Abundant April 2ww - Part 2

[AshFind]

Sky must be a relief time to move on NEXT CYCLE WE GOT THIS!!! Hope my af comes 28 days instead of 30


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[Skyblue]

It's my 29 day noon so that's one good thing. Bk to day 1. It's a relief in a way. I hope u know soon one way or another. Still praying for bfps for you all.


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[momamia4]

Sorry for, Sky! FX for next cycle! :)

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[maximbella]

Sorry sky!! Hugs!


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[Pbn3]

Thank you ladies for all your kind words xxoo at the end of the day someone has to lose. I don't mean that negatively 😂😂 but it's the truth - someone will always miss out and its ok that it's me! I'm sitting here enjoying a real coffee and about to make another 🙊 😀🍵 I'm sad but not devasted plus also kinda relieved. I know it's only 10dpo but I've been at this a loooong time, I feel I know my body very well and my chart never gave me much hope at all so when I say a bfn was expected I truly meant it :)

Momamia thank you so much and look forward to your bfp 💖 I'll be here watching 👀

Sky I know what you mean when you feel more bummed about someone else's bfn than your own - thank you so much for saying this to me ❤ I will be here to cheer you ladies on next cycle, I won't be as active but I'll check in every couple days or so :)

You ladies will be an awesome support group for each other! Keep it up as it is THE biggest help to keep your head sane being able to come in here to vent, question or even just talk!

I'll be turning my tapatalk notifications off for this thread in a couple days time but feel free to '@pbn3' in a post if there is something you really want to ask. Pretty sure I get a notification from that. Could someone actually test that out? Just post @pbn3 and I'll make sure it works :) oh and pbn3 was short for possible baby number 3 😂😂

I'm going to enjoy my afternoon when it comes (the sun isn't even up yet 😂) with a couple rum and cokes while making baileys and tim tam mini cheesecakes 😜 at a friends house this afternoon.



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[XXforhubby]

Thank you ladies for all your kind words xxoo at the end of the day someone has to lose. I don't mean that negatively [emoji23][emoji23] but it's the truth - someone will always miss out and its ok that it's me! I'm sitting here enjoying a real coffee and about to make another [emoji87] [emoji3][emoji478] I'm sad but not devasted plus also kinda relieved. I know it's only 10dpo but I've been at this a loooong time, I feel I know my body very well and my chart never gave me much hope at all so when I say a bfn was expected I truly meant it :)

Momamia thank you so much and look forward to your bfp [emoji178] I'll be here watching [emoji102]

Sky I know what you mean when you feel more bummed about someone else's bfn than your own - thank you so much for saying this to me [emoji173] I will be here to cheer you ladies on next cycle, I won't be as active but I'll check in every couple days or so :)

You ladies will be an awesome support group for each other! Keep it up as it is THE biggest help to keep your head sane being able to come in here to vent, question or even just talk!

I'll be turning my tapatalk notifications off for this thread in a couple days time but feel free to '@pbn3' in a post if there is something you really want to ask. Pretty sure I get a notification from that. Could someone actually test that out? Just post @pbn3 and I'll make sure it works :) oh and pbn3 was short for possible baby number 3 [emoji23][emoji23]

I'm going to enjoy my afternoon when it comes (the sun isn't even up yet [emoji23]) with a couple rum and cokes while making baileys and tim tam mini cheesecakes [emoji12] at a friends house this afternoon.



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[Pbn3]

❤ you xxforhubby!!! I'll be checking in your ddg especially when your princess is born 😀 cant wait to see her 💕

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[XXforhubby]

Damn it all to hell! I'm a mess over this Pbn3! I meant what I said, and I'm willing AF to stay away [emoji1306][emoji1306][emoji1306]! This is not happening! I feel like Ariel in the Tempest, haha!


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[Pbn3]

😂😂😂 you're awesome!!!! It's ok really! If everyone got what they wanted the world would be a terrible place! Who knows what door will open for me now this one has closed.....

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[Skyblue]

I am a crying emotional mess pbn3. I just want to say this that most of the times things happen when you don't expect at all. I know that in my heart.
I am not ready to say bye. I just found you.
Have a fun afternoon. I am going to enjoy my drink tonight.
So you mean I need to do @pbn3 in all my posts now. [emoji4][emoji4][emoji4][emoji4]Can't and won't do it without you. Hugs.



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[Pbn3]

Awww you will have me crying soon 😢😢 stop it already 😂!!!! Sky I will miss you so much xxoo but remember I'll be here to help. Hmmmm I didn't get a notification from the @pbn3.... can you try writing it first as in opening with it?

