Need help with boy sway.

[Would luv a son3]

Hi Ladies!
I posted here a couple of times. DH and I are trying to conceive a boy after two DD. I have a 4yo DD and a 1yo DD. I got pregnant with my first very quickly as I thought I wouldn't be able to get pregnant that quick. I had a MC in between my first and second (which I was also able to conceive first shot) DD2 took a year to have and now we are trying for a boy and it seems as though I can't get pregnant. It's been two cycles and our BD patterns have been every other day since Cycle day 12 then 3 days in a row for the first Cycle and then the second I wasn't even sure I was going to O at all and then finally did and we did it four days in a row through O. I conceived both my girls with BD'ing 6 or 7 days in a row up to O. So I'm scared to do that again and also don't want it to be something that becomes a job. What should I do? I have also had 2 C-sections and heard it could be my scar that is the problem? Have any of you girls had this issue? Please Share your story! TIA!!

[atomic sagebrush]

2 cycles is nothing. It takes fully fertile couples doing nothing to sway an average of 3-6 months to get pregnant.

I think you're on the right track, I agree please don't BD 6-7 days in a row up to O, that may sway pink since it will really lower his sperm health.

It may have just not been the month. It is quite unusual for C-Section scar to cause trouble conceiving so don't jump to that conclusion and worry about that until we have reason to.

Are you doing anything like baking soda douche that may cut odds of conception?

[Would luv a son3]

Okay. Thanks atomic! I know you're right. I guess I just went from getting pregnant quick to having to wait a while to get pregnant. No I didn't do the baking soda douche or the baking soda finger because when I read back on other posts with women that have done that you said that you do not recommend it at all anymore so that's why I haven't done it. The only thing I've used is pre-seed. How much pre-seed should I use? This past cycle is used 2 grams on every BD attempt and I wants sure if it was too much. It seemed that DH sperm came out quicker then when I didn't use it. Have you ever heard of that?

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I have. Let's cut way back on the Preseed, just pretend it's lube and use however much you'd normally use.

[Would luv a son3]

Okay, will do! Thanks again Atomic! Hoping next cycle is the cycle! Send me blue dust!

[Would luv a son3]

I forgot to mention that I used that much pressed to help sway boy. I don't always have an O when we BD. Will that be an issue you think?

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh I understood that, but yes we have seen an issue where people use sooo much Preseed (or egg white, even though we don't use egg white on this site since it's too risky) that it basically washes away the sperm or else dilutes it or something. The remedy has simply been using less! :)

We don't totaly know 100% that having a female O sways blue but it certainly doesn't hurt! If at all possible, I'd try - but don't let it get too frustrating for you!

[Would luv a son3]

Okay! Thanks atomic! :bluecheer: