lyagirl
November 16th, 2017, 10:50 AM
I have three lovely healthy happy little boys at home however I really cannot shake the feeling that I need a girl.
My sister-in-law just had a baby girl this morning, her first. If I’m completely honest and without sounding totally selfish, I can barely bring myself to acknowledge that she’s had her. I’ve sent my congratulations etc however I have absolutely no desire to go and see them (which I know sounds awful). It’s just that I really can’t bear to have it rubbed in my face. They want to come to ours for Christmas this year however the thought of spending the whole day with grandparents cooing over their new baby girl just fills me with dread and anxiety.
My husband has said that if this is so important to me that maybe we can go high-tech for baby girl. I’m just not sure I could put myself and my family through that.
Does anyone else feel like this and does it ever get any easier?
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My sister-in-law just had a baby girl this morning, her first. If I’m completely honest and without sounding totally selfish, I can barely bring myself to acknowledge that she’s had her. I’ve sent my congratulations etc however I have absolutely no desire to go and see them (which I know sounds awful). It’s just that I really can’t bear to have it rubbed in my face. They want to come to ours for Christmas this year however the thought of spending the whole day with grandparents cooing over their new baby girl just fills me with dread and anxiety.
My husband has said that if this is so important to me that maybe we can go high-tech for baby girl. I’m just not sure I could put myself and my family through that.
Does anyone else feel like this and does it ever get any easier?
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