Really confused on BD sways...

[maximbella]

Hi ladies! I think I'm confusing myself with all this BD timing/swaying. We are trying for a girl and were lucky enough to conceive DD1&2 with no help, just luck (both were 0-2 timing). This time around, we are really hoping for another girl and I'm confusing myself on timing. Should we or should we NOT BD every day/every other day up to O-2? I thought that this lowered sperm count and therefore swayed pink? :worry:

[cosmosis]

Hi there :)

Have a look at the index, under "Timing" in bold, you'll get loads of info. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/3305-complete-index.html

[atomic sagebrush]

At the end of the day, people want to do what worked for them before, who am I to argue against that? :)

Personally, I think best results are with just one attempt so I'd have you have one attempt on O-2 but that is completely at your own personal discretion. The important thing is not timing, but having that one attempt. One attempt has been gold for us.

If you were DTD every other day, that would mean you BD on O-4 (which is really low odds of conception) and then again on O-2. This probably was effectively one attempt. Even if you BD on O-3 and O-2, O-3 sperm would probably have mostly died off leaving pretty much one attempt. So I would keep that in mind when deciding what to do.