Miscarriage vs 12 weeks on LE diet

[lovellcute]

Would like your opinion atomic
(And anyone else with any experience of this)
I had a miscarriage yesterday, am very keen to try conceiving asap
But this was an unplanned baby before I had the chance to sway

So choice is try and get pregnant this cycle or next, or 12 weeks on LE diet with coffee and alcohol (not doing the exercise)

So in your opinion which would be a better sway pink?

Many thanks x

P.s
I am breastfeeding, and and assuming anemic now after very large blood loss through this miscarriage x


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[atomic sagebrush]

I'm terribly sorry for your loss.

If you don't mind my asking, how far along?

[lovellcute]

I was 6/7 weeks
Couldn't believe that I had contractions and lost so much blood considering it was so early!
Xx


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[carebear1st]

So sorry for your loss. I had a surprise bfp and didnt get to sway either, silent miscarried both at 10 weeks two weeks ago and have already started my sway(Vegan and exercise everyday) I had surgery to remove them and stopped bleeding about 3-4 days ago and yesterday started getting ewcm(i ovulate days 9-12 of my normal cycle). I eat sooo boyish normally and gained a few pounds with the preg even with MC i'd prob have a boy so didn't want to risk it. I think it depends on how much you want your DD.

[lovellcute]

So sorry for your loss. I had a surprise bfp and didnt get to sway either, silent miscarried both at 10 weeks two weeks ago and have already started my sway(Vegan and exercise everyday) I had surgery to remove them and stopped bleeding about 3-4 days ago and yesterday started getting ewcm(i ovulate days 9-12 of my normal cycle). I eat sooo boyish normally and gained a few pounds with the preg even with MC i'd prob have a boy so didn't want to risk it. I think it depends on how much you want your DD.

Sorry for your loss as well! It's truly awful isn't it!
I was the same, I struggle to put on weight normally but I did actually put on a few pounds in those few weeks
And last night had the biggest steak I've ever seen, for iron
And generally my diet and lifestyle is very boy friendly so I'm pretty sure I would have a boy now but did read that trying straight after a miscarriage really does sway girl
Going on holiday next week and I plan on eating everything and anything
And I'm still bleeding heavily
So I think I will start hardcore swaying when we get back!
Oh I wish I could click my fingers or wave a wand and we both get our baby girls x


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[4blue2pink]

im so sorry lovellcute, i lost my 2nd baby (girl) at 18 weeks and fell pregnant again 4 weeks later with a boy. i didnt know about swaying back then, if i had i would have swayed pink after the loss.

in my opinion a good solid 12+ week sway puts you in a much more pink-friendly place than a miscarriage does. but i understand the desire to ttc again ASAP as well..

best of luck with whatever you decide to do xx

[lovellcute]

im so sorry lovellcute, i lost my 2nd baby (girl) at 18 weeks and fell pregnant again 4 weeks later with a boy. i didnt know about swaying back then, if i had i would have swayed pink after the loss.

in my opinion a good solid 12+ week sway puts you in a much more pink-friendly place than a miscarriage does. but i understand the desire to ttc again ASAP as well..

best of luck with whatever you decide to do xx

Oh god I am so sorry that's so awful! It's bad enough at 6 weeks so I literally can't imagine what you went through!
I had planned to do 12 weeks on the diet so when I found out I was pregnant I was so shocked and didn't think I was 'ready' for another baby
But now it's gone I am so desperate to be pregnant again
And it seems as though so many people I know are announcing their pregnancies at the moment!
But I think I'm going to wait and get a really good sway in and hopefully get my girl!! X


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[4blue2pink]

Oh god I am so sorry that's so awful! It's bad enough at 6 weeks so I literally can't imagine what you went through!
I had planned to do 12 weeks on the diet so when I found out I was pregnant I was so shocked and didn't think I was 'ready' for another baby
But now it's gone I am so desperate to be pregnant again
And it seems as though so many people I know are announcing their pregnancies at the moment!
But I think I'm going to wait and get a really good sway in and hopefully get my girl!! X


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its a horrific experience at any point </3 i completely understand the desperation to be pregnant again, that was me! and 4 weeks later i was.. i do wish i had known about swaying back then

i think it really comes down to how much you want a baby vs how much you want a baby girl.

if gender is important then you should sway :) so i really think you are 100% doing the right thing by holding off ttc to sway, best of luck with all of it and my fingers are crossed for you for a healthy pink bean, keep us updated! xx

[lovellcute]

its a horrific experience at any point </3 i completely understand the desperation to be pregnant again, that was me! and 4 weeks later i was.. i do wish i had known about swaying back then

i think it really comes down to how much you want a baby vs how much you want a baby girl.

if gender is important then you should sway :) so i really think you are 100% doing the right thing by holding off ttc to sway, best of luck with all of it and my fingers are crossed for you for a healthy pink bean, keep us updated! xx

Sooo desperate for a girl so It's worth waiting a few extra months if it means my chances are better!!
If this sway doesn't work then we may have to go HT so ganna put my all into this!
Thanks for replying, I appreciate it xx


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[ELP]

So sad to read about everybodies losses:(

I think that putting in the 12 weeks on a LE sway is the best way to go, especially if you are considering HT,:)

[atomic sagebrush]

So sorry for your loss. I had a surprise bfp and didnt get to sway either, silent miscarried both at 10 weeks two weeks ago and have already started my sway(Vegan and exercise everyday) I had surgery to remove them and stopped bleeding about 3-4 days ago and yesterday started getting ewcm(i ovulate days 9-12 of my normal cycle). I eat sooo boyish normally and gained a few pounds with the preg even with MC i'd prob have a boy so didn't want to risk it. I think it depends on how much you want your DD.


The thing is, miscarriages may help sway pink so I don't necessarily want anyone to think they MUST go back on diet for 12 weeks if they don't want to. I do not have the ability to predict who will be better off doing diet and who won't be, so please follow your gut and heart on this.

[Imama]

I was 17 weeks on LE diet and yesterday I've miscarried at 5/6 weeks. I don't know if I should just start TTC after first AF or be on diet for some more weeks. I ate normally for 2 weeks (snacking, high protein) because of BFP.

[lovellcute]

I was 17 weeks on LE diet and yesterday I've miscarried at 5/6 weeks. I don't know if I should just start TTC after first AF or be on diet for some more weeks. I ate normally for 2 weeks (snacking, high protein) because of BFP.

So sorry for your loss! I'm pretty sure atomic will agree but because you were on it for so long that you don't have to do a whole 12 weeks!
Hope you're doing ok x


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[atomic sagebrush]

I was 17 weeks on LE diet and yesterday I've miscarried at 5/6 weeks. I don't know if I should just start TTC after first AF or be on diet for some more weeks. I ate normally for 2 weeks (snacking, high protein) because of BFP.

17 weeks on diet and eating normally for 2 weeks, with a fairly early loss (so sorry BTW) I would try to catch first egg

[Imama]

17 weeks on diet and eating normally for 2 weeks, with a fairly early loss (so sorry BTW) I would try to catch first egg

Do I have to wait until first AF and then start or can I have ovulation before and then try?

[atomic sagebrush]

as long as you did not have a D and C, I'd try for first egg.