KnockYourBallsOff
October 16th, 2011, 11:44 PM
You know, I always really didn't mind what I'd have. I always bragged I wanted 4 boys...girls were much too difficult and obnoxious.
Even after DS2, I really didn't mind too much...I wanted a girl with DS3 only because I felt alot of pressure from others and some of my family members really wanted that girl....but for me personally it didn't bother me...
Until now.
Now that DS1 is getting into sports and transformers, spider man, fighting, etc.....and DS2 is following right along with him, and DS3 is just shy of 1, but he's already tagging along too. I get it now. I need some femeninity in the house.
I got a doll catalog in the mail yesterday, sorta like American Girl. It brought back so many memories of my childhood.....and I really want to watch that amazement from the perspective of a mother. I think DH finally saw and understood too.
i don't feel like I have Gender Dissapointment. I love each of my boys...and even if I have a 4th boy..I wouldn't be 'dissapointed'...but I'll always have that 'desire'. Ya know? Luckily DH is open to a large family.
Here's to praying and swaying...so one one I can order from that catalog!
Even after DS2, I really didn't mind too much...I wanted a girl with DS3 only because I felt alot of pressure from others and some of my family members really wanted that girl....but for me personally it didn't bother me...
Until now.
Now that DS1 is getting into sports and transformers, spider man, fighting, etc.....and DS2 is following right along with him, and DS3 is just shy of 1, but he's already tagging along too. I get it now. I need some femeninity in the house.
I got a doll catalog in the mail yesterday, sorta like American Girl. It brought back so many memories of my childhood.....and I really want to watch that amazement from the perspective of a mother. I think DH finally saw and understood too.
i don't feel like I have Gender Dissapointment. I love each of my boys...and even if I have a 4th boy..I wouldn't be 'dissapointed'...but I'll always have that 'desire'. Ya know? Luckily DH is open to a large family.
Here's to praying and swaying...so one one I can order from that catalog!