Gender guesses please.

[netti02]

U/S today showed baby measuring 12wk5d. Pics are not that great and im not sure if I can see anything myself however feel free to have a guess.

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[XXforhubby]

I’m giving a girl guess based on pic 2. It looks much like the pic that was printed for me at my DD’s NT scan. I hope I’m right 🤞🏻[emoji1317]!!


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[netti02]

Thanks XX. I thought so too with that pic. Not getting my hopes up but its certainly stumped my thoughts on definitely thinking boy. So it's back to 50/50 🤣

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[kittendreams]

Girly vibe for me too- I hope this is your girl xx

[ksmom]

Thinking girl as well based on 2nd pic. FX for pink!!!

[Faithinpink]

Fingers crossed this is ur girl 2nd pic does look girly x

[netti02]

Thanks ladies. I must have stared at these pics a thousand times and put doubt back in there again. I guess not much longer either way. Makes me wish our NIpT tests weren't so expensive.

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[netti02]

Ill be booking in for gender scan in 2 weeks. They start from 14weeks and its not that expensive. A little far to travel but well worth my sanity [emoji6] ill be almost 15 weeks so should be accurate enough.

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[Pink Pony]

Fingers crossed for you Netti

[Pbn3]

You know I'm thinking pink [emoji6] fx fx fx fx [emoji176] [emoji178] [emoji177]

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[LMSM]

That second pic doesn't show any boy looking nub at least so you can definitely be hopeful!!!! Have aaaaallllll my pink dust :D

[netti02]

Any further guesses. Just over a week til my gender scan

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[frankie2017]

Any further guesses. Just over a week til my gender scan

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Hi Netti, are u in Aus? And hoping for a girl right? I just keep seeing your name pop up! Is your sway up somewhere ? I'm in Sydney and just started to sway... unless we dtd too close to O last week, I'm sort of waiting to find out - next week af Is due so well see.. if so, my sway is not the best.
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[TtcBlue18]

Ill be booking in for gender scan in 2 weeks. They start from 14weeks and its not that expensive. A little far to travel but well worth my sanity [emoji6] ill be almost 15 weeks so should be accurate enough.

Sent from my SM-G935F using TapatalkNetti, I had my gender scan at 14.5 weeks and it was very obvious it's a boy. I thought they would have to look very closely and carefully, and thought their prediction may be inaccurate, but nope. Very clear and obvious. 15 weeks is plenty! I'm guessing girl on yours because if you're 13 weeks, that's only a little earlier than I was when I found out gender, and I don't see anything on yours like I could on mine! Fx for you! [emoji178][emoji178]

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[Mummyof4boys]

Girl guess

[netti02]

Frankie- yes im in Aus and 🤞🤞 for girl. i haven't popped a sway up as yet. I wouldn't really call what i was doing a sway. I tried a few things with ds5 which obv didn't work out. Im a night shifter so I have alot of bad habits 🤣 strangely enough since ds5 was born I couldn't stomach breakfast anymore and maybe just a coffee for breakfast. Exercise was when I could fit anything in but 5 boys and FT work not happening much [emoji16]

I thought about what is one of the consistent things we've done with our boys. It was Typically dtd every 4 days. This time we tried FR with 1 or at most 2 attempts depending on when O was as I didn't get a strong OPK. Lets see if it worked. Fx for you next week.

Thanks for the guesses. Im eagerly awaiting my NT results as im hoping there will be more pics. Hopefully tmro or early next week.

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[TtcBlue18]

Frankie- yes im in Aus and 🤞🤞 for girl. i haven't popped a sway up as yet. I wouldn't really call what i was doing a sway. I tried a few things with ds5 which obv didn't work out. Im a night shifter so I have alot of bad habits 🤣 strangely enough since ds5 was born I couldn't stomach breakfast anymore and maybe just a coffee for breakfast. Exercise was when I could fit anything in but 5 boys and FT work not happening much [emoji16]

I thought about what is one of the consistent things we've done with our boys. It was Typically dtd every 4 days. This time we tried FR with 1 or at most 2 attempts depending on when O was as I didn't get a strong OPK. Lets see if it worked. Fx for you next week.

Thanks for the guesses. Im eagerly awaiting my NT results as im hoping there will be more pics. Hopefully tmro or early next week.

Sent from my SM-G935F using TapatalkNetti, I think those are the most important changes (just my opinion)! I'm a huge coffee drinker, always did skip breakfast for add long add I can remember, and dh and I have always had a hard time making time for BDing. So needless to say, dd1 and dd2 were both concieved from 1 attempt. When I started swaying I made a lot of changes, but those 3 were by far the most drastic differences and hardest for me to keep up with. And resulted in a boy. So I think if you were going to change anything at all, you picked some really good ones! I really hope this is your girl!

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[netti02]

Thanks Ttc. I just keep looking at my scan pics with all but hope and then sometimes sadness that it just can't be possible [emoji31]

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[TtcBlue18]

That's how I felt too, but it doesn't mean anything.. I still feel like it's too good to be true and have dreams that I give birth to a girl. Even after my gender scan and seeing for myself. Just hang in there, you will know soon!

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[netti02]

Tell me what you think ladies. That potty style shot threw me off abit however doesn't look like typical boy parts. Baby was measuring closer to 13 weeks as per scanhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171013/1838997999291ef16475b9bd9cead11d.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171013/abd5a219cce26b83058090ab07baa171.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171013/2447378125e6e8a78fe773c1d77017be.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171013/fe9d0ade31d3b1ed8f1480c3b2abd3ad.jpg

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[netti02]

That's how I felt too, but it doesn't mean anything.. I still feel like it's too good to be true and have dreams that I give birth to a girl. Even after my gender scan and seeing for myself. Just hang in there, you will know soon!

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[Pbn3]

Netti I cant see anything definitive from these [emoji853] how long until you find out for sure?

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[netti02]

Still another week [emoji24][emoji24]

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[Magical22]

Good luck netti! Fx for pink


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[4blue2pink]

Good luck for your scan Netti fingers crossed this is your little girl :XX:

[netti02]

6 days...... its going to be a slow week

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[sjcook]

Netti I am so bad with Ultrasounds so I don't think im qualified to guess! Lol but I am so excited for you, next week will fly by!

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[netti02]

Was looking at my u/s pics. (I think i will be til Saturday) and the part that i was referring to as a potty shot doesn't appear to be. I believe its the top looking down. I found the cord measurements right next to it so id say thats cord.

I also found another pic where baby is squashed to one side of my uterus when they were doing cervix measurements. That may be a potty shot but very hard to tell much as pic of baby is so small.

My bf got confirmation today at gender u/s she is definitely having a girl.

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[mmc306]

I am leaning toward girl!

[netti02]

Thanks mmc. Will know in 4 days time

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[netti02]

Scan is tomorrow morning in about 21 hours time [emoji54]

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[Pbn3]

Cannot wait Netti!!! How's the tummy feeling? [emoji6]

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[netti02]

Full of nerves. Lucky i have work to keep my mind busy tonight there won't be much sleeping anyway [emoji23]

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[XXforhubby]

I’ll be stalking Netti! What time zone are you in so I know when to start stalking [emoji102][emoji352]!


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[XXforhubby]

Oh, I just realized you’re getting your scan this morning- you must be in Australia then and not the US, haha!


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[netti02]

Yes [emoji16] only about 10 hours to go. Im working night shift so that will keep me busy a while [emoji2]

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[XXforhubby]

Yes [emoji16] only about 10 hours to go. Im working night shift so that will keep me busy a while [emoji2]

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Woohoo! It will be evening/night time for me then! I’ll be stalking before I go to bed 🤞🏻[emoji175][emoji102][emoji352]!


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[Milybaby]

Good luck Netti [emoji256]🤞[emoji8]


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[Mommy2apples]

Too excited for your results Netti!!


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[Magical22]

Good luck today!


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[Pbn3]

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[XXforhubby]

🤞🏻[emoji1317][emoji175][emoji102][emoji352]!


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[netti02]

Lol on my way there now [emoji16]

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[Babygirlquest]

I’m guessing girl from the pics though not too clear! Hope I’m right!

[netti02]

Its a boy. I really thought we had a chance this time. It hurts but my heart is so done with feeling this way. I changed so much of my life to have a chance at having a daughter and thats what it always was, a chance not a guarantee.

Part of me will always wonder and unfortunately thats what it will always do. The best thing i need to do now is look after my boys, make sure they grow up good and look after myself. Ive lost myself so much along the way pouring so much into a plan for babies in hopes of a girl.

Part of me feels so foolish to think it was ever possible. I knew in my heart it was always one of those dream come true, far away fairy tales because i know if it were to happen its what it would feel like. And i guess i always had hope.

Not in a million years, if someone had told me 15 years ago id have 6 boys i would have laughed, the whole thought whilst not impossible just doesn't even sound possible. Just like the quest for a daughter i guess.

Part of me doesn't feel upset more foolish that I believed it would happen. I asked so much of my husband for this chance, so much from my boys, its just unbelievable.

Part of me wants him here now in my arms to tell him i love him and he is so wanted despite the tears that continue to flow.

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[kittendreams]

Oh netti I've tears in my eyes... such heartfelt words from a truly amazing mum. You were never a fool to dream you are human it's what we do. For some reason none of us know, some dreams don't happen and it's not fair.
Sending huge congratulations on your boy and lots of love and light to heal your big heart xx

[Pbn3]

Netti sending you so much [emoji173]

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[Mommy2apples]

Oh Netti! I'm sorry you didn't hear girl, by I'm so happy for you for a healthy little baby boy. You are blessed, because a boy loves their momma as you know like no other. I wish I could comfort you take away your pain from not having a girl. So many hugs, lost for words, because I know how gd feels. You are happy for your precious bundle, but you are gutted for the other gender as well...


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[netti02]

Just including some pics of our cheeky boy. He had us in suspense at the beginning, apparently quite relaxed and snoozing with his hands behind his head and legs closed [emoji23]https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171020/da825f299cf606f281e477d31faab66c.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171020/275a173ac94b615c7b06c7773c5f17f2.jpg

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[Mommy2apples]

Such a sweetie Netti!!


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[XXforhubby]

(((Huge Hugs))) Netti! You’re an amazing mom to such an incredible family! Your boys are so very lucky to have a mom like you! Your boys are going to grow up to be amazing men!


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[ksmom]

So sorry Netti. I'm so glad your little boy is healthy but I get the sadness of not hearing girl. You're not a fool at all to think having a girl is possible. It's what the hearts of many of us here desire so very much. Congrats on your newest little man. Just imagine when your boys are all grown and having six handsome men to be so proud of. :)

[srg09cag11]

Netti, your words really struck a cord for me. I never in a million years saw myself with four little girls, and here I am ready to welcome the fourth in just a few weeks. I also really changed my lifestyle and feel so let down that I didn’t get the results I thought I would hear. Thank you for being another mom who understands what I can’t put into words to anyone in real life. Congratulations on your baby!


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[LMSM]

What a cutie, congrats for what will be yet another wonderful little boy...and god knows you know how to make cute little men!!!
I’m so sorry that you didn’t get to hear girl, I can so echo your feelings, and I know that you will love him beyond bounds, just like you do his brothers.
You are such an awesome Mumma, and wise and kind. Big big hugs :hugs:
GD is very real, and like you I felt foolish for even ever thinking I would get my boy, but in insight, what a natural desire and hope, and you did everything you could to make your dream of a girl come true. The rest was out of your hands and you couldn’t have done anything more that;you have. He must have wanted so so much to join your lovely family...Feel free to PM me if you need hon ;)

[Milybaby]

I am sorry you didn't hear girl Netti... you are an amazing mom and this little baby is lucky to come in your wonderful family❤️
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[Mummyof4boys]

Sorry you didn't hear girl, but congrats on a healthy lil man. Adorable pics! :)

[Babygirlquest]

Aw Netti I’m so sorry. It’s not wrong at all to hope for a little girl. I hope in time the pain will ease xxx

[netti02]

Its been a hellish 24 hours. I woke up this morning thinking it was not true. I got such a bad headache last night i just ended up in bed, likely from all the crying. I really hate myself right now for putting myself through this again. I should have listened to my husband, i should have listened. I guess thats what i get for asking too much.

