Trying for a girl

[lozandkeith]

Hi I have 2 boys I suffered with severe hyperemsis with both pregnancies I didn't know about being able to sway for a particular sex till recently
Took me a while to work myself up to havin another baby as I'm high risk of suffering with severe sickness again it will defo b my last baby as I can't risk putting all my family through me being ill again
I'm ready to start tryin to conceive now how often should I be doin the deed ?
Thanx in advance for reading my post xxx


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[Shannshaff]

For a girl sway it is recommended to start at 1 attempt at +OPK. Another way is to do the deed (DTD) every 4 days (E4D) and not worry about OPKs or anything. Have you started the LE diet?

[lozandkeith]

For a girl sway it is recommended to start at 1 attempt at +OPK. Another way is to do the deed (DTD) every 4 days (E4D) and not worry about OPKs or anything. Have you started the LE diet?

Wouldn't doin the deed at opk sway boy ? When I ad my 2 boys I just wanted to get pregnant so used ovulation test and only did the deed as much as we could when ovulating
I've not started any diet I never eat till bout half 11 then av my tea bout 6 xxx


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[lozandkeith]

Wouldn't doin the deed at opk sway boy ? When I ad my 2 boys I just wanted to get pregnant so used ovulation test and only did the deed as much as we could when ovulating
I've not started any diet I never eat till bout half 11 then av my tea bout 6 xxx


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Bump ???


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[kittendreams]

Yes DTD many times at positive opk would sway boy but only one attempt at positive opk sways girl. It's about the frequency of DTD not the timing.

For best results to conceive a girl you want 12 weeks on LE diet, skipping breakfast and low blood sugar, fibre supplement, exercise 6 times per week for 60 mins, one attempt at positive opk or DTD Every 4 days, coffee and alcohol daily. Also DH biking or jogging helps.
There's heaps more info in Atomics complete index in her siggy. Good luck in your girl sway.

[lozandkeith]

Yes DTD many times at positive opk would sway boy but only one attempt at positive opk sways girl. It's about the frequency of DTD not the timing.

For best results to conceive a girl you want 12 weeks on LE diet, skipping breakfast and low blood sugar, fibre supplement, exercise 6 times per week for 60 mins, one attempt at positive opk or DTD Every 4 days, coffee and alcohol daily. Also DH biking or jogging helps.
There's heaps more info in Atomics complete index in her siggy. Good luck in your girl sway.

Brill thank you for your reply if we do the one attempt at opk do we not have sex in between or should dh still release ? Xxx


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[kittendreams]

I don't think it really matters what pattern Dh releases in as long as you only have one attempt where he releases inside you in your fertile period so any day between o-4 to ovulation day. Depending on his age you could abstain, fr on his own or release whenever he needs to lol. As long as you only have one unprotected BD in the 4 days that you are fertile.
We personally did frequent release (fr) last time and got our ds2 so this time we will try abstaining for 7 days then one attempt.

I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure at the moment its just the one attempt that's getting results for girls.
Good luck and pink dust x

[lozandkeith]

I don't think it really matters what pattern Dh releases in as long as you only have one attempt where he releases inside you in your fertile period so any day between o-4 to ovulation day. Depending on his age you could abstain, fr on his own or release whenever he needs to lol. As long as you only have one unprotected BD in the 4 days that you are fertile.
We personally did frequent release (fr) last time and got our ds2 so this time we will try abstaining for 7 days then one attempt.

I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure at the moment its just the one attempt that's getting results for girls.
Good luck and pink dust x

Thanx u for all ur advice
My dh is 40 I'm 34
Did u try sway girl on ur last pregnancy?
Did u follow the diet ?
Do u think it was the timing that effected your attempt then ? Xxx


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[kittendreams]

No worries I really hope you get your girl:ballerina:
I'm pretty sure since your hubby is 40 Atomic will say not to abstain.
I did sway last time and not sure what more we could have done apart from the exercise and being more strictly vegetarian. I will be swaying again this year. Mind you I'm nursing ds2 right now and so very glad he's here and wouldn't trade him for anything he's just so darn sweet!

[kittendreams]

My sway is in the attempt forum if you want to check it out- there are hundreds of awesome sways there for you to read and get more ideas about what might work for you. There's been heaps of successful sways lately and most did one attempt, the le diet and the exercise. Have fun reading it's seriously addictive lol!

[lozandkeith]

My sway is in the attempt forum if you want to check it out- there are hundreds of awesome sways there for you to read and get more ideas about what might work for you. There's been heaps of successful sways lately and most did one attempt, the le diet and the exercise. Have fun reading it's seriously addictive lol!

I wouldn't change my 2 boys for anything they have such a lovely brotherly bond they just need a sister now to boss em about ha
How do I read the sways Hun ? Not sure how to get in forum xxx


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[kittendreams]

Yep that's exactly how I feel!
Go into "trying to conceive a girl" forum then click on "add your girl sway" all the attempts and outcomes are there.

[atomic sagebrush]

Wouldn't doin the deed at opk sway boy ? When I ad my 2 boys I just wanted to get pregnant so used ovulation test and only did the deed as much as we could when ovulating
I've not started any diet I never eat till bout half 11 then av my tea bout 6 xxx


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Please don't bump your post until at least 5-ish days have passed. I answer from oldest to newest, and a bump pushes the question back to my "newest" and makes it take longer for me to answer. :)

Timing has been debunked. Most of us on here have timing opposites. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/7691-trouble-timing.html

For reasons we don't understand, having one attempt seems to be very pink friendly. We don't know why, just that it seems to work and our success rates went way up after we changed just that one thing. So whenever you want to have your attempt, is up to you, but do it just ONCE.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanx u for all ur advice
My dh is 40 I'm 34
Did u try sway girl on ur last pregnancy?
Did u follow the diet ?
Do u think it was the timing that effected your attempt then ? Xxx


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Since your husband is 40 you cannot do abstain, it's too risky.

You can have him try FR (release on his own or with you, with a condom, every day for 7-10 days before having the one attempt) or have him just do regular release every 2-4 days with the one attempt if he can't manage the FR.

FR probably doesn't do a whole lot so please drop that FIRST before adding attempts.

[lozandkeith]

Since your husband is 40 you cannot do abstain, it's too risky.

You can have him try FR (release on his own or with you, with a condom, every day for 7-10 days before having the one attempt) or have him just do regular release every 2-4 days with the one attempt if he can't manage the FR.

FR probably doesn't do a whole lot so please drop that FIRST before adding attempts.

Thanx for ur reply
Could you give me some advice I had sex Sunday as thought I was due to ovulate thur I've been testing tho everyday since my last period n jusr got a positive opk should I do it again tonite or not ?


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[atomic sagebrush]

Yes yes! Probably too late for now, but for future reference, if it's been at least 4 days (which Sun thru Thurs. is) then have an attempt

[lozandkeith]

Yes yes! Probably too late for now, but for future reference, if it's been at least 4 days (which Sun thru Thurs. is) then have an attempt

Well I'm pregnant and feeling really nervous I've just got it in my head already that it's gonna be another boy


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[atomic sagebrush]

Good luck and pink dust!

[lozandkeith]

Good luck and pink dust!

Thanx u
I had 2 positive opk results 5 days apart in march when I conceived how will I know which one was when I conceived ? Xxx


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[atomic sagebrush]

You won't. They may be able to tell via ultrasound but that's kind of within the margin of error.

[lozandkeith]

You won't. They may be able to tell via ultrasound but that's kind of within the margin of error.

Just found out I'm expecting twins !!!!


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[atomic sagebrush]

Huge congrats!!!

[kittendreams]

Oh my goodness congratulations!