babiixmagic TTC a GIRL Sway Attempt

[babiixmagic]

TTC a Girl Sway Attempt
Gender Result:
Unknown
DW Age:
27
DH Age:
27
Current Children's Gender(s)
One girl, and one boy
Number of Months TTC
2
Did you purchase and follow a GD Personalized Plan?
Yes
DIET
Did you follow a diet plan?
Yes
If yes to diet, which one did you most follow? LE(Low Everything)


Comments regarding DW's diet changes-
Skipped breakfast, for lunch I ate a buffalo chicken sandwich on white bread with a slice of cheese. For dinner I ate a salad. I drank soda and crystal light.
If diet was used, length of time before attempt?
3 months
Did you skip breakfast regularly?
Yes
Did DH change his diet with you?
No
Comments regarding DH's diet-
-
DId you consume alcohol? No


DId you try to limit caffeine?
No, I did not factor that into my sway
Any Diet Details?
-
Any Diet Comments/Additional Info?
-
WEIGHT AND EXERCISE
What did you weigh/BMI do leading up to O?
240
Any Weight/Exercise related additional info/comments?
Lost a really good amount of weight
THINGS in VG and CONCEPTION DATE(CD) INFO
pH Before Starting a Sway Program, if known
-
Any VG potions used? RePhresh
Acijel


CM pH at attempt
5-6
DH pH
-
How many BD attempts did you make for the BFP cycle?
1
BD Dates according to Ovulation 1 Day Before O


Any additional comments?
Had sex about 36 hours before ovulation. I had a positive opk in the morning Saturday, dtd that evening and ovulated around 1am monday morning (ovulation spotting)
THE DEED INFO
DH Info about Swimmers Abstained


BD Position
Missionary
Did you Jump and Dump? Yes


Any relevant attempt details?
-
SUPPLEMENTS USED
DW Supplements folic acid


DH Supplements Licorice Root
Cranberry


Any additional supplement info?
Hubby stopped licorice root one week before attempt
Did you do anything with Ions?
Yes ion bracelet in pink on 24/7, salt rock lamp in bedroom on 24/7, dtd with window open and fans on. Took lavendar oil baths. Painted my nails. I got lucky some sort of geomagnetic storm occured around the time of O.
Moon Phase during conception?
New Moon
Did you use any Old Wives Tales?
Baby girl clothes under bed, wooden spoon under bed, only wore pink the day of attempt, wore make up and sexy clothes.
Things that make me feel great about my sway:
Everything I am feeling so so confident
Things that make me nervous about my sway:
Boy moon was present during O but changed to girl 12 hours after O..so chances are I Ovulated and sperm met egg in a boy moon. Also.. my daughter keeps saying its a boy so that naturally worries me but nothing to do with my sway.
Things worth mentioning:
I added just a small bit of aci gel to our lube, I used rephresh 24 hours before attempt.

[Mamato3?]

Great sway! I hope you give a sister to your DD.

[babiixmagic]

Great sway! I hope you give a sister to your DD.
Thanks!! We did just about everything I think =)

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[maidentomother]

Congrats and good luck! How tall are you and was your weight significantly different when you conceived either of your current children?

[foxymrsg]

Congratulations fab sway

[babiixmagic]

Congrats and good luck! How tall are you and was your weight significantly different when you conceived either of your current children?
I am 5'7"! Same as hubby.
My weight is back to the same weight I was when I concieved my daughter! With her inwas at my lowest adult weight ever and yay im finally back down to that..fpr now lol With my son I was at my heaviest.

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[babiixmagic]

Congratulations fab sway
Thank you so so much!!

Congratulations fab sway


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[ahorn586]

Congratulations!!! FX you get your girl!

[atomic sagebrush]

huge congrats! can't wait for results!

[babiixmagic]

I took one of those lame early gender test off amazon and it came back girl lol!! (I know its just for fun and very inaccurate but still so fun! I loved seeing the pink ♡

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[babiixmagic]

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[atomic sagebrush]

Yep urine tests don't work but hope this one is 100% right. :)

[Throwaway_panther]

Hope you get your next DD! Do you mind sharing the ages of your kids? I always want to know the spacing when people post their sways!

