12+6 please guess!! Update!

[Kate7]

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[Kate7]

I have two of the same gender already don't want to give away what they are yet as sometimes I feel that changes what people may guess. I'm soooo desperate for the opposite and driving myself crazy. The last imagine was at 7 weeks. The first 3 12+6 thank you

[Claire33]

I think the third pic show a boy nub :)

[XXforhubby]

Boy lean



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[Kate7]

Thank you are there any experts on this site?! I can't wait to find out it's driving me crazy.

[nicoler]

Leaning boy

[Kate7]

Anymore?!

[Kate7]

Does anyone think this could be a girl

[Claire33]

Are you hoping for a girl? All three of the guessers here are pretty seasoned guessers. Looks like stacking to me on the third pic. :bighug:

[Magical22]

Boy


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[Kate7]

Yes I am I've got two boys already. I really have felt this was my girl but as soon as I seen these scan pics I have doubted it. I have heard girls can appear stacked too?! This wasn't a planned pregnancy and been so different from my first two. are there any particular members that are experts?! I guess I should just prepare myself for a boy

[Kate7]

Are you hoping for a girl? All three of the guessers here are pretty seasoned guessers. Looks like stacking to me on the third pic. :bighug:
Not sure what you mean by seasoned guessers?! ������

[Claire33]

I mean we're pretty experienced guessers. But nothing is set in stone, just prepare to hear boy just in case.

[XXforhubby]

Hang in there, sweetie. I would do as Claire suggested and prepare to hear boy. My third pregnancy was very different from my other two as well. I haven't seen a girl nub appear to be stacked. Girl nubs are usually long and forked but they are flat.

(((Huge Hugs)))



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[nicoler]

I'm not sure if by "expert" you mean an ultrasound tech, but Claire and myself and several others on here have been guessing for 5+ years on this site and myself (and likely others) were on another site for a couple years before this one was around. I don't usually throw out a guess unless the scan pics make me lean one way or another. I truly hope we are proven wrong and that this is your girl. :HH:

Will you find out the gender before birth?

[Kate7]

Im really not sure. I feel I need to be prepared. Ok thanks so much for taking your time to get back to me. I guess atleast now I won't go into my 20 week scan thinking it's a girl and being totally shocked. How sure are you ladies this is a boy?! I don't really get the whole stacked thing. literelly every gender prediction test says girl and my mum is so sure it's a girl and never gets it wrong. But I guess this time she has.x

[3'sacharm]

I afraid I'd also guess boy from the 3rd image.

It's not over until you've had proper gender confirmation though (it is after all a theory) but as the others have said, I'd prepare yourself for hearing boy. My second pregnancy was very different from my first and 3rd but it was a boy nonetheless, although this one has been very different again and confirmed girl. I hope you get your girl x

[Kate7]

Ok thank you. Congrats on your girl. I don't think we're be having more as this one was very much not planned. I know it's only a theory but how often do you lot all guess one gender and it's wrong?!?! X

[Bigpinkwish]

Hi, I also guess that's a boy nub. I should prepare for a little boy, but sometimes it does turn the other way around...

[Magical22]

Ok thank you. Congrats on your girl. I don't think we're be having more as this one was very much not planned. I know it's only a theory but how often do you lot all guess one gender and it's wrong?!?! X

On this site it's pretty rare but can happen, depends how good the scan photo is and position of Bub. I hope it's your little girl, keep us updated, but I would prepare to hear boy. Are you having any more scans before the 20 week scan?


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[Kate7]

The baby was being very naughty and kept laying so it was facing towards me. Would love to see your scan that turned out a girl bigpinkwish. I don't know I'd like a early gender scan but at the same time I don't think I want to hear.

[Magical22]

The baby was being very naughty and kept laying so it was facing towards me. Would love to see your scan that turned out a girl bigpinkwish. I don't know I'd like a early gender scan but at the same time I don't think I want to hear.

I totally understand these feelings, I've been where you are.


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[Claire33]

When I was pregnant with my 3rd, "everyone" was sure it was a girl and so surprised when it turned out to be a boy. I was really sick with that pregnancy, so I was hoping it might be a girl. I was devastated to hear it was a boy. It took me a long time to climb out of my black pit of despair during that pregnancy. He is now 3 years old and he is such a wonderful child, so I can't imagine ever feeling that way about him. Other people's expectations are not helpful when it comes to gender. Try to let people know that people are guessing boy on your scan, so that they shut up about the girl thing. No point in disappointing absolutely everyone else when you yourself also are disappointed. I pretended that I only wanted boys, so that people didn't know how devastated I was. I didn't want any pity, and no negative comments from people. So if you seem happy, they will hopefully shut up with their comments and expectations.

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[Kate7]

Yes I have been trying to do this. Mum isn't helping as she keeps saying it's defo a girl. I agree other people make it worse. Such a horrible feeling. I feel like this is the only last chance of imaging I'm having a girl so can't help keep thinking all these guesses are going to be wrong. But I know deep down your all right x

[Bigpinkwish]

The baby was being very naughty and kept laying so it was facing towards me. Would love to see your scan that turned out a girl bigpinkwish. I don't know I'd like a early gender scan but at the same time I don't think I want to hear.



This was the ultrasound at 12.5 weeks. I had 8 or 9 boy-guesses...

I hope you get your little girl!

[Kate7]

I would of guesses boy on your nub pic lol. Xx

[sharon]

Id say boy but there isnt a proper clear nub shot x

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[XXforhubby]

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This was the ultrasound at 12.5 weeks. I had 8 or 9 boy-guesses...

I hope you get your little girl!

I would've guessed girl in your pic Bigpinkwish, simply for the lack of seeing defined stacking. Girl parts can often be swollen around this gestation giving a bulbous appearance like a smooshed hamburger.

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[Kate7]

Anymore guesses xx

[Magical22]

Yes I have been trying to do this. Mum isn't helping as she keeps saying it's defo a girl. I agree other people make it worse. Such a horrible feeling. I feel like this is the only last chance of imaging I'm having a girl so can't help keep thinking all these guesses are going to be wrong. But I know deep down your all right x

Join a due in group on this forum, they will get you through this pregnancy if you need help. People on hear obviously understand gender depression. [emoji846]


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[Babygirlquest]

I'd give a boy guess too, but the nub isn't particularly clear so there is definitely room for error. I hope it turns out to be a girl. I know how hard it is when everyone puts extra pressure on you too.

[Kate7]

I'm holding out hope. Thank you

[ELP]

I'm not seeing a complete nub or clear picture in any of your pics, but again of the little that is showing I would lean boy, but I would give my odds of certainty on that at about 51/49% so a random guess really:) When was the pic taken, how far are you now??

[Kate7]

How correct is ramzi theory?!?! I've googled about it and mine looks girl from that?! Or isn't it very reliable x

[Kate7]

Coming up to 15 weeks now. It was taken day before 13 weeks.

[Kate7]

I'm not seeing a complete nub or clear picture in any of your pics, but again of the little that is showing I would lean boy, but I would give my odds of certainty on that at about 51/49% so a random guess really:) When was the pic taken, how far are you now??
That's made me hopeful xx

[Kate7]

If i was to say one of my sons looked similar would that change how you feel. His was tricky too ����

[XXforhubby]

I'm really hoping it is your girl. I would expect to hear boy but know there could be a chance this is a girl. I would hate to see you get your hopes up. When is your anatomy scan?



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[Kate7]

I know it only take one person to say there not that sure it's a boy and possibly a girl then I'm literally thinking yey it's a girl again ���� what id really like which I know can't happen until a scan is for someone to just tell me 99.5% what it is. Until then I can't let go of it being a girl and I wish I could coz I don't want to get my hopes up. Would be easier if everyone just said that's defo a boy. Well my hubby doesn't want a early scan but I'm trying to convince him. X

[Kate7]

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[Kate7]

Does this pic show nub didn't post before as wasn't sure?!?!

[Girlieplease]

I agree with the others that said boy nub. But nubs can be wrong so thee is always hope, but this from the lady that held out hope that the harmony test was wrong when it said boy and was further disappointed at 20 weeks scan when it was very obviously boy, now that was clutching at straws! Good luck and I hope you hear girl x

[Kate7]

Yes I guess so just always feels this is my last chance to daydream of having a girl. My head is all over the place

[Magical22]

Yes I guess so just always feels this is my last chance to daydream of having a girl. My head is all over the place

Can you book in for an early gender scan, in Australia we can get them from 16 weeks, not sure where you are but your going to go crazy waiting another month. Might be good peace of mind to just know.


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[Kate7]

Yes we can here too apart of me doesn't want to know I guess. Think DH doesn't really want to know atall he thinks I would be better waiting till birth that way I won't be as upset. There's no way I can wait that long

[Burakoam]

Okay so.. I'm gonna give my opinion with the promise from you that if I'm wrong my comment won't be what makes you feel even worse if you hear the opposite.. you really need to prepare to hear boy just that in case BUT I am not sold on the boy nub. I see where others maybe see stacking and I do think these guessers are right most of the time.. but in other pictures your baby's nub is so FLAT in comparison to spine which is meant to be girl...I think because your baby is wiggly and turning all sorts of ways it makes it hard to tell what's stacking what's leg and what's shadow. Hell in one picture I think the stacking is chord between babies leg giving the illusion of stacking and it's really tricky so I can't full on lean one way or another but I do think you have a good shot at being surprised and hearing girl because of all of these reasons. 3 of my 4 daughters had boy nubs at 11.5 weeks- 12 weeks. The were short and appeared to stack in some shots.. I am fairly certain every single person guessed boy on DD3 and DD2.

