Embarrassing, tmi question regarding J&D!

[Girlswaylondon]

Sorry for this embarrassing question but it's playing on my mind and I know this is the only place I can ask without being judged lol!!

Before we started swaying or ttc, for example when I was on BC, whenever we would dtd and I'd get up to use the toilet (j&d?) I would literally see and feel it coming out of me (sorry, I told you tmi!!)

But ever since swAying, after our attempt when I get up too j&d, NOTHING I mean nothing comes out at all! I'm so confused by this, even after sitting on the toilet for a few minutes nothing is being dumped lol!

Could this be to do with me usually having a lot of cm but the diet has now changed this? I worry it's compromising my sway because I can't actually j&d?!

[atomic sagebrush]

hubby taking anything or doing anything different?

[Girlswaylondon]

Nothing at all, also noted (with outside release) the amount is completely normal!

[Star32]

Hi, I hope you don't mind me jumping in to ask how often/ many days are you doing FR and when are you BD in your fertile window?

We are trying FR and I'm worried we will run into the same issue!

[Girlswaylondon]

Not doing anything regarding FR or abstain!

[Star32]

Sorry, I misunderstood

[Girlswaylondon]

Would you recommend I be doing either of those atomic? Hubby is 27 and fit and healthy?

[atomic sagebrush]

Neither abstain nor FR has really been super effective and both cut odds of conception by a lot. The thing that works is the one attempt. It's up to you if you want to add them in.

If the amount coming out seems normal I'd try not to overthink things like this.

[Girlswaylondon]

You're right I probably am overthinking! I'm just so used to having to dart to the bathroom to avoid "spillage" that when it came to my actual attempt and j&d I was like huh?!

[Prettyplease]

Here's a TMI question... Did you orgasm or no? If you had an orgasm, you will have more CM.

[Girlswaylondon]

One of the times I did and the other I didn't, and both time nothing! it's very bizzare!

[Prettyplease]

Well... I'm excited to see how it goes either way! I'm hoping that it's the diet and you get your girl!

[Girlswaylondon]

Thank you, pretty! :)

[atomic sagebrush]

You're right I probably am overthinking! I'm just so used to having to dart to the bathroom to avoid "spillage" that when it came to my actual attempt and j&d I was like huh?!

Well, let's just take it as a good sign then. :)