Unexpected BD

[shinay]

Hi everyone. I need some advice. So due to moving and other stressful stuffs going on, DH wanted to wait till next month to ttc. But we were in the heat of the moment and bd today. It has been a week between this bd and last bd. I am on cd14, and i normally ovulate on cd18 or 19.
I am also worried since i know atomic said it is best for ttc boy if we bd every couple days

Since we already bd today, i dont wanna skip this month since some sperms could still be inside for 4-5 days. What should i do to remedy this situation and increase my chance for a boy?

[MiaMelb]

If you are confident in your HE diet and weights and you think this attempt may have already put you in the game then I'd go for it. Maybe BD on cd 16 and assuming +opk on cd 18 then BD that night and then again cd 19. Alternatively if you think you may get +opk cd 17 maybe wait for it then BD evening of cd 17 and then am and pm on cd 18. As long as you're in with a few attempts in your fertile window then you're increasing the chances of blue.

[shinay]

If you are confident in your HE diet and weights and you think this attempt may have already put you in the game then I'd go for it. Maybe BD on cd 16 and assuming +opk on cd 18 then BD that night and then again cd 19. Alternatively if you think you may get +opk cd 17 maybe wait for it then BD evening of cd 17 and then am and pm on cd 18. As long as you're in with a few attempts in your fertile window then you're increasing the chances of blue.

I have always had HE diet...just tried to eat even more in case my body doesn't have enough nutrients. I also take the prenatal vitamins and extra folic acid. Also eat lots of banana and drinks tons of lemon water to help with CM. So i hope that my body is ready for the boy sway.

I am not really sure if this attempt already put me in the game, but I just don't feel safe to skip this month knowing that some of the sperms could make it to O day. I wish we bd more last week. Sighhh

So now, I am wondering if I should BD today (CD15) then twice on CD 18 and 1 on CD19 so that I should hit both day? But what should i do if O decide to come later? And is it okay to BD too closely? It would reduce DH sperm count, right?

Sorry for bombarding you with tons of questions.

[atomic sagebrush]

Two scenarios:

If you don't O till CD 18-19, the odds of conceiving with one attempt CD 14 are slim. Not impossible though.

OR, you'll O early or some swimmers will stay alive that long. But it is POSSIBLE and what is even more possible is that the sneaky eggo will decide to show up early this month and then you'll be in with one attempt!

Personally, I'd have an attempt CD 15, then take CD 16 off, have attempt 17-18-19. If there is any way to fit in TWO attempts on CD 17 OR 18 (no need to do both, just one or the other) then I'd try for that.

[atomic sagebrush]

Two scenarios:

If you don't O till CD 18-19, the odds of conceiving with one attempt CD 14 are slim. Not impossible though.

OR, you'll O early or some swimmers will stay alive that long. But it is POSSIBLE and what is even more possible is that the sneaky eggo will decide to show up early this month and then you'll be in with one attempt!

Personally, I'd have an attempt CD 15, then take CD 16 off, have attempt 17-18-19. If there is any way to fit in TWO attempts on CD 17 OR 18 (no need to do both, just one or the other) then I'd try for that.

[shinay]

Thanks Atomic for answering me so quick. Will try to follow your advice. Praying that DH is not stressing out at work. DH loves bd everyday if he is not stressed, else he is not in the mood for it.

[shinay]

Two scenarios:

If you don't O till CD 18-19, the odds of conceiving with one attempt CD 14 are slim. Not impossible though.

OR, you'll O early or some swimmers will stay alive that long. But it is POSSIBLE and what is even more possible is that the sneaky eggo will decide to show up early this month and then you'll be in with one attempt!

Personally, I'd have an attempt CD 15, then take CD 16 off, have attempt 17-18-19. If there is any way to fit in TWO attempts on CD 17 OR 18 (no need to do both, just one or the other) then I'd try for that.

Atomic, i have a question about preseed. I do have some CM, but I am not sure if it is enough. Should I add some Preseed before bd or do you think I should just use my own CM?

[atomic sagebrush]

Most people will use a little bit, like as a lube for BD. You don't need the full tube though. Just use a bit on DH.

[shinay]

Can someone help inteprete my chart for last cycle please?
Based on this, was ff right about my O day or cd 18 should have been my O day? Seem like i normally have a slow rise...i just wanna know so i could plan for this cycle. This is our first month ttc
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[shinay]

Still no positibe opk yet. I tested just now and the pink digi cb is negative. The easy@home opk seems to get darker than before. We dtd yesterday. Should we skip today and dtd tomorrow instead?
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Sorry...i tried to rotate the opk picture but it didn't work :(

[atomic sagebrush]

Can someone help inteprete my chart for last cycle please?
Based on this, was ff right about my O day or cd 18 should have been my O day? Seem like i normally have a slow rise...i just wanna know so i could plan for this cycle. This is our first month ttc
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The unfortunate thing about charts is that we can't truly know which day was O day. It really could have been either day.

[atomic sagebrush]

Yep I'd do every other day for a couple days unless you get that positive.