Dreamsplanner
March 27th, 2016, 12:03 PM
Hi Atomic,
After a complicated second birth, my mom insists I speak to a doctor and ask to have a womb endoscopy to ensure my womb is in a good state to nurture my future baby I would like to conceive.
Why did I speak to her about it? Never mind I know she only means well
So OK I will speak to a doctor about it. But essentially I feel more and more ready to start my sway, as DH said yes to a third baby which made me have hopes and I did not want to hear anything negative about it or anything to make me worry.
But I had a complicated second birth, DS did not breathe for 14 minutes after birth and had a mild shoulder distortia, but thank God, he is a healthy baby boy without any issues and very cuddly and cheeky!
And I also had retained placenta parts and lost 2L of blood a week after giving birth which meant I needed blood tranfusion and a D&C.
My mom says that is the reason she is suggesting it and the fact that I was wearing corsets for a few months after giving birth to reduce my diastasis rectae at my physio's request. She says that may mean my womb did not receive enough blood to rejuvenate itself properly.
Should I worry? I know of course only a doctor can tell and advise but thought with your experience you may know more on this than me. Wish I never confided to my mom but hey what's done is done
Thank you for any input
After a complicated second birth, my mom insists I speak to a doctor and ask to have a womb endoscopy to ensure my womb is in a good state to nurture my future baby I would like to conceive.
Why did I speak to her about it? Never mind I know she only means well
So OK I will speak to a doctor about it. But essentially I feel more and more ready to start my sway, as DH said yes to a third baby which made me have hopes and I did not want to hear anything negative about it or anything to make me worry.
But I had a complicated second birth, DS did not breathe for 14 minutes after birth and had a mild shoulder distortia, but thank God, he is a healthy baby boy without any issues and very cuddly and cheeky!
And I also had retained placenta parts and lost 2L of blood a week after giving birth which meant I needed blood tranfusion and a D&C.
My mom says that is the reason she is suggesting it and the fact that I was wearing corsets for a few months after giving birth to reduce my diastasis rectae at my physio's request. She says that may mean my womb did not receive enough blood to rejuvenate itself properly.
Should I worry? I know of course only a doctor can tell and advise but thought with your experience you may know more on this than me. Wish I never confided to my mom but hey what's done is done
Thank you for any input