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Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 02:58 AM
TTC a BOY Sway Attempt
Gender Result:
Boy
DW Age:
35
DH Age:
37
Current Children's Gender(s)
1 Daughter
Number of Months TTC
3
Did you purchase and follow a GD Personalized Plan?
No
MINERALS
Calcium Intake(Please describe)
From Prenatals and diet.
Magnesium Intake(Please describe)
From Prenatals
Potassium Intake(Please describe)
From Prenatals and Diet.
Sodium Intake(Please describe)
From Diet.
SUPPLEMENTS USED
DW Supplements Robitussin/Guafanesin tablets
Fish Oil
Folic Acid


DH Supplements Fish Oil
Multi-vitamin


Any additional supplement info?
We ttc during summer so I would get Vitamin-D by staying in Sun for 10-15min everyday.
DIET
Did you follow a diet plan?
Yes
If yes to diet, which one did you most follow? HE(High Everything)


Comments regarding DW's diet changes-
Before starting the HE diet,I always skipped breakfast and would stay without eating for longer duration. I totally changed my eating habits. Ate breakfast everyday and my go to breakfast was overnight oats.I started drinking whole milk.Ate nuts in between meals.Red meat or Chicken 3-4 times a week.I drank banana,spinach,dates and coconut milk smoothie which is delicious and healthy. Our food is mostly salty and spicy and includes Potatoes(A few times in a week).I couldn't drink lemon water but tried to include a few glasses close to Ovulation.I avoided eating sugary food.Made healthy lifestyle changes and tried to eat before getting too hungry.
If diet was used, length of time before attempt?
4-5 months.
Did you skip breakfast regularly?
No
Did DH change his diet with you?
Yes
Comments regarding DH's diet-
Ate pretty much what I ate.
DId you consume alcohol? No


DId you try to limit caffeine?
Yes, I cutback
Any Diet Details?
We eat home cooked vegetables with wheat bread. Our diet includes eating White rice atleast once a week.I cook all the lentils,beans and curries at home.
Any Diet Comments/Additional Info?
We increased our meat intake and switched to full fat milk.I drink tea with Milk.Never was a coffee drinker anyway.
WEIGHT AND EXERCISE
What did you weigh/BMI do leading up to O?
I have always been overweight and may have gained 5-8 pounds while I was on the HE diet.
Any Weight/Exercise related additional info/comments?
This is the one thing that I couldn't do but tried to whenever I could in any way.
THINGS in VG and CONCEPTION DATE(CD) INFO
pH Before Starting a Sway Program, if known
Never Checked
Any VG potions used? NO


CM pH at attempt
-
DH pH
-
THE DEED INFO
How many BD attempts did you make for the BFP cycle?
3
BD Pattern Other


BD Dates according to Ovulation 3 Days Before O
2 Days Before O
O Day


BD Position
Doggy style
Any additional comments?
I was always scared to do unprotected bd before positive Ovulation test.I used ebay cheapies and Clearblue digital to keep track of my Ovulation for months.A lot of my friends got their boys by having sex close to Ovulation and I guess a part of me was also hung up on the Shettles method even though I know its been dubunked. I am just trying to mention every detail I can. So we did bd every few days before Ovulation but always protected. Then I would have dh not release day before Positive O test.Once I got the Solid smiley face, we would bd that night the next morning and night and the night after that which was almost impossible for us.
So,from cycle 2 we decided to bd every night after Positive O test. And we waited for atleast 10 hours after the solid smiley face to have our first attempt because I always got pos O test with fmu and we could only bd at night.
Any relevant attempt details?
We got our bfp in the 3rd cycle of ttc. I almost thought of skipping that month but didn't n I was sure it won't happen that soon for me because it took time for us to get a bfp with our first. I was more relaxed that cycle.I took Mucinex tablets all 3 cycles starting from cd 12 till O. I remember having one beer before two of those 3 attempts to lighten things a little.:)
We did doggy style and then I would carefully turn after 10-15 min on my back and keep my legs elevated and had big O after each of those 3 attempts. We bd 10 hours after Positive O test,the next night and couldn't bd the 3rd night but for some reason i didn't have a temp spike the next morning like I was expecting it so we did have our 3rd attempt that night and I got the temp rise the next morning. Hope I m not confusing anyone.
Did you do anything with Ions?
Just had my phone close to me.
Moon Phase during conception?
-
Did you use any Old Wives Tales?
No
Things that make me feel great about my sway:
I did almost everything I could do.I started taking my prenatals from Jan 1st and stopped drinking(never was a regular drinker anyway) Changing my diet.I was not confident if the sway would work because dh smokes and drinks. I just wanted to make sure that I tried.
Things that make me nervous about my sway:
DH's smoking and drinking. He did cut down on his drinks around O and attempt time. He takes a few drinks from Friday- Sunday.Our bd pattern. It was a risk I took since everyone here got their boys by bding eod unprotected. Dh wasn't regular in taking his supplements.
Things worth mentioning:
Mucinex helped a lot with CM. Charting with bbt was the best thing to do.I finally understood my body.
Overall, coming to this site of wonderful people was the best decision I ever took.
Thank you Atomic for the knowledge here and always being so helpful.
Pbn - You have helped me so much throughout this journey. I can not thank you enough.
So blessed to be a part of Gender Dreaming.I really hope everyone gets the gender they desire.

Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 03:06 AM
Why isn’t it showing the full sway. I can see it on my laptop. [emoji52]


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Pbn3
October 11th, 2017, 04:50 AM
Skyblue I just came across this as in the heading caught my eye! Cant believe it [emoji23] how's that for coincidence!!! Anyway I can see your whole sway or at least what is normally shown in others I've read?

Congratulations again dear lady [emoji173] what a fabulous sway and even more fabulous result! So freaking happy for you [emoji170][emoji170][emoji170] and it has been an absolute pleasure meeting you and glad I was of some help xxoo

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LMSM
October 11th, 2017, 05:34 AM
Congrats again hon! Our sway was so similar ;)

Mommy2apples
October 11th, 2017, 06:44 AM
Sky, I can't see the whole sway, probably cause of Tapatalk, but I'm over the moon. Excited for you!!


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Pbn3
October 11th, 2017, 07:07 AM
Mommy2apples I'm on Tapatalk too and can see all of it? Which parts cant you see?

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Throwaway_panther
October 11th, 2017, 07:38 AM
Thank you for sharing your sway!! Congrats to you!!

Just to clarify, you had a few beers around O?

Mommy2apples
October 11th, 2017, 08:11 AM
Pbn, this is all I can see. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171011/f9727f4f0abd95aed02ffdff22c8e170.jpg


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Pbn3
October 11th, 2017, 08:16 AM
That's bizarre!!! I see the entire thing on Tapatalk! Would take about 10 screenshots to capture it all?!

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Mommy2apples
October 11th, 2017, 08:17 AM
lol it's crazy!


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Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 10:27 AM
Thank you for sharing your sway!! Congrats to you!!

Just to clarify, you had a few beers around O?

Thankyou!
Yes and that was only in the month we conceived. Precisely one beer before the two attempts. I know that wasn’t good for the sway but like I said, we were convinced that month wasn’t it and we would need to keep trying for long. It took us 8-9 cycles to get pregnant with dd.


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Throwaway_panther
October 11th, 2017, 11:47 AM
Thankyou!
Yes and that was only in the month we conceived. Precisely one beer before the two attempts. I know that wasn’t good for the sway but like I said, we were convinced that month wasn’t it and we would need to keep trying for long. It took us 8-9 cycles to get pregnant with dd.


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Actually, beer and red wine have ways been "ok" in moderation in blue sways! I had read something about them even helping implantation recently, so I wonder if the beer helped on more ways than one! ;)

Katie.Z
October 11th, 2017, 11:55 AM
Skyblue congratulations!!! What an amazing sway. Just to clarify, I want to make sure I understand correctly... instead of BD 3 Days before O, 2 days before and on O, your first BD was ON O day and then two more attempts thereafter?

Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 12:08 PM
Skyblue congratulations!!! What an amazing sway. Just to clarify, I want to make sure I understand correctly... instead of BD 3 Days before O, 2 days before and on O, your first BD was ON O day and then two more attempts thereafter?

Our first attempt was approximately 10 hours after the positive Ovulation test(getting solid smiley on my digi) and the second was the next night and then we couldn’t bd the night after. I was also temping and I didn’t see the temp rise indicating O the morning after the skipped bd. So, we added one more attempt that night (after the skipped bd). Also, I got my temp spike the following morning. I am not sure as to when I ovulated however I do think the 3rd attempt was closest to Ovulation.
I know it can be confusing so please ask any questions you may have. I think this is the least I can do to thank the awesome support I got here. There is no one in the world who could have helped with my journey apart from this place and all the awesome women here.
I may keep editing my sway as and when I remember something that I may have skipped.


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Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 12:10 PM
Skyblue I just came across this as in the heading caught my eye! Cant believe it [emoji23] how's that for coincidence!!! Anyway I can see your whole sway or at least what is normally shown in others I've read?

Congratulations again dear lady [emoji173] what a fabulous sway and even more fabulous result! So freaking happy for you [emoji170][emoji170][emoji170] and it has been an absolute pleasure meeting you and glad I was of some help xxoo

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Oh Thankgod you can see the whole thing. I can only see what Mommy2apples does. [emoji12]
The pleasure is all mine. I hit the jackpot when I met you. [emoji847][emoji847]


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Mommy2apples
October 11th, 2017, 12:11 PM
I agree sky! Pbn is an amazing friend to us all! She is a beautiful person inside and out!


