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Princess Mom
July 2nd, 2016, 12:16 PM
So my husband wants to find out already, instead of waiting for the 20th. I honestly don't want to give 60 bucks to hear boy lol.

Family and friends think I am crazy few understand the want of another girl. I just can't stand the fact that if it isn't a girl, I won't be able to get over it. Before I got pregnant I was so positive on it will be a girl. But people have guessed 50 50 on my scans, where there isn't even a nub present. I'm just depressed and haven't enjoyed this pregnancy at all. If I could afford another I would try again but I can't even afford this one but we will do our best. I just have no one to express my feelings to.
I also feel like I'm shutting out my 2 year old ds he is my world and so attached to me.

BrightSky
July 2nd, 2016, 05:50 PM
I'm sorry u are feeling this way PrincessMom. I felt the same before I got pregnant, that it would be a girl, and now that I am I'm sure it's a boy! 50-50 guesses on your nub is still really good, sounds like it could go either way! Esp if there was no nub, it really means u have just as much chance for a girl still!
You sound like a wonderful mother and don't forget you have all these pregnancy hormones intensifying all these feelings.

Princess Mom
July 2nd, 2016, 07:49 PM
Thank you for your kind words bright sky, I wish you the best

atomic sagebrush
July 8th, 2016, 10:44 AM
Thinking of you PM!!!

Princess Mom
July 8th, 2016, 08:26 PM
Thinking of you PM!!!


Thank u atomic for everything! I'm deff having my youngest sister come to this site when she ready for her baby number 3 she has two girls already and wants a boy!