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[babiixmagic]

May 1st my baby girl will be 3. April 21st my son will be 1.

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[babiixmagic]

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My ultrasound from today!!

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[babiixmagic]

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My ultrasound from today!!

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7 weeks abdominal ultrasound =)

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[atomic sagebrush]

Was there an update on this one?? I'm sorry it's just impossible for me to keep everyone straight but I feel like this was updated

[babiixmagic]

So far nub theory says boy. So far its a failed sway. I am heartbroken.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you for updating us. Congrats on a healthy baby though.

[babiixmagic]

I have to admin though Im a bit disapointed you thought this had an update you say you cannot keep up with everyone. I hired you personally to help me, so when you say stuff like that I feel like "personalized sway" means a lot less to you. I feel like just another person to you, when honestly I looked up to you. Its amazing how you personally meant so much to me, I look towards you to help me annd comments like I cant keep up with everyone really makes me question. I appreciate the help you did give and in still happy with the services I recieved but you may just wanna think about the words you choose to the ones who hire you.

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[nuthinbutpink]

Atomic asked you on the 11th if there was an update. You just posted your nub shot AFTER SHE ASKED THIS ON MAY 20 so I am having a hard time why you are upset that she checked in with you at all! Should she not have asked at all??

I'm sorry it is looking like your sway didn't go as we all had hoped for you but atomic has been your advocate and she has worked with you for months. We do have a large number of members but you cannot fault her for checking in with you. She posted before you had your scan. I think being careful with ones words goes both ways here.

Atomic is a phenomenal human being. All of her free time is put into what she does on here. I understand you are hurting and sometimes we lash out when that is the case. I ask that you be mindful of where your anger is directed and we all wish you well.

[XXforhubby]

I can understand feeling gutted when you feel that you've done everything you could but are faced with not getting your GD.

Atomic was just looking to see if you had found out yet. She literally helps thousands of people and people all have similar usernames and may have similar situations making it hard to keep it all straight. Don't take offense if she can't remember you right away, even if you did purchase a plan from her. She did not do anything wrong. Please be careful- somethings cannot be taken back and you don't want to burn any bridges, yk?

Even the most perfect sways that were followed to the letter, fail. Even the people who did nothing at all, end up with the gender they prefer. Unless you go HT and have them select the gender for you, nothing is a guarantee.

I'm sorry it's looking like it may not go your way but it still could. Even if it doesn't, it is not Atomic's or anyone else's fault- it's just the luck of the draw.

I hope it still goes your way. FX and GL to you!



[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]
My Ovulation Chart (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/579920)

[Throwaway_panther]

I can understand feeling gutted when you feel that you've done everything you could but are faced with not getting your GD.

Atomic was just looking to see if you had found out yet. She literally helps thousands of people and people all have similar usernames and may have similar situations making it hard to keep it all straight. Don't take offense if she can't remember you right away, even if you did purchase a plan from her. She did not do anything wrong. Please be careful- somethings cannot be taken back and you don't want to burn any bridges, yk?

Even the most perfect sways that were followed to the letter, fail. Even the people who did nothing at all, end up with the gender they prefer. Unless you go HT and have them select the gender for you, nothing is a guarantee.

I'm sorry it's looking like it may not go your way but it still could. Even if it doesn't, it is not Atomic's or anyone else's fault- it's just the luck of the draw.

I hope it still goes your way. FX and GL to you!



[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]
My Ovulation Chart (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/579920)
I echo this, ESPECIALLY when it's all off of nub theory. It's still not an exact science.

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[babiixmagic]

No I updated her personally in our private forum..

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[babiixmagic]

I paid her $150 and spoke with her for months. I do expect someone I pay to remember me personally =/

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[babiixmagic]

Sorry my phone died. I just felt SO little to her, when she meant so much to me. I paid good money to have her help me. She spoke with me for months in our personal forum. I told her how hurt I was about my fail. I guess I expected her to remember me. I suppose I am just another "username" to her. I looked to her for everything and looked up to her. It has nothing to do with my sway failing or not. I expect some one I pay $150 and talk to almost everyday to remember me. I know theres not THAT many people still swaying and paying her she cant keep up with us all. If thats the case then I would not of hired her. I hired for her personal service. My jaw just dropped when she said that.. like I meant nothing to her. I updated her in our personal forum. She told me she didnt believe in nub theory. So I didnt update my forum yet til I knew for sure.


