up on it as I was worried something I was doing was causing the miscarriages.
I don't know if my husband will go for another especially since I was so adament the 4th would be our last but Im hoping I can convince him, I know he would love a girl too.

atomic sagebrush
January 20th, 2016, 11:21 AM
Hi and welcome!!! I had 4 boys and then got a girl with my 5th. :) Let me know how I can help!

mummyoffour
January 25th, 2016, 02:54 AM
Hi Atomic, thankyou. I really do hope if we try for a 5th that we will get our girl like you did. I never imagined that I wouldn't and now that I possibly won't I am really down about it, I didn't think I would be but I also didn't think I wouldn't have a girl. You just always imagine that you have atlas one of each gender.

atomic sagebrush
January 26th, 2016, 07:31 PM
Yes exactly!! Some ladies do have a strong preference right from the very first and then others of us (like me as well) just can't imagine that we could come up to bat 4 times and get a boy all four times! :)

netti02
January 26th, 2016, 09:03 PM
Yes exactly!! Some ladies do have a strong preference right from the very first and then others of us (like me as well) just can't imagine that we could come up to bat 4 times and get a boy all four times! :)
Lol yes 4 times and 4 boys i know that feeling 😂

Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess