Daisycarty
September 15th, 2017, 08:48 AM
Hi Everyone,
I have been silently reading this site for some time now. I am 33 and ttc my 3rd and final baby and would like to sway for a girl after my 2 ds who are 4 and 6. I had a mc at 20 weeks last year and haven't felt ready to try until now. I had serious GD with DS2 and although he is the absolute light of my life now, I really want to increase my chances of pink tutus this time around.
I'm afraid however I have utterly confused myself by reading too much. My current situation is I'm on CD5 and near the end of my af, I have a 26 day cycle and have a regular O on CD12, so I had plans of FB from the end of af until CD9 giving myself a 3 day cut off.
DH has been abstaining for 10 days so far but I have just read that abstaining isn't ideal for him as he is 40. I have been dieting, chinese calendar is predicting a girl and I was all lined up to start dtd as of tomorrow potentially with FB until +OPK and now think I have completely screwed up my sway and have no idea what direction I should go in.
I feel pretty deflated after finally plucking up the courage to go again, sigh, help please ladies, is there anyway out of this mess so I don't miss this month?
I have been silently reading this site for some time now. I am 33 and ttc my 3rd and final baby and would like to sway for a girl after my 2 ds who are 4 and 6. I had a mc at 20 weeks last year and haven't felt ready to try until now. I had serious GD with DS2 and although he is the absolute light of my life now, I really want to increase my chances of pink tutus this time around.
I'm afraid however I have utterly confused myself by reading too much. My current situation is I'm on CD5 and near the end of my af, I have a 26 day cycle and have a regular O on CD12, so I had plans of FB from the end of af until CD9 giving myself a 3 day cut off.
DH has been abstaining for 10 days so far but I have just read that abstaining isn't ideal for him as he is 40. I have been dieting, chinese calendar is predicting a girl and I was all lined up to start dtd as of tomorrow potentially with FB until +OPK and now think I have completely screwed up my sway and have no idea what direction I should go in.
I feel pretty deflated after finally plucking up the courage to go again, sigh, help please ladies, is there anyway out of this mess so I don't miss this month?