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[Skyblue]

@pbn3 - I m so mad at this day. [emoji853]☹️
But I still have my faith.


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[Skyblue]

Did that work?


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[Pbn3]

Nope didn't work 😂😂😂 it may come through later....

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[Pbn3]

The alternative is you can always pm me :)

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[Skyblue]

Oops. Did you get my pm the other day when you were going to work? How can I reach you?


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[Pbn3]

No I didn't!!!! That's weird!! Can you try quickly again? I did empty it the other day as it was full...

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[Skyblue]

I just did.


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[Pbn3]

Ok that's come through chat which is different to pm so I wasn't even aware you sent them :( sorry sky

If you click on the home screen button (the dots in a square I think they are) you'll then see an envelope icon which takes you to the pm section. Start typing in pbn3 and you'll be able to select me then write message underneath.

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[Pbn3]

Here's a couple screenshots to show what I meanhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170407/0a32b8c1f2bc1ecb60a6de6d355b2f10.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170407/7997293dd922c776b1927bdd293595a6.jpg

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[Pbn3]

From the home screen you click on your gender dreaming which will bring up second screen

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[maximbella]

Pbn, I'm soooo sorry! Truly...

[IWant4Kids]

I'll do a proper update later..

Pbn3 - Nooooooooo! You're still in with a chance! Check again in a couple of days. We will miss you so much! I've only just met you too, but value your optimism, knowledge and friendship! Really hoping that AF doesn't show up and you get a belated BFP xo


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[Pbn3]

Thank you ladies!

Good to see your temp above coverline again Iwant4kids!

Maxim can you post a link to your chart or do a screenshot please?

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[IWant4Kids]

IC test line hardly visible, still bleeding. Just riding it out....I have no prior expectations as I thought it was over anyway.


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[maximbella]

Pbn, can you see it below? Your chart still looks good...


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[Pbn3]

Omg maxim!!! You're chart looks fantastic!! I would honestly put you at 7dpo!! How exciting!!!! When will you start testing?

Iwant4kids I would wait for tomorrows blood test before throwing in the towel. Will it be Monday before you get results?

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[IWant4Kids]

Yup, test tomorrow morning and will get results first thing Monday morning.
I was totally expecting low numbers yesterday and they went up, plus bleeding was heavier. So it's all unexpected and that's what I hate. I'm a control freak who likes plans.... lol
Just wish it wasn't the weekend!


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[IWant4Kids]

Maxim - chart does look fab!!!


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[Shannshaff]

Pbn3 - this makes me so sad to see, but I also know it is very early even for an FRER. I will not give up hope for you just yet! Thank you for all of the support you have give to me and everyone else in here! You are truly an amazing lady. Hope you have fun this afternoon.

Sky - sorry that AF arrived and on your vacation, but glad you got an answer and can enjoy the trip.

Art - Congrats! Wonderful news for you.

IWant - Sorry to hear that you are still bleeding and that your tests are not that dark. Are you doing another blood test, tomorrow? Praying your limbo ends - it sucks.

Everyone else - still keeping the faith for more BFPs in this group!

[maximbella]

Thanks ladies. Not putting much stock into it...all my previous charts also looked great, I had every pregnancy symptom imaginable, and still BFNs. I'm honestly not even that excited to test bc I just get so disappointed, especially since I'm not clear if DH is willing to try again. Probably won't test until Monday or Tuesday.


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[Lolabelle]

Sorry skyblue!! Fx for a new year baby!! Think I'll be there with you too & we can all support each other!! Hope you're relaxing on vaca & not worrying about a thing :)

Pbn-Gosh, this just doesn't seem right! And yet, you are still so strong and making others feel better :) Agree with the others, just don't want to believe it until AF has arrived. I would lovvvve for your body to surprise you!!! I'm always hopeful!!!
Sooo-on a lighter note, do you have the recipe for the timtam cheesecake?? Lol That sounds delicious! My mom went to Australia for three weeks this past October & got us all hooked on timtams :)


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[Skyblue]

Thankyou Lollabelle. I have stayed back at the beautiful place we are staying and dh and dd went today. I just had a feeling that something isn't right with me. Anyway, I am relaxing and getting to spend more time with you all. One hell of a vaca. 🤣🤣🤣
I am still praying for all.
Your son is so precious and is totally rocking the beautiful shirt. Lovely picture. Those eyes are to die for.


