SweetLily
August 3rd, 2016, 12:45 AM
I have my dh on OLE (is there a rule how long he can take this? It's been over 3 months now).
My nature path has had me on all kinds of BOY FRIENDLY things to get my health back after my amniotic infection disaster. I can't get pregnant with a girl if I'm too sick to get pregnant at all so I've had to give in on this one.
I will be taking Femara *but seriously, dies this ACTUALLY increase rusk of birth defects?* and I am almost entirely vegan to my utter dismay so that will help sway girl.
Dh is on overdrive and wants to Dtd daily. I know with my first daughter we Did that (a different man) and got a girl. I think there was a 3 day cut off, or at least 2.
We only Dtd 1 with Lily and while I wasn't paying any attention I think it was a 2 day cut off.
If dh and I Dtd every day will that be enough to be in girl zone or is that serious boy territory? Would we need to do it twice a day to be considered FR? Would that put us in girl zone?
I'm scared to do only 1 attempt each month. I'm turning 40 next month and don't have time to waste! I also.get 4 day migraines from the femera abd want to make each cycle REALLY count! Don't want to take it more than I have to.
So, suggestions please?
I know E4D is what is preferred here but is there another equally good option (or nearly as good, like dtd 2x a day?
My nature path has had me on all kinds of BOY FRIENDLY things to get my health back after my amniotic infection disaster. I can't get pregnant with a girl if I'm too sick to get pregnant at all so I've had to give in on this one.
I will be taking Femara *but seriously, dies this ACTUALLY increase rusk of birth defects?* and I am almost entirely vegan to my utter dismay so that will help sway girl.
Dh is on overdrive and wants to Dtd daily. I know with my first daughter we Did that (a different man) and got a girl. I think there was a 3 day cut off, or at least 2.
We only Dtd 1 with Lily and while I wasn't paying any attention I think it was a 2 day cut off.
If dh and I Dtd every day will that be enough to be in girl zone or is that serious boy territory? Would we need to do it twice a day to be considered FR? Would that put us in girl zone?
I'm scared to do only 1 attempt each month. I'm turning 40 next month and don't have time to waste! I also.get 4 day migraines from the femera abd want to make each cycle REALLY count! Don't want to take it more than I have to.
So, suggestions please?
I know E4D is what is preferred here but is there another equally good option (or nearly as good, like dtd 2x a day?