It doesn't help ive been looking over my scan pics. One pic makes sense the rest look weird. The first pic makes sense. The other im trying to work out parts. Maybe the cord is muddling them up.

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[Imama]

So sorry Netti. I thought you will hear Girl.
I feel exactly what you are feeling. I get only Boy guesses on my NT scan so probably it’s my DS#3 due April.
I’ve been looking also over scan pics on the internet and there are many stories about wrong gender prediction. But it’s very rare.

[netti02]

Hi Ladies

Can anyone look at my potty shots and give me some insight. What are the lines coming from whats meant to be the penis? Is this some risidual image taken on the u/s or possible cord? I just cant help looking at the 'boy' pics and finding them weird.

I feel alot better today. Got out of the house and seen my dad who is going through a tough time with his health. So it was good to get some perspective and fresh air.

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[Pbn3]

Netti I really wish I could shed some light on your scan pics [emoji173] have you thought of scheduling another gender scan and ask for a thorough explanation of what is what during the actual scan? Or how far away is your 20w scan? Are you getting some support from hubby?

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[netti02]

Yes hubby has been amazing and i forgot he is also missing out on an experience too. The last few days were tough on us but i just needed some time which he understood.

I will be waiting til anatomy scan but ill likely go at about 18 weeks. The place that did this scan is not local to me unfortunately. For the most part everything seems boy, i just don't get those lines following on. I thought it might just be the machine picking up something else.

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[Pbn3]

Glad to hear he is being a wonderful support. So how many weeks are you now?

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[netti02]

Well the gender scan had me behind a few days. Im 15 weeks today per my dates. Scan dates is 14wk 4 days today.

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[Pbn3]

So about a month until next scan... Is 14/15w not too early for a gender scan? For some reason I had 16+ weeks in my head?

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[netti02]

I thought so too, however this particular place believes 14 weeks onwards they can tell. I can't remember if they took cord flow measurements.

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[Pbn3]

Well I'd keep assuming boy but I'd also be getting confirmation after 16w....

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[netti02]

Yes i agree. Likely boy as nothing girl jumps out at me either from the pics. Will definitely confirm at anatomy scan

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[netti02]

Well I'd keep assuming boy but I'd also be getting confirmation after 16w....

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[Magical22]

Definitely looks all boy, I don’t mean to upset you but also don’t want to give you false hope. I’m sorry you didn’t hear girl but that is one gorgeous son you have on the way! [emoji170]


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[netti02]

Definitely looks all boy, I don’t mean to upset you but also don’t want to give you false hope. I’m sorry you didn’t hear girl but that is one gorgeous son you have on the way! [emoji170]


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Ive pretty much lost all people to talk to about this. If i drag my husband through much more im not sure what it will do to us so i need to find my fake smile. My best friend is 2 weeks ahead and having a girl after 2 boys. Everyone else fills my head with empty words of 'at least you know what to do with a boy', or 'think of all the money you will save', 'at least you will miss the teenage drama years', 'have one more, the next one will be a girl' or the most common 'as long as its healthy'. All words, phrases that ive heard too many times and left another hole in the heart of dreams.

I have zero feelings towards this baby. I have a birth that i don't even care about but the only promising thing is the pain i will endure for feeling this way. Then i look at my other kids and think i don't even deserve them. I usually already start thinking about 1st birthday themes and i can't be bothered nor do i want to see anyone. I don't think i will bother confirming gender at anatomy scan. Im not sure my heart could take any more words...'its a ***', its words ive heard far too many times. And the way i sound when i read this is like a self absorbed, selfish, ungrateful, unappreciative cow but i know those words are lies because thats not me, thats not who i am.

I've got years and years of hope and dreams that i held onto and just like that, it's gone. Not even ashes, not even dust, just non-existant, gone.

The part of me keeps thinking, i should have stuck with the wonder. The wonder if the next one would have been a girl, the wonder that had abit of hope left. Not what I'm feeling now, not this. I don't even know what it is. I don't even know if it has a name.



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[Shannshaff]

HUGS Netti!!!! Praying for you. I know EXACTLY how you feel right now. Praying you will feel better with time and I am very happy to hear that your little man is healthy! Let me know if you need another large boy family mom to talk to!!!

