New here 👋🏽 Advice on pink sway please 💗🎀

[MrsLolly]

Hello,

Just a little back ground on myself I'm 29 hubby is 34 we have a gorgeous little boy who is 17 months old 😀 We have started TTC#2 and would love a little girl all though another little boy would be amazing too!

We conceived our son on honeymoon 😍 with constant BDing from cd 11-BFP 😀

I had a chemical pregnancy last month after what I believe was a 4 day cut off using sylk lube unfortunately the pregnancy didn't stick!

I have been tracking cm,ph,cervix and doing opk for a good 3 months now so feel I know abit about my body, this month we decided to do a 7 day abstinence and try 0+12 method!! We waited until my cm turned creamy and my cervix was mid low? I'm not really sure if I have even done it right?

been reading up on the method and it said from 31 hours after your pos opk to have sex once and when cm turns creamy? We ended up with 35 hours due to my husband being as work!

We are not in a rush to get pregnant so if it doesn't happen this month then no problem.

I have been taking cranberry supplements for 3 months - stopping at O and also taking folic acid, my PH is 4/4.5 so nice and low

After doing 0+12 I checked ph and it was 7.5 so we got it down to 6.5 hoping this is okay?

Have also tried to be strict on diet but have cheated 🤦🏽*♀️

I don't temp so never can confirm ov but I always seem to get a lot of creamy cm day after pos opk!!

Currently 4dpo give or take a day

Hoping I can get some advice as to what you think regarding our sway

Thank you 😊

[MiaMelb]

Hi Mrslolly, as you can see I'm not a pink swayer but a few things in your post stick out to me so might comment (some of the subtleties will escape me byt I'm sure some pink swayers will be able to fill in the detail)

Sounds like you've done some research into swaying but sounds like much of what you've read is based on old school swaying tactics. Many women on this site have tried and failed trying to sway using things like pH, cranberry and O+12. Most women swaying on this site are following the LE diet and a pink tactics which can be quite different to the old school stuff.

If your interested in how things are done by most women here there is heaps of good reading in The complete index, the link at the bottom of any of Atomic's posts will take you to it (I tried to link it here but my phone's being silly).

GL

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi and welcome! WE have found that having lots of sex in the fertile window sways blue so no big surprise you got a boy doing that! :)

Most of us on here have opposites doing things the "old school" way with the timing, pH, and mineral stuff.

I normally do not sign off on sways that are already done deals because I cannot know what anyone is having and I feel like it makes false hope or false despair when I do. But just in the hopes that this is BFN I will share a few essays with you about how some of those things are really not all they are cracked up to be.

The "antitiming" essay is here: https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/7691-trouble-timing.html

pH is here: https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/11684-ph-pickle.html

and my very least favorite sway tactic that I hate above all others, O+12, is debunked here. https://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/35539-no-12-a.html

No matter what, sending you tons of pink dust!!

[MrsLolly]

Thanks for your replies well I did get my BFP last month so fingers crossed for pink ���� I am currently 4+3 weeks pregnant xx

[atomic sagebrush]

Congrats and pink dust coming your way!

[MrsLolly]

Hi

I just wanted to update my post and let you know we are having a baby girl ��

Absolutely over the moon not sure if our sway worked or if we were just meant to have her either way we are very excited to meet her in May!

We had an early gender scan at 16 weeks she’s all girl ��

Xx

[MrsLolly]

Also we used a lot of sylk lube in our sway!! X

[atomic sagebrush]

That's great! If you have the time to fill out an add your sway and add your info to the questionnaire it's all in this: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-your-girl-sway-/ really helps us out!