Bfp and so much anxiety about wanting dd, advice?! Wisdom?!

[Traci25]

I've been on gender dreaming since last summer, I'm sooo nervous and can't calm down. I just tested and had a bfp 3 days before missed period. I know that it may not stick. But Ive been ttc girl since last aug. Im 40 and have 1dd and 2 ds. I only really want a healthy dd. I did LE diet, skipping breakfast, excercised 70 min 6 days a week (running really hard) I had one attempt after ovulation I'm guessing bc all cramps stopped at 7pm and dtd at 10. It was my only option this month I wasn't a fan of dtd after ovulation, seems like it would sway boy, if it even resulted in bfp. So I never expected to get a bfp. Now I'm petrified. What if I didn't do enough? What if the boy sperm swam faster? I'm soo scared of gender disappointment, I had it bad last time and I know my dd will be devastated as well. I'm sorry this sounds so selfish. I know it's a waiting game no and see if it sticks and I get a desired gender. I'm afraid to find out I don't want to get depressed again!! Why is this happening ?! I am thried ingot a bfp but have horrible anxiety, has anyone experienced this?? It's my first time, I've always been so relieved now with swaying I feel anxiety!!

[missiz]

your sway sounds good, you have done alot to help so please dont worry. the deed is done now, so as hard as it sounds, you can calm down and just try and enjoy the fact that you successfully fell pregnant :) congratulations!! I understand the prospect of GD is hard to deal with, I went through the same thing, but like you said its a bit of a waiting game for you now. I hope time passes quickly and you have your DD snuggled in there xo

[familymatters]

O cramps don't mean that that is the exact moment you were ovulating. And boy sperm doesn't swim faster than girl sperm. So dismiss those two worries out of your head, and concentrate on the fact that you did the best possible sway you could. Best of luck, hope you have a little girlie in there!

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[Traci25]

Thank you ladies! Il just pray for a healthy stinky bean that ends up a girl! Il just try to relax go for a walk. At least I can eat breakfast tomorrow!! No more diet coke!! Il know in 6 long weeks!

[atomic sagebrush]

It can always be a boy or a girl. No matter what happens, in 10 years you are going to look back and know that it was meant to be.

O Pain do not tell you when you ovulated, you have no idea when you Oed, and DTD on O Day does not = boys anyway.

Good luck and pink dust.

[atomic sagebrush]

O cramps don't mean that that is the exact moment you were ovulating. And boy sperm doesn't swim faster than girl sperm. So dismiss those two worries out of your head, and concentrate on the fact that you did the best possible sway you could. Best of luck, hope you have a little girlie in there!

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:agree: 110% Y sperm DOES NOT swim faster than X sperm. that was Dr. Shettles' BIG mistake!!! http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/7691-trouble-timing.html

[Prettyplease]

Hey Traci, any news??

[atomic sagebrush]

Traci got a boy.