Please help I've been told girl than boy so confused 😓

[Pinklady35]

After two boys really wanted my pink dream to come true then have been told girl then boy.. Anyone give me any idea? 13 weeks approx on this scan going out of my mind x3185131851

[Beautifulrainbow]

That nub I'd guess girl! Good luck

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[atomic sagebrush]

When were you told girl??

The problem is that before the 13th week, the nub shots are not totally reliable and the earlier on you are, the less reliable. so if someone told you girl at let's say 11 weeks, that was meaningless because both boys and girls look like girls at that gestation.

I could honestly go either way on that scan. It's forked, but not as long as I would like to see for me to say for sure girl. So I am 50-50 still.

Sending you all my pink dust!!

[Pinklady35]

When were you told girl??

The problem is that before the 13th week, the nub shots are not totally reliable and the earlier on you are, the less reliable. so if someone told you girl at let's say 11 weeks, that was meaningless because both boys and girls look like girls at that gestation.

I could honestly go either way on that scan. It's forked, but not as long as I would like to see for me to say for sure girl. So I am 50-50 still.

Sending you all my pink dust!!

It's wasn't an ultrasound they were blood tests :/ would it help if I zoomed in at the bottom and tried a screen shot so u could see better or do u think it's not developed enough?

[Pinklady35]

That nub I'd guess girl! Good luck

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Hope so lol x

[atomic sagebrush]

What kind of blood test??? IF it is one of the Nipty/Nifty tests like Harmony or Panorama where you actually got your blood taken in a lab those are extremely accurate, far, far more than ultrasounds. If it is one of those do it yourself blood tests then those are not as reliable.

[Pinklady35]

One was home test other was harmony I know they're pretty accurate but could be wrong I know I'm wishful thinking

[familymatters]

If the Harmony test told you boy then it's a boy hun, sorry you didn't hear pink.

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[Claire33]

Harmony is the most likely to be correct, 99%, sorry.

[Pinklady35]

I've read differing opinions I know it's most likely to be correct but still there's a small chance it could be wrong... Suppose time will tell. Be nice if it was but will get over it if it's another boy

[atomic sagebrush]

One was home test other was harmony I know they're pretty accurate but could be wrong I know I'm wishful thinking

Oh so the blood test said boy and then the ultrasound looked girl???

Blood tests are what to go off of. I'm sorry it didn't go our way.

[Pinklady35]

Oh so the blood test said boy and then the ultrasound looked girl???

Blood tests are what to go off of. I'm sorry it didn't go our way.

No they were both blood tests I haven't had the ultrasound yet, not the gender one anyway I'm hoping that will end my uncertainty once and for all. Just thought maybe my13 week scan pic may hold some clues. Lots of people have said girl but I not getting my hopes up as I know blood tests are more accurate. Interestingly when I contacted nimble about why their result was different to harmony they said it shouldn't be but if it did prove to be incorrect I could only get a refund from birth certificate or ultrasound scan as harmony test wasn't 98% accurate. Wishful thinking may be

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm sorry I feel like I'm interrogating you here I'm just trying to understand what is happening.

You did two blood tests, one was at home and one was a lab? The lab one is much more likely correct.

The ultrasound is not clear if it's a boy or a girl to me.

[Pinklady35]

Yep girl with nimble boy with harmony, know that harmony is more likely to be correct but I have read on occasion the results are wrong. Again probably wishful thinking on my part but I'm just wanted it to be a girl . Feel like all my dreams came true just to have it all taken away. I'm trying to convince myself it's a boy as I know it's likely but I think I'm still holding onto hope because of the first result. Don't think I will be able to let go until I get the ultrasound

[sharon]

whens the ultrasound ? sorry its looking to be a boy hun

[Pinklady35]

whens the ultrasound ? sorry its looking to be a boy hun

Probably next week. Will be 16 weeks then. Just going off the scan pic and no other info to sway their decision a lot of people have said girl looking at the scan. However I know with the blood tests with them having different results the harmony is more reliable. However I have heard of them being wrong before and it's not a gender test its for issues with the baby. Something about if u have had boys before or a prior boy pregnancy those cells can still be picked up. I miscarried anboy 12 months ago. Of course that could all be rubbish and he could be a boy and it's right. I guess I can't let go that it could be a girl until I get a scan and the sonographer goes yep there's the bits it's a boy x

[atomic sagebrush]

i know it's hard to accept but the harmony is virtually always more reliable than ultrasound or at home blood tests.

[Pinklady35]

i know it's hard to accept but the harmony is virtually always more reliable than ultrasound or at home blood tests.

I know I'm fooling myself the logical part of my brain is telling me that don't know why I'm fooling myself

[atomic sagebrush]

Please keep us posted pinklady, and we are here if you need a friendly ear. :heart:

[Mrsbaz007]

Did you ever find out pink lady ? We found out we were pregnant and the same time but I miscarried . Hope your ok either way xx


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[Funkyfry]

Hope all is ok pinklady