[netti02]

HUGS Netti!!!! Praying for you. I know EXACTLY how you feel right now. Praying you will feel better with time and I am very happy to hear that your little man is healthy! Let me know if you need another large boy family mom to talk to!!!Thanks Shannshaff. Part of me is just so dumb founded and speechless ive had 6 bloody kids and they've all got penises!! I hope time is exactly what will help cause i certainly can't put up with myself much longer.

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[Magical22]

Magical i hope i can be positive like you one day about it. Right now im not sure if my hearts a dark abyss or a solid shut volcanic rock.

Ive pretty much lost all people to talk to about this. If i drag my husband through much more im not sure what it will do to us so i need to find my fake smile. My best friend is 2 weeks ahead and having a girl after 2 boys. Everyone else fills my head with empty words of 'at least you know what to do with a boy', or 'think of all the money you will save', 'at least you will miss the teenage drama years', 'have one more, the next one will be a girl' or the most common 'as long as its healthy'. All words, phrases that ive heard too many times and left another hole in the heart of dreams.

I have zero feelings towards this baby. I have a birth that i don't even care about but the only promising thing is the pain i will endure for feeling this way. Then i look at my other kids and think i don't even deserve them. I usually already start thinking about 1st birthday themes and i can't be bothered nor do i want to see anyone. I don't think i will bother confirming gender at anatomy scan. Im not sure my heart could take any more words...'its a ***', its words ive heard far too many times. And the way i sound when i read this is like a self absorbed, selfish, ungrateful, unappreciative cow but i know those words are lies because thats not me, thats not who i am.

I've got years and years of hope and dreams that i held onto and just like that, it's gone. Not even ashes, not even dust, just non-existant, gone.

The part of me keeps thinking, i should have stuck with the wonder. The wonder if the next one would have been a girl, the wonder that had abit of hope left. Not what I'm feeling now, not this. I don't even know what it is. I don't even know if it has a name.



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We are all hear for you! I may not have 6 sons but I have 3 so can relate to an extent. For me having kids is so difficult to begin with years of trying clomid, injections, IVF. DH didn’t want 2 kids so to push him to 3 was crazy! We did HT in the US which failed I’ve had 3 miscarriages and 1 D&C (the day my niece was born) life can be so unfair can’t it. My friends so easily get PP. I have suffered severe depression I have seen a therapist, the guilt I feel pushing my husband for just 1 more (something I do now) the guilt over money wasted, it’s all so crazy. Don’t ever think your alone we are all hear for you, we can relate we understand, gentle hugs lovely! X


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[netti02]

Just to update ladies. After much deliberation, im disregarding my u/s pics. They do not make any sense in the slightest to confirm either gender. I have pretty much confirmed that what is pointing to boy in 1st pic is clearly cord. You can see where it travels off the supposed penis and around to the placenta. This pic also doesn't clearly identify boy bits as where i should 'see' the scrotum its not even attached at the base. There is also another pic with cord. Side profile looks girly. And another potty shot is not able to identify either. 3d pics don't really show much either to have me give a guess, other than 50/50.

I think it was just too early to be able to tell and i am not a small woman and that plays a part. I wish i had asked a 100 times if they were correct rather than face value. The heartache for an indeterminable result and waste of $$ has me furious especially when I voiced my concerns a few days later only to be brushed off. I will await anatomy scan and leave them my review after. So for me its still 50/50.

Ive also had some feedback about the pics with the same thoughts as mine and that they really don't provide any answer to a specific gender. Now to wait patiently til mid November. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171027/c78df970786e852161c3519758c2629b.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171027/5cca36a5165ca22096fa9898602e3d93.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171027/088e3abd3e31a8e5e869d66e0066bfb1.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171027/f2c0b0dc81c824bd9af8151d082771cb.jpg

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[mmc306]

The pic where they labeled boy is confusing to me because it doesn't even look like connected boy parts... The other photo definitely looks more girl than the other one looks boy, if that makes sense? The boy pic definitely reminds me of a cord photo. I'm not convinced, I don't even see the testicle shadows. I will be following to find out!

