Another time BD?? Opk is positive

[Mia2000]

Hello,

sorry for my very Bad english!
We try for a few month TTC for a girl (we have two Boys yet).
After a few trys and a long time with diet we had this cycle BD every Day for 11 days every.
This morning my OPK shows "positive".
Should We have another BD this evening???
Can anyone help us please?

Best regards

[Girlswaylondon]

Hello I know it’s not recommend to BD every day because it reduces chances of conceiving, have you tried every 4 days?

[Mia2000]

We had BD every Day :oops:

[Girlswaylondon]

Definitely don’t do that! Try every 4 days or one attempt at opk depending on how much of a rush you’re in :)

[Mia2000]

Okay.
Only a question for understanding.
Is it because every day BD "only" reduces the chance to convince or isn't it good for Swaying pink? 🤔

[Girlswaylondon]

Apparently it’s not great for pink either, I can’t find the link to what atomic wrote but I’m sure she’ll post it for you!

[Mia2000]

Atomic, can you help me please?

[Girlswaylondon]

I think this is the thread, I may be wrong!

https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/58359-what-up-bd-thru-o-pink-lately.html

[JP15]

Definitely don’t do that! Try every 4 days or one attempt at opk depending on how much of a rush you’re in :)

I am so confused, I have read that you should BD every day from AF to 2-4 days prior to ovulation. When I think I am doing the right thing I read something different :rolleyes:

[XXforhubby]

I am so confused, I have read that you should BD every day from AF to 2-4 days prior to ovulation. When I think I am doing the right thing I read something different :rolleyes:

We don’t recommend this, since it often is too much for DHs to keep up with. Either have one attempt at your first positive opk OR BD every 4 days from when AF ends until at least CD22. This works out to be only one attempt in your fertile window.


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[XXforhubby]

Some of these threads are really old and while they have good information, we may be doing different things now.


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[JP15]

Some of these threads are really old and while they have good information, we may be doing different things now.


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Thank you! I must admit the info was from like 2012.. lol

[Mia2000]

...but if the DHs to keep up with... => is BD every Day okay for Swaying pink?

[atomic sagebrush]

I am so confused, I have read that you should BD every day from AF to 2-4 days prior to ovulation. When I think I am doing the right thing I read something different :rolleyes:

well, ya didn't read that here, I can tell you that much. I have a full explanation of why not to do this here, not the first post but a few down the page. https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/58359-what-up-bd-thru-o-pink-lately.html

[atomic sagebrush]

Okay.
Only a question for understanding.
Is it because every day BD "only" reduces the chance to convince or isn't it good for Swaying pink? 🤔

It is not good for ANYTHING. Cuts odds of conception, hard for husbands to keep up with, and then it doesn't even sway pink anyway since one attempt in the fertile window = the most girls.

I have an explanation in this thread, on the first page, a few posts from the top. https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/58359-what-up-bd-thru-o-pink-lately.html

[atomic sagebrush]

to answer the original question I would stay with the attempt you already had.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you! I must admit the info was from like 2012.. lol

if you find an old thread please just ask to see if everything is still being done that way.

always happy to answer any questions you have