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[babiixmagic]

And sorry but just apolgizing and saying congrats shows no sympothy either. I expected to have someone to talk to about this if my sway failed..not sure oh sorry.

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[XXforhubby]

I think that you should give her the benefit of the doubt. We all have off days. I'm sure she remembers you and knows who you are but probably didn't realize you had posted here too and wanted to be sure she didn't miss something.

I've paid a lot of money too to keep posting on this site. I believe that both Atomic, NBP, and other moderators do great work here. Let's not jump the gun and make assumptions about others until they have had a chance to speak for themselves, yk? Atomic and NBP shoot it to you straight and will let you know what they think, if you ask. I'm sure Atomic will speak up and let you know what she meant about her post. Until then, let's put the gun down and breathe. It will all be ok and work out.



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[emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]
My Ovulation Chart (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/579920)

[nuthinbutpink]

You are SO out of line.

She only asked on this thread because SHE KNEW YOU WERE A CUSTOMER OF HERS and she could not remember if you posted your result or not and she asked because SHE CARES.

You are reading way more into her question because you are lashing out.

We are not simply hired help. We are human beings. Watch it.

[nuthinbutpink]

Sorry my phone died. I just felt SO little to her, when she meant so much to me. I paid good money to have her help me. She spoke with me for months in our personal forum. I told her how hurt I was about my fail. I guess I expected her to remember me. I suppose I am just another "username" to her. I looked to her for everything and looked up to her. It has nothing to do with my sway failing or not. I expect some one I pay $150 and talk to almost everyday to remember me. I know theres not THAT many people still swaying and paying her she cant keep up with us all. If thats the case then I would not of hired her. I hired for her personal service. My jaw just dropped when she said that.. like I meant nothing to her. I updated her in our personal forum. She told me she didnt believe in nub theory. So I didnt update my forum yet til I knew for sure.


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FOR THE LAST TIME, LOOK AT THE DATE STAMP OF HER POST. SHE ASHED IF YOU KNEW OR NOT BEFORE YOU FOUND OUT GENDER. You did not know on the 11th.

[nuthinbutpink]

No I updated her personally in our private forum..

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Yes, on the 21st of may. I can see it. She asked the question above on the 11th.

[Mamato3?]

This is not fair for atomic. She helps everybody on this forum and answers back to everybody, even if they pay her or not, at the same time she reads hundreds of researches and writes numerous essays so we can have access to importand details that we couldn't otherwise.
I understand you are hurting right now, but you paid her for a personalized program and that's what she delivered to you. I think she asked you here, because she wants these threads to be updated by us, even if the sway fails, which I find is so honest of her.
Keep up the good work for all of us atomic!!!
P.S. I hope you feel better soon and hopefully your sway worked.

[foxymrsg]

Wow! I never normally say my piece online but here I have to, I'm sorry you may be hormonal and disappointed, however that's absolutely no reason to speak out of line.
I would love to see anyone do the amount of work Atomic does free or otherwise and keep up with everyone. Yes 150 isn't a little money but dear god for her wealth of knowledge that is a small sum. And before you ask yes I've paid the same for my personalised plan and would never take offence if she didn't remember me as understand she has a lot of people here, does a lot of research and has a family of her own.
I think you need to take a step back as in no way shape or form do I think Atomic meant anything by asking if this had been updated. It's not just for her benefit if these are updated its for us all to see this info so even a small comment from her bumps it to the top so it can be updated or we can see it to help us for our info.
I'm not sure I'm coming across too well in what I'm trying to say as I'm much better explaining things in person than in writing, but I absolutely think you need to calm down as you're just burning bridges by being rude.

[Erin514]

If you went to a dietician or a psychologist, or any professional, they would charge you $100/per hour minimum and probably not remember anything about you between sessions without referring to their notes. For $150, you got many hours of individual attention to your plan and questions (in your words everyday for months), plus all the free info on these boards, and I don't think Atomic even forgot you. As NBP said, her question was before your private post to her. This site and the ladies running it provide a HUGE service to all of us. You are clearly hurting right now, but I don't think you're being fair.

[babiixmagic]

I told her about my boy results long before she asked.

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[nuthinbutpink]

I can read your private forum. I can see exactly what you told her, when you told her and how she responded. Now you aren't being truthful.

You have no more credibility here and I think it is best that you move on. I hope in time you find happiness and peace. I am sorry your sway did not work out but we are always upfront about that fact that it is swaying and not gender selection.

[Faithinpink]

Oh boy !! Wow alright I just gotta say something bcos this Is really upsetting..
I think you need to take a deep breath and relax stop getting worked up about telling her when or what or whatever .. You are pregnant congratulations all the very best but u getting upset like this isn't going to do you any justice.
Take it easy on atomic , she is a wonderful person who does so so much for this website and helps us all .
She deserves alittle more credit Than that .

[babiixmagic]

Tbh I didnt notice the time stamp =%

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[The Anchor]

Tbh I didnt notice the time stamp =%

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So an apology is in order?

[babiixmagic]

I apologize for not realizing she asked before I knew, however I still feel the same way about her question. I'm just over this honestly. I still feel like she should of remembered me but I get it.. she helps SO many and it would be hard for her to remember. I was just hurt that I felt so small to her, when she meant so much to me. I literally looked up to her as my mentor, and for her to not remember me hurt. I'm sorry if I offended any one.

[nuthinbutpink]

Why in the world do you assume she didn't know who you were?? The only reason she asked is because she knew you were a customer of hers and she just could not remember if you had updated gender. You are brutal. Women should be kind to other women. I hope you raise your daughter with empathy and grace. I think you are done here and you should just move on. I am totally over this.

[atomic sagebrush]

Was there an update on this one?? I'm sorry it's just impossible for me to keep everyone straight but I feel like this was updated

I do answer tons of posts and I can potentially have members called babymagic, babiemagic, pinkbabiimagic, etc. who might have posted ultrasounds I looked at, so I feel this is actually quite unfair. I actually did know who you were but just wanted to really, really make sure I had the right person in the remote possibility I was mixed up. I want everyone to update both successes and opposites, and since I spotted this quickly I did want to post. When I am doing this type of post (as opposed to Custom plans) I do many very fast while I'm caring for my 3 children and I actually think I do an amazing job of keeping everyone straight.

The reason why we HAVE the Custom Forums is because that way I have all the information for each individual under one roof and that way yes I do keep everyone differentiated in my mind because I can go back and read the whole thread and know exactly who I'm talking to. It would take me hours to answer these kind of posts (sway updates) if I looked up every post in every forum that I reply to.

[atomic sagebrush]

Why in the world do you assume she didn't know who you were?? The only reason she asked is because she knew you were a customer of hers and she just could not remember if you had updated gender. You are brutal. Women should be kind to other women. I hope you raise your daughter with empathy and grace. I think you are done here and you should just move on. I am totally over this.

I did know who it was actually but I was just hitting a lot of posts fast and did not want to drop everything to go look it up to be absolutely certain, since I only wanted an update.

Thanks for sticking up for me.

[atomic sagebrush]

In my defense, because I absolutely hate to get embroiled in stuff like this and feel I have done absolutely nothing wrong whatsoever and I understand that you are upset because you got an opposite, the post you made in your Custom Forum with your ultrasound was posted May 16th after I asked you for an update in this thread on May 11. The previous time we talked in your forum was April 13th when you posted a Ramzi and prior to that, March 19th. We were not talking every day leading into me making that post, it had been a good two months with only a couple posts in there. I'm not a superhuman computer program and I do very well IMHO keeping a lot of VERY similar user names straight.

[atomic sagebrush]

No I updated her personally in our private forum..

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You updated me on May 16th after I had posted this on May 11.