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[Pbn3]

Awww Lola love it!!! He's just adorable 💙

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[Pbn3]

Oh and this is the recipe 😀 I screenshot it because its a Facebook recipe 😀https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170407/b4127b8e9d6f5e95ec8d370aef222763.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170407/f719f4334633f780df56f3bf218f9eab.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170407/9b0919399c2c1817284b867eebaeb742.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170407/ca17ed7f42862aea42905c2b3a98fb44.jpg

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[Skyblue]

Awww Pbn - You are beautiful and your boys are soooooo cute and they look a lot like you. Isn't it? I see the same calm and patient personality that you are on your face. How far apart are the boys?


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[Pbn3]

Thank you sky 😀 my boys are 5 and just about to turn 3!

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[Skyblue]

Oh that's nice. They must be good at playing together.


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[Pbn3]

Only sometimes 😂 they fight better than they play 😂😂

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[cosmosis]

@pbn3 I just want to reach out and give you the biggest hug. :hugs: I wish you the very best and hope to see you around here! You've been such a wonderful support and I'm so very grateful to have had the pleasure of your presence in the group :awe:

[Pbn3]

Thank you cosmo 😀

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[AshFind]

How stinkin cute Lola!


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[AshFind]

Pbn your boys a super cute to and look just like you! I feel like this is a horribly sad day in ttc world not because some of us got bfn but because you got one [emoji24] we don't want to see you go!


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[Pbn3]

Awww thanks Ash ❤ I'll hang around here and there, need to see you ladies get your bfps 😀

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[Lolabelle]

@pbn3 you & are boys are just beautiful!! Thanks for sharing :) They look like lots of fun! Thanks for the recipe too-will have to give it a try! I've discovered a few stores here in the US that carry timtams-World Market & Target. I also appreciate the sweet words pbn3 & skyblue! My boys are double trouble, but double the fun too :) Hope you feel better skyblue! Nice that can relax while DH & DD explore.
Ash-are you ready for vaca? Hope you enjoy time with your family! We can discuss plans for our New Years babies when you return haha. I'm just waiting on AF too...


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[maximbella]

Gorgeous boys pbn and Lola!!' [emoji7]


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[IWant4Kids]

Skyblue - Sorry to hear lovely....hope she's quick! Bring on a new year's baby xo I have a feeling I'll be joining you sooon

Artisam: Congratulations! Hope you have a smooth pregnancy

Pbn3 - Have you taken the FRER apart? You sure there's no hint of a line? Your boys are gorgeous as are you and it's lovely to put a face to a name! Enjoy the tim tam balls

Lola - Your DS is gorgeous in his Aussie tshirt! Aussie Aussie Aussie, Oi, Oi Oi!

Shannshaff - Thank you for reminding me of your start to pregnancy....gives me hope! Not long until you get answers.

AFM - I'm trying to distract myself today. I run a little business called www.woodenyou.com.au and I have soooooo many orders, so I'm painting all day! I started it up for when I'm a stay at home Mum again. I need a break from teaching. I would never make as much as I do teaching (teachers in Oz get paid well), but in just the week before Xmas I made $1200, so I 'think' I could make it work. You can follow me on instagram and FB if you're on them.

[Pbn3]

Test

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[Pbn3]

Grrr tapatalk is dodgy today!!!

Iwant4kids wow they are gorgeous 😍😍!!!! I love artsy things! I came across a facebook page that a friend liked and fell in love with this ladies creations!! I was hoping to order some for me but I will have to settle on getting some as gifts lolhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170408/8bd9a24cc127fc5f8994ee9a9c0b5769.jpg

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[Pbn3]

Oh and I removed my photo now you've all seen. So easy to forget this isn't a private forum 😂😂

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[Lolabelle]

That's a very good point pbn3, maybe I should do the same w/my pic soon!


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[IWant4Kids]

Grrr tapatalk is dodgy today!!!

Iwant4kids wow they are gorgeous 😍😍!!!! I love artsy things! I came across a facebook page that a friend liked and fell in love with this ladies creations!! I was hoping to order some for me but I will have to settle on getting some as gifts lolhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170408/8bd9a24cc127fc5f8994ee9a9c0b5769.jpg

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They're super cute! You could always order some more grown up ones for your boys? Like a super hero or TMNT or whatever you're boys are into.

[dancingdiva88]

I'm having the worst pimple outbreak! But a pimple/awful sore cysty type combination too. I'm on progesterone pessaries - could this be doing it to me?

[IWant4Kids]

Dancingdiva - Sorry not sure! Hope it's a good sign x

AFM - Worrying myself sick that I'm having an ectopic! Every little twingle and niggle I think is a sign. The trouble is, even if it is, no one can tell yet! I have another week of torture....

