Waiting to Sway?

[Pangea]

I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but is anyone else waiting to sway?

We're not planning on trying for another year, it feels like ages and ages away and I have bad baby fever now. I can't stop myself researching everything about swaying, I'm supposed to be studying right now but instead I'm on here.

I'm really aching for a little girl at the moment, I'm getting upset when I see girl clothes in shops. Even though I know now is not the right time to be getting pregnant, I just wish I could do something now to increase the chances of getting my little girl so I felt like I had some control over it.

Is there anyone else in my position? I'm counting down the days here.

[love being a mummy]

I am exactly the same right now.
I've been researching for about 4 months now.
I've wanted another baby for 17months. I'm thinking of ttc in Jan but haven't really decided if I will do it yet. I think I might get scared.

[ynwa]

that makes 3 of us,we are looking at next sept when ds2 will be 2,thats 42 weeks or 294 days away!i have huge baby envy right now,and yes them clothes do the same to me,if its any help lets do this together;.)

[Pangea]

Good luck for January if you decide to try then. Sometimes I feel like just going for it, but then I think about the reality of being pregnant and having a newborn I get scared and go back to thinking that waiting a year is the right thing to do.
I'm going to do the french diet for 3 months before I start trying so at least I'll feel like I'm doing something, and that makes it feel like I have less time to count down to!

[Pangea]

ynwa that's exactly what I'm planning, DS2 will be turning 2 in September so hoping to try around then. It feels like ages away, but I'm looking forward to the new year, then I can think to myself that I'm trying later in the year, instead of next year!

[love being a mummy]

Good luck to you aswell. I'm not sure what diet I will be following but atm I am just trying what I can to help get my PH up a bit and also raise DH's testosterone.
I am hoping that will help us but still not sure.

[ynwa]

wow we really are in the same boat,ds1 is not 6 by any chance is he,ha ha

[Pangea]

No he's 3 and a half! There's 2 and a half years between them, which is what's putting me off trying now, I think I'd like a bigger age gap this time, and definitely couldn't handle a smaller gap.

[ynwa]

I just keep thinking good things come to those who wait,will this be your last try for dd or would you try a 4th time?

[Pangea]

I think I'd try a fourth time, but then that would be it. What about you?

[ynwa]

Oh says this is our last try,and as I don't feel I know enough about things yet I will need till sept to get as much info as poss to give it my best:.)

[Pangea]

Best of luck with it!

[queen-of-harts]

Im waiting to sway,im thinking November next year as my youngest is 17 months and he will be just over three if i get pregnant right away.I still have to figure out my sway plan also.

[cocos-mum]

i am we are planning to sway pink in may but i've been waiting about a year now. we was gonna ttc in jan but dh thinks we should wait till may after hols. i want to be pg now.

[carmella_marie]

I have been aching for a DD since I heard the US tech say "it's a boy" 2 years ago. DH and I are going to start TTC in january and I am counting down the days.

[love being a mummy]

I have been aching for a DD since I heard the US tech say "it's a boy" 2 years ago. DH and I are going to start TTC in january and I am counting down the days.


Good luck, sending you lots of pink vibes.

[atomic sagebrush]

That's good though, because it allows you to get the obsessing out of the way (which can raise testosterone) and put a plan in place you feel happy with. Then when your sway rolls around, you can just relax and enact the plan.

What I would do right now if I were you, is become a vegetarian. You don't need to do anything other than that, just stop eating meat, and you WILL be doing something tangible to help you conceive your baby girl. Your testosterone levels will gradually decline over time and then when it comes time for your sway, you can do a stricter diet at that time.