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Anette
December 5th, 2016, 12:42 PM
Hi Girls,
we had our first TTC attempt this month and I got a BFN, I feel so sad I just wanted to share it with someone. My cycle is very-very irregular, between 40-60 days (yes, PCO here) so it is hard to calculate OV days. But we BD'ed every 4 days and I was SURE I could feel when I was ovulating. Plus I got lots and lots of EWCM 16 days ago and I was so sure that this was going to be it. I know its silly, this is only the first month we are TTC and still I feel so disapointed. I try to think that this will give me more time with the LE diet, I've only been on it for a few weeks and I know it usually takes time to conceive, especially at our age (me 38, DH 51), and still it was crashing to see only one line on the test stripe.
Anyways, thanks for taking time to read my rambling and good luck to everyone with their sways :)

atomic sagebrush
December 5th, 2016, 02:30 PM
Anette are you on the PCOS version of diet?? It is very important with PCO that you not load up on the empty carbs and instead follow one of the variations in this thread. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/9052-swaying-under-special-circumstances-part-3-pcos.html

Please try to keep in mind that it takes fully fertile couples doing everything to get pregnant, an average of 3-6 months to fall pregnant. Getting pregnant the first month trying is actually very good luck and not at all the norm or what people should expect.

Anette
December 5th, 2016, 04:00 PM
Thanks Atomic, I am on the PCOS version :)

atomic sagebrush
December 7th, 2016, 01:37 PM
Excellent!