[mmc306]

Did you not do the blood test then?

[netti02]

Blood test is $400 here in Australia [emoji58] I already paid $100 for this scan and i won't be able to get anymore til anatomy.

But thankyou for pointing out what i also think is off with the pics. Im trying to be patient. Anatomy scan will be in a few weeks.

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[atomic sagebrush]

Oh Netti I am so sorry it didn't go your way.

BUT I do want to congratulate you on having an amazing and unique family and a beautiful baby boy on the way. :heart:

[atomic sagebrush]

oh just read the last post - FX and TX too!!!

[netti02]

oh just read the last post - FX and TX too!!!Thanks Atomic. A few more weeks to go. Hopefully baby will cooperate too 🤣

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[TtcBlue18]

Netti,
I haven't been on recently but I've been eager to check in on you specifically. I thought for sure you would hear girl! I have to say I'm very surprised. Some of your ultrasound pictures do look a bit confusing to me as well, but also I wanted to tell you this...
I had my gender scan done at 14 weeks 3 days this time. I, like you, went to a place specifically for early gender prediction that can tell from 14 weeks on (but they don't guarentee results until 15 weeks). I'm having a boy. My potty shot looks identical to yours. However your side view is confusing to me because my side view was much more prominent than the potty shots. And I do mean very, very clear.
I think you should definitely prepare yourself for another wonderful son, but if you have any doubts maybe you could compare your ultrasounds to others who had gender scans at 14-15 weeks and hold out a little hope for your 20 week scan. I think it's a slim chance that they are wrong, but there is always a chance and I have my fingers crossed for you.
I know I can't relate to all your feelings of gd, but I know how it is when you feel like you have no one and just need to fake a smile instead of bringing others down too. I'll be here if ever you need to talk. Please message me any time. [emoji173][emoji173][emoji173]

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[netti02]

Netti,
I haven't been on recently but I've been eager to check in on you specifically. I thought for sure you would hear girl! I have to say I'm very surprised. Some of your ultrasound pictures do look a bit confusing to me as well, but also I wanted to tell you this...
I had my gender scan done at 14 weeks 3 days this time. I, like you, went to a place specifically for early gender prediction that can tell from 14 weeks on (but they don't guarentee results until 15 weeks). I'm having a boy. My potty shot looks identical to yours. However your side view is confusing to me because my side view was much more prominent than the potty shots. And I do mean very, very clear.
I think you should definitely prepare yourself for another wonderful son, but if you have any doubts maybe you could compare your ultrasounds to others who had gender scans at 14-15 weeks and hold out a little hope for your 20 week scan. I think it's a slim chance that they are wrong, but there is always a chance and I have my fingers crossed for you.
I know I can't relate to all your feelings of gd, but I know how it is when you feel like you have no one and just need to fake a smile instead of bringing others down too. I'll be here if ever you need to talk. Please message me any time. [emoji173][emoji173][emoji173]

Sent from my SM-T377V using TapatalkThanks Ttcblue. Did you have any pics i can compare? I have looked alot online and i think i found one out of all i seen that kind of look like mine yet mine still had the questionable cord in the way.

I haven't found many side pics to compare mine too either but the penis could be obviously not the right angle to be seen.

Im just trying to keep busy until my anatomy scan.

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[TtcBlue18]

For some reason I haven't been able to get my pictures to post using tapatalk. I'll play with it for a little bit and see if I can get the pictures to you because I really do feel like ours are comparable. I know angle and stuff plays a role too, but we had our ultrasounds at the exact same time, clear down to the day, and at similar facilities so I feel like that's a pretty darn good comparison! [emoji3]

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[netti02]

Thanks Ttcblue. The closer its gets to my scan, the more im losing any bit of hope i have left anyway. It always felt like it was too good to be true and probably is.

To top it off one of my other school friends is due in February. Whilst she has no official confirmation as yet of gender, during one of her scans the ob said he couldn't see anything between the legs. Just feels like a bigger kick in the guts. 2 friends who are expecting girls after 2 boys around the same time as me, and here i am 6th boy on. At least i know after this its done. No more anxiety, no more hoping. Family completed.

