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Kate7
January 23rd, 2017, 01:57 AM
So I've had all boy guesses on my scan pics. Not only am I gutted my husband is and now my mum is. Thought I would tell her last night as she won't stop telling me it's defo our little girl this time and how happy she is. So I told her about this site and everyone has guessed boy, she said well I'm sure it's just a load of rubbish and it can't really be another boy what's the chances. She then said I do hope I get a granddaughter. I then got upset which she felt bad about, but she still then said she hopes for me Ibhave a daughter as it's so special. Brilliant just when I couldn't feel any worse on my way home my neighbour said oh congrats by then way I pray u get a pink one or u really will be the odd one out hahahaha. What's wrong with people 😢😢

trifecta
January 23rd, 2017, 12:17 PM
What's wrong with people ����
I'm so sorry you're feeling bad about signs pointing to another boy. I just wanted to let you know that there's nothing wrong with you or with having all boys, but there really is something wrong with the gross insensitivity some people show. It's their defect, not a defect of your family. Congratulations on your adorable new little one. I hope you are feeling better soon.

atomic sagebrush
January 23rd, 2017, 12:50 PM
Ugh!! I'm so sorry!!

Kate7
January 24th, 2017, 01:07 AM
Thank you. I'm just praying maybe everyone that's guesses boy on here is wrong and this will be my little girl. It doesn't help that I've had miscarriages in the past and when that happened I had people say oooh wonder if u can't carry girls! Is this true?!?! I know if it's another boy people are going to think and say that again too. X

Throwaway_panther
January 24th, 2017, 08:26 PM
It's not true you can't carry girls. Even the super rare "can't carry a certain sex" type conditions are for boys, not girls. I'm really sorry about your mom's comments -- you'd think her talking up the mother/daughter bond would make her more sensitive to her OWN daughter.

It's so hard to hear our GD echoed back to us. I'm so sorry you feel so bummed right now :(

Kate7
January 25th, 2017, 01:03 AM
Thank you. I always thought your more likely to miscarry boys than girls. It's so nice to have somewhere like this where people are in the same situation.