Hello....Newbie to this site...So confused already

[melissalynay]

Hi all,
My name is Melissa and I hail from Louisiana. I have three sweet boys ages 8,4, and 1. After my last boy my husband and I decided no more kids but, guess what we have now changed are minds. My very supportive husband knows my desperation for a girl and wants to help me in anyway( he is even reading on natural gender selections himself). Although he is a country boy at heart and says no to any extreme at home sways such as TBM and spliming, he thinks that is messing to much with Gods work...So anyways I think I have read every topic that atomic has laid out for us. It is some awesome information that I am sure took her a long time to do. I understand that diet is the most important. Everything on here though seems to contradict IG ...Ouch that will be are downfall since we live in the south in country setting food is fatty, greasy, and so good no wonder I have all boys...

I do wonder about the whole abstinence idea and how it really sways girl...I would hate to make my DH do something he would otherwise not if it really does no good. Can anyone help me there? I look forward to getting to know everyone as I try for one final time to get my girl.

I wonder if I really wasn't meant to have a girl why does god put the desire so deep in my heart and not release it.

[nuthinbutpink]

Welcome. We have a great group here and I'm sure they will help you find your way. I'm a big believer in meeting God half way. Sometimes we have to put in some effort instead of just being given a blessing. I hope you find what you're looking for. Good luck!

[dannikins]

welcome, and good luck with your sway!,
i am also hoping for pink i have 4 boys and am seriously outnumbered here.
we never actually 'tried' for any of our boys, just left it to fate, but fate keeps throwing me testicles, so ive decided to give swaying a go...:)

i dont think you have to do abstinence for a girl sway, i was told DH can "release" everyday up untill your trying time, then you DTD for real. by having him ejaculate everyday or even twice a day, it lowers his sperm count, and lower sperm count increases the chance of pink.
i think most of the pink swayers are doing that.
also abstinence should not be done if the DH is over 30 and the other way is more appropriate.
because my hubby is in his 40s she said he should DTD every 2-4 days instead.
sorry i hope i got that right, im new to all of this information, but im sure if its wrong someone on here will correct me.

anyway good luck, pink dust to you!

[TTC5]

Welcome, sending you my copious amounts of pink dust lol

[My Fabulous Children]

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