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[Faithinpink]

Hi netti just wanting to send u big huge hug . :hug2:
always remember boys love there mammas to bits
Thinking of u Xo

[TtcBlue18]

Thanks Ttcblue. The closer its gets to my scan, the more im losing any bit of hope i have left anyway. It always felt like it was too good to be true and probably is.

To top it off one of my other school friends is due in February. Whilst she has no official confirmation as yet of gender, during one of her scans the ob said he couldn't see anything between the legs. Just feels like a bigger kick in the guts. 2 friends who are expecting girls after 2 boys around the same time as me, and here i am 6th boy on. At least i know after this its done. No more anxiety, no more hoping. Family completed.

Sent from my SM-G935F using TapatalkI'm sorry netti [emoji45] I don't think you should loose hope just yet, but just look at your handsome sons and think about how lost you would be without even one of them.. If that little baby is another boy, he was very determined and must have really needed you.
I felt the same way with this baby before I found out the gender. I kept telling myself whatever he/she is won't change regardless how much I stress over it. I also found comfort in knowing this is my last as well (regardless of gender) and knowing I would never have to go through the anticipation, worry and stress again.
I would constantly think of reasons why a 3rd girl would be nice. I'd tell myself how close my kids would be; the bond.. That they could all share the same room, and I would think of great things to do with the extra room [emoji6] I loved the girl name I picked out, and I live shopping for babies. By the time I thought of all these positive things, I actually wanted another girl instead of the boy I swayed for. Try to think of the positive things that will come of this if you have another son. [emoji173][emoji173][emoji173]

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[netti02]

I'm sorry netti [emoji45] I don't think you should loose hope just yet, but just look at your handsome sons and think about how lost you would be without even one of them.. If that little baby is another boy, he was very determined and must have really needed you.
I felt the same way with this baby before I found out the gender. I kept telling myself whatever he/she is won't change regardless how much I stress over it. I also found comfort in knowing this is my last as well (regardless of gender) and knowing I would never have to go through the anticipation, worry and stress again.
I would constantly think of reasons why a 3rd girl would be nice. I'd tell myself how close my kids would be; the bond.. That they could all share the same room, and I would think of great things to do with the extra room [emoji6] I loved the girl name I picked out, and I live shopping for babies. By the time I thought of all these positive things, I actually wanted another girl instead of the boy I swayed for. Try to think of the positive things that will come of this if you have another son. [emoji173][emoji173][emoji173]

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[ksmom]

When is your anatomy scan Netti? I have everything crossed so tight for you this is your daughter. :fx:

[netti02]

When is your anatomy scan Netti? I have everything crossed so tight for you this is your daughter. :fx:In less than 3 hours [emoji16]

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[ksmom]

Ahhh so exciting! Will be thinking pink!!! Good luck!! :cheer:

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[netti02]

For a while when the scan started i couldn't see anything between the legs. Tech thought it might have been a girl too. Well that's the closest i ever got to having a girl.

When i actually asked if we could tell the gender there were the goods hiding very well. We didn't spend alot of time on it but it was obvious. Its a either a boy or a girl with a penis so he put it. Im not sure if a pic was included with my scan as i won't be able to pick them up just yet.

Everything else looked good and a typical boy heartbeat of 136. I have to have a scan in a few weeks to check the heart as things weren't as clear as i was measuring a little early at 17+5 but ill make sure i confirm gender again.

Not sure how to feel right now. Truth be told i just don't have the energy to spend dwelling on it. Between everything going on right now in my world i just don't have the time or energy to be upset.

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[Pbn3]

Sending you [emoji173] and strength Netti xxoo

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[ksmom]

I'm so sorry Netti. :( :bighug:

[TtcBlue18]

Sending big hugs your way, Netti. Congratulations on your healthy baby boy. Keep your head up. [emoji173]

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[HappyLea]

Sending you huge hugs netti :bighug:

Congratulations on your little boy, he will be totally amazing :xy::heart:

I honestly think I will be joining you on Monday with expecting baby boy #6 :kiss:

[JaneL]

I also think I will be joining the boy club on Sunday after my scan - not 6 boys tho, I wil have 3. This is our last tho!

Thinking of you all x

[netti02]

I hope you ladies hear girl xx

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