View Full Version : Accidentally dtd the day before o am I doomed?
ilovebagels
July 11th, 2016, 12:16 AM
Hi! Guess I'm just looking for some hope. I wasn't getting a positive opk so I thought maybe I was oing later than usual and kept dtd but I guess I was wrong because fertility friend had me o the day after my last bd (same day as positive opk). All that said is there any hope? Has anyone conceived a girl the day before o? I dtd every other day, so o-1, o-3, o-5, o-7.
I wasn't really dieting but stayed away from potatoes, tomatoes, and avocados, and never eat a lot of salt and always drink a lot of diet soda. Also took magnesium and calcium and it was a new moon (thank goodness).
I have two kids and really want to give them a little sis! Thanks for reading :)
BunnyGirl19
July 11th, 2016, 12:20 AM
I have. I don't seem to conceive unless I BD the day before O.
Girlieplease
July 11th, 2016, 04:16 AM
Me, I conceived my dd with an attempt day before ovulation and also conceived ds2 with an attempt a few days before ovulation. I think timing has largely been debunked. Good luck and fingers crossed for you, am also swaying pink!
ksmom
July 11th, 2016, 09:39 AM
Timing doesn't sway. It's an old school sway tactic. You always have a chance at a girl, swaying or not!
ilovebagels
July 11th, 2016, 11:49 AM
Thank you!! It helps me obsess less and luckily / hopefully I think I'll be thrilled with either. Congrats on your sticky bean!!
atomic sagebrush
July 11th, 2016, 12:00 PM
I got my DD the day before O. BD on the day of positive OPK is a strategy we use quite a bit for TTC a girl.
I do see some things I'd tweak about your BD pattern in future months so if it's BFN check in with me again and I'd have you maybe change that up a little bit. :)
Good luck and pink dust!
ilovebagels
July 11th, 2016, 01:06 PM
Thank you so much for commenting! I'm usually pregnant just from looking at my husband but I'm also a lot older now so we'll see! Are you thinking it was too many attempts?
Throwaway_panther
July 12th, 2016, 03:37 AM
Thank you so much for commenting! I'm usually pregnant just from looking at my husband but I'm also a lot older now so we'll see! Are you thinking it was too many attempts?
You did seem to follow a boy DTD pattern, however I thought I'd chime in that I conceived my DD in a similar fashion, I just also was following an LE lifestyle.
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ilovebagels
July 12th, 2016, 12:08 PM
I guess I got it backwards! Ugh. Well I don't know if this matters anymore but FF just changed my O date to two days later thanks to some random ewcm I think so it looks like I had a 3 day cut off.
atomic sagebrush
July 13th, 2016, 03:12 PM
Thank you so much for commenting! I'm usually pregnant just from looking at my husband but I'm also a lot older now so we'll see! Are you thinking it was too many attempts?
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