[XXforhubby]

I'm having the worst pimple outbreak! But a pimple/awful sore cysty type combination too. I'm on progesterone pessaries - could this be doing it to me?

It's the progesterone. I've always had high progesterone levels and suffered from the cystic acne around my jaw, cheeks, and chin for years. The best thing to do is not pick at them. I have found salicylic acid toners and creams to be the best over benzoyl peroxide. If you do use benzoyl peroxide, use a very light coat once a day. I do love benzoyl peroxide face washes and body washes though! Also adding in a retinol cream at night helps to clear them. I love the night cream by Neutrogena because it has the highest amount of Retinol in an over the counter product.


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[maximbella]

Good morning ladies!

Iwant4 - I hope that all is okay! I think it's common to have twinges etc, and hoping it's not eptopic. If it's super painful, you should for sure get it checked out soon.

dancingdiva - ditto on the breakouts. mine aren't cystic, but what i know what you mean!

lola & ash - are you testing today??

Does anyone know if you have to have an implantation dip to get a bfp in your cycle? I had a fallback rise at 3dpo and today at 8dpo temps went back up again. I went back and looked at both of my bfp cycles and at 8dpo, temps went down (not up like this cycle). Bummer!

[Lolabelle]

Hi!! Maxim-well I did test today at 14dpo & it's still a BFN, that's the dpo I had my BFP for the CP, so I'm going to quit testing and wait for AF ugh...I dreamed she was here!
It's the 1st day of my spring break & I'm feeling at loose ends! My boys are bouncing off the walls. This would've been the week for my 1st u/s appt and since that didn't work out, I was hoping I'd have a BFP to be excited about this week :(
Dancingdiva-I get cystic acne on my chin. Don't know the cause either other than hormones. Rodan+Fields unblemish seems to help. It's pricey though-so sometimes I think I'm victim of the R+F fad haha.
Iwant4kids-sure hope it's not ectopic, agree with maxim, if you're having sharp pains, I'd def get it checked out sooner than later! But like you mentioned, not sure how soon they could tell.


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[Lolabelle]

Moma, dancingdiva & maxim-I'm going to be living vicariously through you with your testing now! ;)


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[Lolabelle]

Oops-I keep forgetting things I want to say!
Maxim-I don't believe that there is always an implantation dip & I think that pbn3 is the one that mentioned that, but not 100%?? Miss you already pbn3! Please come back to visit often! And those moving on to the ddg-please come back to visit us too :)

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[maximbella]

Lola, I'm so sorry.... I know exactly what you mean, trust me. Last cycle my O date fell on a date that meant our 6 week u/s fell on DDs birthday and due date was my moms birthday. Would have been so special and I was really excited about that. But I do believe that everything happens for a reason, and hopefully it's that extending the time until BFP just means that we are waiting for the right next DD to complete our family. I know that's corny, but that's what I have to believe to keep going...this whole process is just so many emotional ups and downs.

I'll be 9dpo tomorrow. Not sure if I'll test....


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[AshFind]

Bfn for me today at 12dpo temp was down a bit this morning but i took it 3hours earlier than normal. Got all the tampons and pads backed for af and one wondfo just in case she hasn't shown by Wednesday


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[maximbella]

Sorry ash, hope she doesn't show!


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[AshFind]

Thanks max! I've come to accept it this cycle wish it'd just hurry along so I can get to my +opk faster!


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[XXforhubby]

I can't believe it's time to start a new thread for April! Here is the link to the new April 2WW thread:

Abundant April 2WW Thread (3)

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[Skyblue]

Hello Ladies. Af is not fun on vaca. [emoji52][emoji52]But I have made my peace with it. Beach day here I come.
Ash , Lola - I whole heartedly hope for a bfp for you two but if not then wish af comes and put you guys at ease and then you better buckle up so that we can head to the next cycle in full
Swing. I can't wait to get back home
Tomorrow and order the hell out of eBay. I know getting af is a bummer but entering the new cycle gives you hope and think lets do this. I am waiting for you ladies either way.
Iwant4kids - I know it's been such a roller coaster of emotions for you but please don't worry and hang in there. We are here for you dear. Big big hugs.
Dancingdiva and Maxim - I have no knowledge and I agree with Lola that We are lost without pbn3. God knows I still feel bummed about her. We miss you Pbn3.
I hope she checks on us soon and give us her much needed advise.
Momma - What's happening?? How are you doing??

I will be out today but will
Check my msgs when I can.
Ash - Have you left for vaca??



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