If you can't wait and you need more time to bond with a third son then you should get an early elective scan at 16 weeks even if your husband doesn't want to know or go. Do it for you. Do your best to prepare to hear boy just in case.

Good luck and please update us when you know.. my fingers are crossed for you :)

[Kate7]

Thank you does anyone else agree???!!! This scan was only a day short of 13 weeks though which makes me feel abit more nervous I think if it was earlier maybe there would be more room for error. Thanks for giving me a little hope though x

[Kate7]

Does anyone else think this may be a girl??

[Kate7]

Few more days till I know anymore guesses ?! Literally can't stop thinking about it

[Magical22]

Few more days till I know anymore guesses ?! Literally can't stop thinking about it

When is your scan?


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[Claire33]

Good luck Kate!

[Rainbow16]

I'm going against the grain here and saying girl.

[2pinkbluenext]

Think girl

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[Kate7]

Saturday wow really!! Had so many boy guesses what make you both say girl xx

[jude2013]

I actually think girl too x

[Kate7]

Really I was really starting to think boy now I'm not sure. What makes u lady's think girl

[Mrs.tinkerbell]

I would guess boy. I thought stacking meant boy?!?! I'm no expert though

[Kate7]

Yes I think deep down I know it's a boy as lovely as the girl guesses are the people that said boy are more experienced. I'm preparing to hear boy. Hope to update u all soon. Thanks for all taking the time to have a look and guess. After seeing about all this swaying maybe I will have to convince husband for another

[Magical22]

Any update??


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[Kate7]

No afraid not. I told my husband I'd booked this scan and it caused a big argument. He doesn't really want to find out as he thinks I will end up being miserable the rest of pregnancy if it's another boy like everyone has guessed. He always said he doesn't want to know as he too doesn't want to feel disappointed. Wish I hadn't even said now and just gone alone. He doesn't even want to find out at the 20 wks scan. But there is no way I can wait much longer it's driving me mad. I wish I just knew and even though I think your all right until it's set in stone I feel my head is spinning in circles.

[Kate7]

I've rebooked the scan going on my own and not going to tell anyone! Is this a silly idea? I just feel I have to know

[3'sacharm]

I did the same with my last pregnancy, just went with my mum and hubby still doesn't know to this day! I felt I needed to know so I could get my head around it x

[Magical22]

I've rebooked the scan going on my own and not going to tell anyone! Is this a silly idea? I just feel I have to know

I think that's a great idea no outside pressure and time to yourself to process whatever the outcome is. Good luck


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[Kate7]

I've got scan in 1 hour soooo nervous

[Magical22]

I've got scan in 1 hour soooo nervous

Enjoy seeing Bub, either way you have one cute bubba on board who is going to own your heart!


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[Kate7]

So it's a boy you all guessed right. I'm gutted. I was scanned the lady said I haven't seen anything that's pointing towards boy then managed to get a potty shot which at first looked like 3 lines for about 3 seconds I felt amazing then she said oh look it's a boy. I feel numb

[Claire33]

I'm so sorry sweetheart :bighug:

Congrats with baby though. Sorry you had 3 seconds of hope.

[XXforhubby]

(((Huge Hugs))) I'm so sorry [emoji20]. In time you will come around. Hang in there sweetie. Once you meet him, it will get easier.



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[Girlieplease]

So sorry kate, but congratulations on your baby boy, am pregnant with my third boy, I had lots of early scans and saw nothing between the legs, gave me hope, even when I got the harmony result I still held out hope at my 20 week scan that it was a mistake, it was not. Take your time, lots of ladies on her going through similar if you need support x

[Magical22]

Congrats on your baby boy! I'm also pregnant with DS3 and it does get easier.


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[babypinkno3]

Similar experience happened with my DS3. I left the scan thinking it was a girl because I saw a fork, even though no one ever said it was a girl. But as soon as I walked outside with my pics I clearly saw the arrow shape pointing up. It felt amazing for those first couple of minutes. I took several weeks to sink in. I'm holding DS3 right now and all I can say is I'm so in love!!! I love having 3 boys. I sometimes even wish for a fourth boy, or consider keeping my 3 boys and have no more in order to not change the all-boy dynamic in our home. It's truly special. I'm still undecided yet and I never thought I'd feel this way, but I adore my three boys. You'll get there too! Just hang in there. You're not alone!


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[Shannshaff]

HUGS!!! Hang in there! Boys are so amazing. I felt gutted that my last was a boy, but he is truly such an amazing soul! He was meant to be. Talk it out with others here. We all understand.

[Burakoam]

I am sorry Kate. It really was a tough nub to call at first... I hope you find some healing soon.