[atomic sagebrush]

And sorry but just apolgizing and saying congrats shows no sympothy either. I expected to have someone to talk to about this if my sway failed..not sure oh sorry.

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I congratulate people on their babies regardless of gender. That's how I choose to do it and I reply to everyone in the same manner (and you can look up any of these and see a similar response) because I believe that it is best for everyone that way instead of acting like it's a tragedy, even though I know it can feel that way sometimes. I am always available to talk about gender disappointment via the Custom Forum or the GD forum, but just posting a baby's gender I feel that expressing that I'm sorry a sway didn't work out (because I am) but congratulations on a healthy baby (because so many of us feel like no one ever does that!!) is the best way to do it.

[atomic sagebrush]

FOR THE LAST TIME, LOOK AT THE DATE STAMP OF HER POST. SHE ASHED IF YOU KNEW OR NOT BEFORE YOU FOUND OUT GENDER. You did not know on the 11th.

She posted May 14th telling me she was going in for ultrasound. Previous post had been April 12th and that was a Ramzi so there was no update prior to me posting the request for an update (which by the way, I don't have to do, I do that only to make sure we keep things up to date for the benefit of everyone).

I've done nothing wrong here so everyone please just let this drop. I am really quite horrified that I've now been put into a position of revealing ANYTHING posted in a Custom Forum because to me, those are sacrosanct, in order to defend myself.

I just want everyone to know that what is in the Custom Forums will not be revealed by me ever, this is a weird and extreme situation with charges being levied against me publicly that I now have to defend myself.

[atomic sagebrush]

I apologize for not realizing she asked before I knew, however I still feel the same way about her question. I'm just over this honestly. I still feel like she should of remembered me but I get it.. she helps SO many and it would be hard for her to remember. I was just hurt that I felt so small to her, when she meant so much to me. I literally looked up to her as my mentor, and for her to not remember me hurt. I'm sorry if I offended any one.

Here is the thing though. I DID remember you (and it was your Ramzi posted back in April I was thinking of when I asked for an update) BUT when I go through these types of posts, I do them very, very quickly. Can you imagine the type of effort it would take me to go back and search every user's every thread just to be sure I have their story completely straight?? It would be undoable and unfair of anyone to ask me to go to such lengths.


Please go back and relook at those time stamps in your Custom Forum - March 19, April 12, and then I posted this on May 11. I did that because I do care and want to know the outcomes of people's sways. When a person has posted back in March, once in April - on the 12th of April nearly a month before I posted in here - and I'm still thinking of your Ramzi in the back of my mind a month later and thinking "hm didn't she post?? I better ask" that's not a sign that I don't know what I'm doing and that I"m not paying attention - it actually shows how much I DO know what is going on. My real worry in the original post, when I said I was sorry if I couldn't keep it straight, was not so much that I had the wrong person but more that you had updated somewhere recently and you might be hurt that I didn't know. It would have taken me a fair amount of time to go back and look up all your posts to be sure. It would take me a ridiculous amount of time to do that in every single post I make!!! It's just not possible without a Herculean effort on my part, to track down people's posts in every thread they've made before I prompt a thread that needs to possibly be updated.

[Princess Mom]

Honestly I didn't pay for a personal plan, but atomic was there for me over the past year. Swaying is a 100 percent certain thing. If it was the world would be crazily over populated with a certain sex. I conceived my dd at highest weight I was. I am now pregnant with baby number 4 and praying it's a girl by all I did and learned from this site.

I have boy girl boy and when conceiving my 3rd yes I wanted another girl but didn't really care. Now the want is uncontrollable and might find out the gender next week.

Best of luck to you, but atomic only is here to help

[Georgia_Peach]

Honestly I think you need to chill out! We all understand gender disappoint. We have all (mostly) been there. However I think it's important for you to just take the time you need to privately grieve. Blaming others is not going to fix the fact that this pregnancy isn't your daughter. You will love this baby boy regardless of gender. You will look back at this and question why you took it out on anyone!
Lastly no results are guaranteed ... perhaps look into gender selection. It's like 25k (us) and chances are like 75%. You could be in alot worse situation!

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