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Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 12:11 PM
Congrats again hon! Our sway was so similar ;)

I know. Just what I thought when I read yours. ❤️



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Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 12:13 PM
Actually, beer and red wine have ways been "ok" in moderation in blue sways! I had read something about them even helping implantation recently, so I wonder if the beer helped on more ways than one! ;)

Oh wow. I didn’t know. [emoji4]


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Throwaway_panther
October 11th, 2017, 12:30 PM
I looked at your chart -- I think you actually ovulated CD 16 or CD 17, especially based on that BFP!

Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 12:32 PM
I looked at your chart -- I think you actually ovulated CD 16 or CD 17, especially based on that BFP!

I wouldn’t trust the chart a lot because we manually changed a lot of temps that cycle because ff was showing weird stuff.


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Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 12:39 PM
I don’t want to confuse anyone but I had my sister who had two girls follow the Shettles method without any diet changes and she got a boy the 3rd time. She and her dh don’t drink or smoke. I come from a heavy girls family between us siblings and my mom so I always believed that having unprotected bd or too early before O could hurt my chances. I just had a strong feeling even after reading all boy sways and. “How we got our boys” posts. The only thing I changed was having more than one attempt after positive O and I started Charting my Ovulation month’s before ttc and always had regular 28 day cycles.


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XXforhubby
October 11th, 2017, 01:46 PM
Huge congrats on your baby boy, Sky! I’m SO happy for you and your family [emoji4][emoji170]!


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Tali.kah
October 11th, 2017, 02:28 PM
Skyblue- what an amazing sway !!!!!!!!!! I can't wait to attempt my sway and like you I'm also caught up on when to BD! Feeling super scared to have unprotected BD all the time but also wanting the exposure to DH's swimmers and allowing them to build up closer to O!

Did you confirm blue at your 20 week scan?

Skyblue
October 11th, 2017, 02:33 PM
Skyblue- what an amazing sway !!!!!!!!!! I can't wait to attempt my sway and like you I'm also caught up on when to BD! Feeling super scared to have unprotected BD all the time but also wanting the exposure to DH's swimmers and allowing them to build up closer to O!

Did you confirm blue at your 20 week scan?

Thankyou! I wanted to stay team green until the baby came but dh found out at 12 weeks that it was a boy with a 60% chance. I told him strictly to not tell me and he respected that. It was then confirmed at the anatomy scan and again only he found out and then I had a follow up in 3 weeks as they couldn’t take a few measurements. And I decided to find out [emoji12].
I was also scared to bd unprotected because that’s how we got our dd and my sister too. So,dh released every couple of days incase we didn’t bd(with protection) so that the swimmers are healthy. And I would have him not release two days before expected O. All the best with your sway.


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Skyblue
October 12th, 2017, 01:45 AM
Huge congrats on your baby boy, Sky! I’m SO happy for you and your family [emoji4][emoji170]!


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[emoji254]Thank you Gender Dreaming for our precious little girl![emoji254]

How are you doing dear? Hope you are back home. Your daughter is gorgeous. I am in love with all the pics. [emoji175]


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XXforhubby
October 12th, 2017, 12:57 PM
How are you doing dear? Hope you are back home. Your daughter is gorgeous. I am in love with all the pics. [emoji175]


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Awe, thanks for asking! I am back home- I was discharged yesterday afternoon. My BP has been stable on 300mg of Labetolol, thank goodness!

Ms. Olivian is just the easiest, sweetest little baby to take care of! Despite me being hospitalized for PP-eclampsia, she has surpassed her birth weight at a week old 3 whole days early!

I’m just SO happy for you! I’m glad you get to experience having a little boy! They are SO much fun and super snugly with their mamas [emoji4][emoji170]!!


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atomic sagebrush
October 13th, 2017, 05:43 PM
Oh that's fabulous news!! Hugest congrats!!

Skyblue
October 13th, 2017, 06:29 PM
Awe, thanks for asking! I am back home- I was discharged yesterday afternoon. My BP has been stable on 300mg of Labetolol, thank goodness!

Ms. Olivian is just the easiest, sweetest little baby to take care of! Despite me being hospitalized for PP-eclampsia, she has surpassed her birth weight at a week old 3 whole days early!

I’m just SO happy for you! I’m glad you get to experience having a little boy! They are SO much fun and super snugly with their mamas [emoji4][emoji170]!!


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[emoji254]Thank you Gender Dreaming for our precious little girl![emoji254]

Thankyou. I am so glad that you are home now. Olivian is such a beautiful name. I love that you are enjoying your little girl. It’s such a special feeling and easy baby is a bonus. I wasn’t as lucky with dd when she was born but she made up for it once she turned two. [emoji12] keep sharing pictures. ❤️


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