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Skimsey
September 20th, 2016, 11:17 AM
Hi everyone! I figured I would turn to you guys for some guidance and support. As my sway attempt approaches, I am getting more and more anxious. I am having the hardest time deciding on what month to start my sway because then I analyze the birthday and try and find out if I know more girls or boys born with similar birthdays. If I want a 4th of july baby, I sway next month. If I want a labor day bday, I start sway in December. I will be short a few weeks on my diet if I do it next month so that has me nervous but almost all end of June/beg July birthdays I know are girls (including every girl in my family). The full 12+ weeks with added few weeks for extra will be dec sway (beg September baby). To give you an idea, I have other positive sway factors going including a prescription of clomid, actively losing weight, fiber, etc. HELP!! what would you all do?

Throwaway_panther
September 20th, 2016, 01:04 PM
The anecdotal stuff will always go both ways. I knew two guys growing up with the exact same birthdate as me, and I'm obviously a girl. I conceived my daughter in a "boy" month, etc. Hell, late June/early July is Cancer territory, and my mom AND every ex-bf I ever had was that time ;P

Go forth with your sway regardless. Lifestyle/diet make a much bigger difference.

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atomic sagebrush
September 20th, 2016, 01:53 PM
Analyzing people's birthdays really doesn't tell you anything. Even in the studies that showed months may sway, it was just a miniscule percent. Overall, still very close to 50-50. So please don't stress about how many people have a birthday that month, it's just a coinkydink. :)

I think it is best to do what works best for you and your family and be prepared as life tends to throw you a curve ball and you never end up getting pregnant in the "magic" month you wanted to anyway. :)

atomic sagebrush
September 20th, 2016, 01:54 PM
The anecdotal stuff will always go both ways. I knew two guys growing up with the exact same birthdate as me, and I'm obviously a girl. I conceived my daughter in a "boy" month, etc. Hell, late June/early July is Cancer territory, and my mom AND every ex-bf I ever had was that time ;P

Go forth with your sway regardless. Lifestyle/diet make a much bigger difference.

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Kanye West and Frank Lloyd Wright have the same b-day as me LOL! Totally agree. Just Google celebs with that b-day and there will be sure to be lots of boys and girls.

Skimsey
September 21st, 2016, 08:40 AM
Thank you for the replies!! I truly feel better!!!