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baby2016baby
April 16th, 2016, 03:10 AM
OK so we were planning our sway for may, but this morning while helping DH with his 3 day cutoff the condom broke :( I'm on cd 17 and have not had a pos opk yet, Diet has been followed 100% for 3 weeks along with supps. That's all. Is there anything I can do to either stop getting pregnant this months as obviously not prepared properly, or anything I can do at this stage to help a possible boy conception. gutted this has happened. considering morning after but ive used it once and it messed my cycle up big time. Please help. I am distraught..............

Beau82
April 16th, 2016, 09:22 AM
When do you expect to ovulate? I'm swaying girl so I'm not well-versed in boy tactics but I know many times in the fertile window sways boy. So if you're in the fertile window now, then just BD a couple of more times maybe? I know the longer you are on LE diet for girl, the better but HE diet shouldn't be a long-term thing so 3 weeks may be long enough.
Sorry, I don't know if I'm much help!

baby2016baby
April 16th, 2016, 11:48 AM
Thanks for your reply. I normally o on day 15/16 but I think some of the boy supps I've took have messed my cycle. Got a feint line on opk this morning. After driving myself maf for a few hours we both agreed getting the morning after pill was best. So ive been and got it :( I'm gutted as I know it's a huge dose of progesterone which will undo all my hard work upto now and if for any reason it fails it definatly will be a girl :( so annoyed. I was nearly in tears at the pharmacist.

atomic sagebrush
April 18th, 2016, 12:15 PM
Was this thread closed for a reason??? I opened it since people often accidentally close their threads, but let me know if you wanted it closed again and I'll close it.

I would never have recommended the morning after pill but I do want to reassure you there is no convincing evidence that progesterone sways pink anyway so please don't worrya bout that.

A faint line on OPK is NEGATIVE.

baby2016baby
April 18th, 2016, 12:55 PM
Thanks atomic. I closed it as I was having a complete meltdown but it could help someone else who is as unfortunate as me. To make it worse I've took an opk today (2 days after map) and it's a definate posative. I've frantically been googling but nobody else has reported this. Surely if it delays o it should be negative :s I've just got this really bad feeling.....

atomic sagebrush
April 18th, 2016, 03:47 PM
It's fine to leave it closed, no worries at all I'll reclose it, just wanted to give my reply.

you will not O for a day or even longer after that positive OPK, I think the odds of conception are slim. Try not to worry!!