Early ovulation please HELP!!!

[Kyslate85]

I am pretty sure that I am going to be ovulating early due to ewcm and cramping (which I normally get right before ovulation). DH has been abstaining on day 4 right now which I'm pretty sure I've read sways boy. Would it be ok to have him released and dump, then DTD? Or should we just wait for next month? I'm sure I know the answer to this but I am just a little bummed right now...

I wasn't checking OPKs because I usually don't ovulate until CD14/15. I am CD8 right now. Any advice is appreciated!

[atomic sagebrush]

Abstain has not proven to be a very effective sway tactic and we are actually having good resutls for pink even with hubbies releasing every 4 days (provided that you only have one attempt, that is.)

That having been said I seriously, seriously doubt you are Oing this early. Swaying changes your normal patterns and it is totally poss to have O pain and EWCM even a week before O (this happens to me regularly). I would probably hold off for now since you want to do abstain, and start your OPK and they will most likely be totally negative, and then you can keep checking and will probably O right at your normal time. :)

If you DO really think you're ovulating, just have an attempt, ONE, provided you feel good about your sway in other ways.

[Kyslate85]

Thank you so much for your quick reply, it's getting late here! I know I read previously that you recommended abstain if younger than 35, but that could have been an old thread. Should DH start FR now and would it still sway if I am not O and do on CD14?

[Kyslate85]

I have just talked with DH and we have agreed to upgrade. Since we are already Dream Members, which one should we chose? We would love the coaching and sway plan.

[atomic sagebrush]

No, neither abstain nor FR are working. The important thing is the one attempt. I use abstain for those under 35 and FR for over 35, but it is because most people want to at least try it for a month or two, not because I am really sold it works. I would keep going with the abstain and then have your one attempt when it is time to.

[atomic sagebrush]

I have just talked with DH and we have agreed to upgrade. Since we are already Dream Members, which one should we chose? We would love the coaching and sway plan.

You would want the personalized (custom) plan and that comes with the coaching. :)

[Kyslate85]

Done! Can't wait ��

[Kyslate85]

Is there a link for the questionare? I'm not usually this internet challenged but I can't seem to find it...

[Kyslate85]

Im so sorry. I'm pretty sure I figured it out and got it all submitted. Thanks again and I can't wait to hear from you!

[Kyslate85]

Hi Atomic :) I know your super busy and it's only been 7 days. I just wanted to make sure you received my questionares. &' getting excited as it's getting close!

[atomic sagebrush]

We've sorted this via pm